About to lose virginity, wrap up?

CTButters · 2018-12-14T04:46:44+00:00

she doesn't want me to use a condom

Red flag.

I have no real reason to suspect why she'd try and maliciously get pregnant

but the wealth difference between our families (mine higher) is pretty significant.

Wake the fuck up before you fuck the fuck up.

Its also a little bit of how I feel powerless to make sure she's doing these things (BC and morning after pill).

Know what's in your power? To wear a fucking condom.

I really doubt she'd be willing to fuck all that up to get preggo.

You have a lot to learn. Fuck her without a condom, and you're going to find out the hard way.

PrimordialXY · 2018-12-14T04:34:49+00:00

It's your first time, it's not going to be 'great sex'.

Wrap up.

red_matrix · 2018-12-14T04:48:49+00:00

Always wrap it up. Birth control is one reason, STDs are the other.

gregoire_ · 2018-12-14T04:46:52+00:00

Wear a condom. If you start off without one, it’ll make it harder to build that habit.

AlexIsWhack · 2018-12-14T05:37:09+00:00

Wrap your fucking tool

hiddenpleasures123 · 2018-12-14T06:19:55+00:00

No glove, no love.

STDs are real. So is being a daddy at 19. If you're willing to roll the dice, go for it. If having a kid at this point of your life is what you want, go for it.

Know when you take that condom off, you are relying on the effectiveness of her telling the truth. Not the effectiveness of Birth Control or PB.

Say it with me: A few moments of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of responsibility

jonadragonslay · 2018-12-14T04:54:27+00:00

Wrap it bitch!

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2018-12-14T05:35:25+00:00

Is she also saying shes a virgin? If its her first time i can see her wanting to experience things all natural. I'd wear a condom tho dude.

HumanSockPuppet · 2018-12-14T08:57:45+00:00

There are so many things wrong with your situation it's impossible to begin.

Even worse, you haven't done the basic fucking reading yet. If you had, you wouldn't be asking for personalized advice for your snowflake ass.

Read the goddamn sidebar and keep your pet snake in your pants for now. And dump this bitch yesterday.

thatbadrogue2 · 2018-12-14T04:37:39+00:00

Chlamydia fucking blows, btw not worth.

HoRaTiO12345 · 2018-12-14T07:18:23+00:00

How can you be exclusive with someone you haven't fucked yet? As Tom Leykis says, being exclusive means banging just ONE person. You can't be exclusive with zero people.

Joeboard · 2018-12-14T11:08:14+00:00

My fucking brother knocked up his girlfriend losing his virginity.. Do not be like my brother.

Cerealpizza · 2018-12-14T04:33:09+00:00

Wrap up just because you should honestly get used to it. I remember when I slid into pussy my first time at 14 and I wore a condom. Shit felt amazing, just as good as raw sex now if not better. Practice safe sex not just for fear of pregnancy. I’ve gotten chlamydia twice now in the past 2 years because I hate wearing condoms.

ziphias · 2018-12-14T10:56:43+00:00

I got my gf pregnant when I was a dumbass 18 year old kid, and it forever altered the trajectory of my life, career, dreams, etc. Don't be an idiot or listen to stupid excuses from her, believe it or not there are other women out there with vaginas, too.

58021 · 2018-12-14T06:38:54+00:00

Just be like, hey I’d be a lot more comfortable using a condom. Then, once we get more comfortable with each other we can go without

Wjourney · 2018-12-14T07:18:15+00:00

First time sucks, wrap it up even tho you probably wont even nut

linkofinsanity19 · 2018-12-14T11:48:59+00:00

Straight from Tomassi's book

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

omarbradley42 · 2018-12-14T11:22:30+00:00

Wrap that chick boi like a dürüm.

JustChopItOff · 2018-12-14T12:22:50+00:00

I lost my virginity at 19 to a 21 year old. We were in an "exclusive " relationship. I didn't pressure for sex because I didn't have any experience. She pushed for it 2 weeks in. She said not to use a condom because she was on the pill. Really what she meant was she knew I didn't have any STDs while she didn't care what she may have from the many guys she had banged that year.

She also pulled a pregnancy scare on me, to which I reacted in the worst possible way of saying I'd need to quit engineering school and get a job because my family would disown me. She said she was against abortions, but would have one reluctantly and was "just glad to know I would step up" if she got pregnant. I'm hindsight, she was probably fucking another guy and was glad to have a BB as backup.

She used a friend as mine as an obsessed orbiter. When I broke up with her she started dating him as her new BB. Then 4 years down the line he wised up and broke up with her (I redpilled him and we're finally friends again). She is now dating one of his former best friends who she kept as an orbiter throughout their relationship.

Summary of how you should proceed:

Wear a condom with all wom en regardless of what type you think they are (awalt, unicorn). Condoms barely help protect you anyway, but at least use them. If not for the protection of having control over contraception. Don't tie the condom with him the but inclretine condition and throw it in her garbage. Insane women could use that against you. Dump the nut in the toilet and flush. Then throw the condom in the trash.

Don't go down on a girl. You can use the excuse of "needing a dental dam", which is a huge turnoff for them anyway so it won't happen.

Almost everyone here has gone raw in a women when they knew they shouldn't . It's because it's a very attractive offer and it's very addictive one you do so. So addictive that it's how most men get sucked into becoming victim to an abusive relationship. Trust me dude, it's like heroin. And you will do dumb shit for heroin after you've had a taste. So keep it wrapped up.

