Strange phenomenon

loneliness-inc · 2019-08-26T03:44:25+00:00

Relevant, related recent post by u/moorekom - Romantic love as the basis for marriage/commitment

anti-hypergamist · 2019-08-25T21:08:36+00:00

She thought her bf was a beta bitch and wouldn't be able to get any other women and that is the real reason she felt comfortable opening up the relationship.

miguelcar · 2019-08-25T19:52:37+00:00

Lol. I would pay to see that.

She meant she wanted to ride the carousel, and for him to basically become celibate and ignore the times she goes on the ride.

If I were that guy I'd keep at it, break up with her, and send her videos of my wild times.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2019-08-25T20:18:30+00:00

There's wisdom in Daniel's words: "you've tied my hands. If I tell you I forbid it, I'll still be worried if you're being true to your word. By expressing that this is what you want, there's nothing I can do to stop you."

I hope he was just using her apartment while she was gone, and planned on breaking up when she returned.

Women who try to open up a relationship are barely even worthy of plate status - nothing serious at all.

stephcurryftw · 2019-08-25T19:41:05+00:00

Amazing story with a satisfying ending. They need make this into a movie.

Thetrvler · 2019-08-25T20:12:00+00:00

I’ve always said the only reason a woman is sad/mad is because she didn’t do “it” first.

daryl_feral · 2019-08-25T22:58:28+00:00

Who the fuck gets an "extended holiday" for 3 months at the age of 25?

Seriously, is this a European thing, or just a slacker American thot thing?

My daughter is 26. She and her husband are both nurses and childless. They take about 3 weeks of trips every year. (Something I only dreamed of at her age, but they've proudly earned it.)

But 3 fucking months...?

LotBuilder · 2019-08-25T21:36:22+00:00

IF this is true then she has more integrity than most young women by admitting she would have sex on her trip.

Juxee · 2019-08-25T22:15:03+00:00

Any time a woman wants to open the relationship, it’s never for this reason. She already has someone in mind, and is politely asking permission.

I’ve never had to deal with open relationships, but you can guarantee that they will all fail if it’s ever brought up after dating begins.

HNutz · 2019-08-25T21:57:03+00:00

She didn't think he would actually get any.

Good on him!

Keisuke_Takahiro · 2019-08-25T21:59:52+00:00

Sometimes the only thing to do is to fucking accept your punishment. This fucking hole can't even do that, she has to pretend to call it off that way she can gaslight her boyfriend and herself to be in the right and then blame the boyfriend for her actions. Such a shit human being.

Cristoff13 · 2019-08-25T20:03:54+00:00

Story is probably fake. What are the odds some neighbor would actually care enough that her boyfriend is fucking another women, and bother sending a message to her while she's on holiday.

landyvibe · 2019-08-25T21:34:03+00:00

This is like going in the ring to fight and when the bell rings you hit yourself in the balls or ladyballs!

JackReaper333 · 2019-08-26T00:30:16+00:00

This is old but every time it surfaces it gives me a good chuckle. No way to verify the validity of course. If it is true, I guarantee that the woman wound up banging as many dudes as possible on her trip out of revenge before coming home and telling her boyfriend about her having sex as much as possible in an attempt to hurt him. Im sure their relationship fell apart soon after.

I actually have a male friend, we'll call him D, who had something similar happen. D married fairly young and his wife decided she wanted to start banging other dudes. She convinced D to become "polyamorous" and immediately started fucking all the other guys she had lined up. D doesn't have any luck finding any other women to be with. Several months go by and D meets a nice girl and decides to start seeing her. His wife flips her shit, decides that being polyamorous was "an experiment that just didn't work for them" and demand that they become monogamous again. D disagrees and starts seeing this other woman. D's wife has a meltdown and they wind up divorcing. D begins steadily seeing this new girl and actually starts meeting other fun people through his local polyamory group.

TacoSupremeVictory · 2019-08-25T23:47:47+00:00

Who in the holy fuck gets to take a 3 month vacation??? Sounds like a trust fund bitch right there.

Seagram7 · 2019-08-26T06:01:09+00:00

and I have a feeling I know exactly who it is, a girl from his work who is overly flirty with him

So, she is telling us that she knew another girl had interest in her man and she brought up this stupid idea anyway?

The relationship is doomed because while she is on her dream vacation, the girl at home is sucking his brains out every night and demonstrating through action that she is the better girlfriend. "Oh honey, if you were all mine I would never want to even consider an open relationship!"

Aldabruzzo · 2019-08-26T13:22:23+00:00

And the moral of this story is:

"What's OK for me isn't OK for you. I, the woman, can go out and open our relationship and have sex with other men while I'm out on a "girls' holiday". But you cannot have sex with other women, especially if i know the woman you're fucking and especially when I can't do anything about it.

