43 (M) married 15 years to wife (38). A typical arranged marriage.

Actually, we have been fighting a lot since the day 1. We had lots of good moments too, I have two girls, seven and 10.

Now my wife according to me is a narcissist and according to her I am good for nothing I don’t do anything at home. I don’t plan any vacations I don’t plan any surprises. I don’t do special things for her.

(Trouble today)—

started (Sunday evening )when we were eating at a restaurant and she hit my younger one because of some mistake , I did not like that moment and I told my wife that this is wrong. You do not hit a kid that’s not a way of teaching manners. She buzzed out from the restaurant, telling me that I disrespected her, we came home. She took her car went out for two hours, then apparently we had to go to a common gathering. We all went there with kids came back, silent mode no contact. Monday I woke everyone up for school. I asked wife to give them breakfast. I was busy with office meetings. She came back and told me you do not do anything you cannot even take care of kids and all then she started hitting me shouting at me telling me that she won’t let me work she took a shoe and started hitting me and in the heat of the moment I tried to push her away, but It turned into a slap and that was it. I left home for few hours and she called me that she is coming to library to create a scene and all. I went back after 2 hours asked sorry made lunch. Looked fine to me, she wanted to go to Sams to buy a ring for what i did, i said i cannot go today as it takes time to get rings etc and we can go on a weekend, i went to gym, cane home made food for kids. She came down helped little bit and walked away without eating saying that she is not hungry, i ate with kids.

After that she’s on a constant phone with her family bitching about me, my family, my past my childhood, my parents, my brother, how I never respected her how I always abused her, how I never did anything for her.

i am yes guilty of slapping her.

I agreed to divorce and listening everything she said for whole day today.

Now when i agreed she is again accusing me of being not a real man, who could have said asked sorry and hug her out.

She said i failed the Sams club test too. I am super confused what to do?

In my mind i dont see any future with her, but she wont let me get out that easy.

I can type more but it will become too much of writing. If anyone wants to help me i can message or call too.

Problem i dont have common people in my city who i can share it with.

Also before someone asks, i have been a long distance runner , but have stopped running since November and started strong lift 5x5. I am 5 10. 175 lbs, no Belly very athletic. Play Volleyball, Racquetball, Badminton, tennis Whenever i get chance. This is 11th workout started from basic suggested weights. Squats - 120 lbs Bench = 105 lbs Dead lift = 115 lbs

Read NMMNG - i think it created problems Reading WISNIFG - i dont argue 99%. Watching Rian Stone videos on YT. Reading this and MRP 24/7.

TL DR

Need some pointers to get out of the situation.