Been seeing this chick for 5 months or so. Frame was solid in the beginning rarely any hiccups she followed my lead etc. lately, she has gotten too comfortable and I think I have too. Holidays were dangerous as we got more attracted to each other. My beta was pulsing. New Years she broke the i love you and I reciprocated. Last week she flakes out of plans twice. She had a UTI and said her medicine was making her act weird. Friday she says she can’t wait to see me and I withdraw attention. We eat dinner and said something is off. She said that she thinks it’s weird I’m still friends with ex on social media and went on and on about it. Hamster or making excuses? I said flaking our two days in a row is a no go for me. We restablished things and she end up giving me a nice 30 min BJ that night. Next day she calls me and pussy and says i get grossed out too easily about things. I looked at her and said do not call me a pussy. Her shit tests have reached a new high. Same day she starts taking about a dude she went on dates with before she met me and I changed the subject. When she left that day I told her next time she sees me she better leave that bratty girl at home and be the good girl I know her to be. She came back and apologized and reestablished the submissive role. Still does things that challenge my masculinity. Spanks me when I’m crossing paths with her. (That’s my move)

Been seeing this chick for 5 months or so. Frame was solid in the beginning rarely any hiccups she followed my lead etc. lately, she has gotten too comfortable and I think I have too. Holidays were dangerous as we got more attracted to each other. My beta was pulsing. New Years she broke the i love you and I reciprocated. Last week she flakes out of plans twice. She had a UTI and said her medicine was making her act weird. Friday she says she can’t wait to see me and I withdraw attention. We eat dinner and said something is off. She said that she thinks it’s weird I’m still friends with ex on social media and went on and on about it. Hamster or making excuses? I said flaking our two days in a row is a no go for me. We restablished things and she end up giving me a nice 30 min BJ that night. Next day she calls me and pussy and says i get grossed out too easily about things. I looked at her and said do not call me a pussy. Her shit tests have reached a new high. Same day she starts taking about a dude she went on dates with before she met me and I changed the subject. When she left that day I told her next time she sees me she better leave that bratty girl at home and be the good girl I know her to be. She came back and apologized and reestablished the submissive role. Still does things that challenge my masculinity. Spanks me when I’m crossing paths with her. (That’s my move)

Any advice moving forward?

For a while she spoke about getting her teaching degree and finding a job in town. Now she says she doesn’t want to do that. Seems like she wants adventure. Asks me if I’ve ever wanted to leave town. At the time I didn’t notice the red flag but as I type this it’s apparent. She’s gauging breaking things off or hard core testing me. She always includes me in future plans. Weddings that are a year away and trips to go out of the country. These conversations were had after she shit tested me max force.