"And if I do find out you're having sex with other women, which is, you know, FAIR GAME because I'm having sex with other men, I'll lose my shit. Because it was all fun and games until YOU did this 'turnabout is fair play' shit on me.

"That's not fair. It's not fair that you get to do the same things I do. It's not fair that you get to turn my own words against me. It's not fair that you're using what I said and turning it against me. That's not fair. NOT FAIR."

SilverGryphon · 2019-08-26T05:12:33+00:00

Time and time again we see these kind of posts where the guy is more successful than the girl in finding other people to bang and then she gets upset about it.

As always if it were the other way round, he would have been told to suck it up and let her enjoy her sexuality. It is nice to see the dual mating strategy blow up in some thot's face.

The best story so far remains of that man who started to bang every barely legal tranny he could find in town after his landwhale wife opened up the relationship and she found no one else to fuck, that has to be one of the funniest posts I have here seen on reddit.

Mrmcfeffers · 2019-08-25T22:25:49+00:00

Someone tldr pls my brain is running on like 3 hours of sleep

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2019-08-26T02:34:31+00:00

One of my first redpills. This is one of those reposts that never gets old

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2019-08-26T16:54:54+00:00

I am a fucking wreck and need other womens opinions

Motherfucker, listening to a woman's opinion is what got you into this mess. Why don't we ask Hillary Clinton for advice on how to win an election while we're at it?

miguelcar · 2019-08-26T03:52:17+00:00

Lol. Yup. If she falls and trips on chads cock what is she supposed to do?

NoFaithInThisSub · 2019-08-25T22:58:37+00:00

retards gonna retard.

BlueSkiesOneCloud · 2019-08-25T22:19:44+00:00

anyone got link to post?

roughback · 2019-08-25T23:53:26+00:00

This should be a Tyler Perry movie, i'd watch it and laugh

CarlCarlton · 2019-08-26T02:50:12+00:00

Daniel you fucking legend

Ice-Berg-Hermit · 2019-08-26T05:12:53+00:00

She never loved him she just liked controlling him

macktheknive · 2019-08-26T12:46:39+00:00

I'd love to read it but female 'reasoning and explaining', it tires my mind in about .00098 of a nano second and bore and confuse me even quicker.

Honest_Maximum · 2019-08-26T02:27:04+00:00

Are open relationships actually a thing? Like I dont think any man would do that or are men that desperate?

AS1776 · 2019-08-26T04:17:38+00:00

“Have the capacity to be cruel, but choose not to.”

She wished to switch up the ROE, and that’s exactly what he did.

CreativeGiaton · 2019-08-26T02:11:07+00:00

Holy shit I was looking for this. Big ups man thank you

Thor-Loki-1 · 2019-08-26T04:00:16+00:00

I laugh every time I see that.

TheImpossible1 · 2019-08-26T09:12:45+00:00

Oh that's fucking amazing.

Branch just snapped under her weight.

thenotoriousdougie · 2019-09-03T16:22:04+00:00

Honey, when you get back the locks are going to be changed and your shit is going to be in boxes. Have a happy life.

iamrivensky · 2019-08-26T04:31:13+00:00

This subreddit is the best!

UltimaterializerX · 2019-08-26T07:37:21+00:00

Sweet justice. Good for him.

He should dump her sorry ass immediately and never look back.

Naebany · 2019-08-26T11:15:44+00:00

This is old. But I've read it again with pleasure.

DonDorcha · 2019-08-26T12:30:07+00:00

I love seeing things backfire on them. Good on that man.

coolmw93 · 2019-08-26T14:33:09+00:00

That's so stupid lol! Why even suggest it if you weren't ready for that to happen?

playitagainzak_ · 2019-08-28T02:06:50+00:00

Haha, I remember this one.

siBantay · 2019-08-31T04:25:17+00:00

beautiful.

SomeGuy1251 · 2020-01-10T23:52:17+00:00

Uuuuhhhhhh i had a good laugh.

Thank you kind sir.

Subtlevibes · 2019-08-26T00:34:24+00:00

Fake news, old ladies don't send emails

AngryKami · 2019-08-26T06:32:03+00:00

I think it’s more than that. Sometimes guys stop trying once in a relationship, and their sex drive and ability wanes with age while women mature with age. This might possibly be a result of her not being sexually gratified. Sure, this was a stupid thing to do and her friend sounds like an idiot, but it took this situation for her to realize what she wanted was him. But it won’t change the underlying issue that made her think to do something dumb like this in the first place. When it’s broke, it’s broke.

Title	Strange phenomenon
Author	iamgod-_-
Upvotes	748
Comments	127
Date	August 25, 2019 7:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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