I'm looking to see if there are any posts related to a current situation and how to play it. I am no where close to proactively injecting dread in my Map, no longer in the morbidly obese range I'm at 22% BF as of this week. Mostly working with STFU for shit tests and starting to get into AA and the other techniques from WISNIFG.

But sometimes dread comes to you and I am not sure if I should use it or just STFU and move on. Wife just got a call that one of her cousins is getting a divorce, she is shocked I am not. I have seen him building muscle and getting more involved outside the home working on restoring a classic car, getting involved with the kids etc. while she has been an emotional roller coaster.

So wife asks me, "Am I surprised?", I say "no".

She asks me "do you think they will be better off apart", here I elaborated a little maybe I shouldn't have but I did. I only commented on him and said "I think Male will do fine, last I talked to him he is working out 6 days a week and if I was gay I'd think he was Hawt. He has a good stable job, I just hope Female has work not sure what she does these days." EDIT: I also brought up how Female had packed on weight in the past year.

I left it at that, wife was extra clingy and grabby. I don't want to fuck this up maybe I should just STFU, still searching for some posts or articles if anyone has advice.

UPDATE: thank you for all the advice I am going to STFU on this from now on. As other posters put it, let her hamster run its own course. It has already been working magic no sex yesterday but it was a busy day with kids.