Helping a friend?

bogeyd6 · 2018-01-30T22:56:27+00:00

Don’t bother. Your friend will handle his own business.

Tebulus · 2018-01-30T22:56:01+00:00

Captain save a bro does not work. Much like addicts, people you want to help need to hit rock bottom and realize the problem and solution on their own. If you really want to try, you are better off leading him with questions that let him highlight to himself what he needs the most help with. At that point you can drop techniques you've learned and then when he goes "Bro how did you learn stuff like this?", thats when you drop the mrp referral.

Trying to fix people does not work. Focus on what you can control.

BostonBrakeJob · 2018-01-30T23:24:26+00:00

Don't invest too much time or energy into it. Start by sharing a youtube link to one of Dr. Glover's podcasts or something like that. They can spend their own money on the book if they're interested enough. Most men don't wanna look in the mirror, it's easier to blame their wives, SO's or general "circumstances".

Fuck em. Live your life

wadearave · 2018-01-30T23:48:34+00:00

The best way I’ve found to introduce guys to the concept of red pill and just start a conversation is to tell them my story. Most guys will empathize with not having the sex they want. When I tell them what has worked for me they are impressed.

The problem, though, is that most guys also think they’re snowflakes and that nothing will work for them.

But it opens the conversation and then they know where come when they get really frustrated, which has happened.

Share it for yourself not to save your friend. No one likes to be told what to do.

Rageaway17 · 2018-01-31T00:44:16+00:00

You're going to give him the book with the note in it? What is this, third grade?

Seriously, that just sounds super roundabout. If the topic comes up and if he seems ready to talk about it, maybe point him towards an appropriate piece of sidebar reading--whatever fits the conversation and his level of readiness best. Just handing him the book with directions on access to your super secret club feels autistic.

screechhater · 2018-01-31T01:37:41+00:00

Send him to TFA - Fags of March.

It’s right around the corner

Ok seriously.

Look up “coconut massage” on mrp. Send it to him in a link and say “look at this shit with this dude”.

Should send up a flair.

Tell him you were surfing reddit and it fell into your lap.

Just sent it to s friend bitching about cuntiness and 2 kids, with no sex in 18 months

I told him I would pay for the hooker in Vegas, told me I couldn’t afford the overtime

rocknrollchuck · 2018-01-30T22:41:46+00:00

Most people are not ready to deal with NMMNG first. If you must (and the wisdom here generally is against doing it), then give him a copy of MMSLP first. If that doesn't interest him, I doubt he will even make it past the first chapter of NMMNG.

mrpthrowa · 2018-01-30T22:44:52+00:00

just NMMNG

dcapt46 · 2018-01-30T22:55:11+00:00

I started with NMMNG, Way of the Superior Man and then MMSLP after finding some other sex positive relationship resources before I found Reddit. Thinking back though I would suggest to start with MMSLP. That really opened my eyes and was much easier to digest.

I would hold back MRP until after he has read at least MMSLP and come back to you looking for more.

98fxstc · 2018-01-31T00:42:17+00:00

Thanks for the advice guys. I’ll go with the couple of leading questions and see if it goes anywhere. I started with NMMNG and it opened my eyes. Was hoping it could do the same for him. Not that I’m a MRP ninja or anything. But at least I can see down a better path these days.

broneilbro · 2018-01-31T02:49:27+00:00

I didn't do this with MRP but I did RP a friend of mine after I found it and I recognized he was me in another life.

He was BP as fuck and major cuckold. He gave me a book on real estate investing and I gave him NMMNG. He ate that shit up. He read the book in a weekend and moved into it...

He is more PP than RP. He used it to get a girl and that girl is on a pedestal...maybe when he realizes that he kicks the pedestal out

redknightofthepill · 2018-01-31T05:38:25+00:00

They can't hear it. Just let him sink or swim. If he asks for advice, give it coming from you, not some internet theory.

DrPillPopperMD · 2018-01-31T18:22:55+00:00

I've personally mentioned it to a few people. Some have gotten very into fixing themselves and becoming better men, some stare at me like I'm insane and talk shit (white knighting).

In the end, don't invest too much time into it, you can mention it and they have to put in the work, you can't force it. Remember when BP is all they know, they see it as an insult that everything they know if untrue and they're completely wrong, some deny it to coddle themselves in their BP world, some don't want to put in the effort.

Lastly, if you do anything don't be buy the book and leave a note, that's a weak move in my book that avoids a conversation, genuinely talk to him and tell him ur experience and let it go from there.

RedPillCoach · 2018-02-02T17:22:29+00:00

I like the idea but am not sure whether it will work. Several old sayings apply:

When the student is ready the master appears

You can't push a rope

You can bring a horse to water but you can't make him drink

Don't talk about fight club

You can never force a person to do something he or she does not want to do. You can only decide what you want them to do and then take away all their other options.

Title	Helping a friend?
Author	98fxstc
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	January 30, 2018 10:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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