You will go raw one day. Preferably after a year of dating , plus mutual STI testing. Thin condoms almost feel the same, so try those.

Lastly, you may fuck up. Most men do. But try not to fall into the mental trap of "oh well, did it once, no harm in doing it 100 more times now". False. Every time you fuck raw you increase the odds of conceiving and contracting STI's. It's not a boolean operation where you now "have" whatever STI she may so might as well keep repeating it.

Last of all. Have fun. Also know that if you start falling for this girl harder it's because of the sex. Like I said, sex is like a drug. Whatever positive emotions you feel for her after sex IS because she's brought you that pleasure. I don't do drugs, but I've been told by friends that they feel they share a very close bond with those they've done drugs like MDMA or acid with.

It is the pleasure from sex that makes you feel you "love" her. Just like friends who do drugs together. So just don't let that become the reason you become her simp. It is a very easy path to take when having sex for the first time. And later down the road as well.

Have fun. Stay protected.

Velebit · 2018-12-14T07:17:07+00:00

Its going to be shit if you don't practice. Also, either get a condom or wank it out like 5 times before you fuck her both so you don't cum early and for caution.

Also make her take an std test.

mushroom_overlord · 2018-12-14T08:35:34+00:00

Yes, don't risk it just for the fleeting satisfaction of doing it raw

prrraveen · 2018-12-14T09:33:35+00:00

Why would you give her so much power. Wrapping it up

NoAARPforMe · 2018-12-14T11:58:10+00:00

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

"I have been guilty of this in the past, quite a few times where i have had the “ahh, fuck it mindset” when it comes to birth control. I havnt always had a condom handy but i do try and always have one close by. I have also had the woman say that she is allergic to latex and that she is on the pill. But lets face it, neither party want to wear a condom so the complete trust lies with what the female says and you want to believe her with every fiber of your being that she is on it, who would want to trap you down with a child anyway……?

There is a level of power that the woman holds when she is controlling the contraceptive, there are actually quite a view forms of contraception that woman have available, for men we only have the two, a vasectomy and a condom.

We all to a degree have the trust in the girl when she says that she doesnt want kids for whatever reason. When in a long term relationship this is when you may need extra precautions, “accidental pregnancy” is more common now than ever before. The “unplanned” pregnancy for a woman with or without and education or a degree can be a pretty good prospect, especially when the law and social expectation is on her side.

Tarp UP!"

Esquivo · 2018-12-14T12:01:16+00:00

Even if it's not about being pregnant, it's about diseases. Fucking without armor is like driving without airbags.

Bitscoinmooning · 2018-12-14T15:08:55+00:00

You can't do both. Using the morning after pill does horrible things to a woman's body you're injecting massive amounts of estrogen into her system causing morning sickness headaches mood instability weight fluctuation etc, then add to that BC which is another dose of estrogen to just exponentially aggravate the effects and leave permanent damage on a bitch's womb and her psyche.

Don't even fuck her. She's a conniving snake and getting pregnant isn't her only move

306westernfront · 2018-12-14T05:25:35+00:00

Just raw dog brother. You cant get pregnant losing your virginity its a well known fact.

Kirix · 2018-12-14T06:00:07+00:00

Yea nigga

UnluckyPenguin · 2018-12-14T06:02:34+00:00

Medically speaking, it takes 3 months of taking birth control before it's fully effective.

Also plan B is said to destroyer a woman's chance of conceiving of taken more than 3 times. Meaning future miscarriages.

Lastly just pull out. It's only easy for a girl to get pregnant during the 3 days following the two week mark after she starts her period. I have two of my own kids btw.

ReDead2 · 2018-12-14T06:05:25+00:00

Homie. As someone who lost his virginity without using a condom, 20 years of misery is not worth and Im glad I didnt make her pregnant. Women are irresponsible. Wear a condom. If she refuses to fuck without it, next that hoe. You don’t want to have a child with your sexfriend.

Tachankers · 2018-12-14T05:58:24+00:00

wrap it bro trust me. if you’re persistent for going raw, try and both of you get tested.

Gooseypapa · 2018-12-14T06:33:32+00:00

" ANACONDA SQUEEZE"

bruiser18 · 2018-12-14T13:12:22+00:00

First time was when I was 13, fucked a 16 year old girl with a FAT ass, slid my dick in and came inside 10 seconds.

Wrap up, you'll most likely get over excited. Also, what everyone else said. This bitch is suspicious af - don't risk it.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2018-12-14T13:46:56+00:00

You dumb mother fucker - WRAP UP

Cons: Sex feels a little less good

Pros: You life can't be ruined. You won't have a kid which fucks your time and hundreds of thousands of dollars.

That money difference IS HUGE

genethedog · 2018-12-14T14:13:00+00:00

When you're on BC you don't use the morning after pill. That's for an 'oopsie' like of the condom breaks or you thought you would pull out and it didn't go so well.

This makes me extra suspicious because if this is what she told you, then either she's stupid (and that's not good) or she's really trying hard to put you at ease, perhaps too hard.

She's the one who's planning on taking these pills. She should have done some research. It doesn't sound like she did, and that's not good.

Red flags man. If you think women aren't fully aware of how pregnancy and birth control work, you're naive. They fucking know how it works. Sounds like she's in a hurry. Because if you also think that women (even at your age) aren't fully aware of the benefits and attention she can get for having a baby, then you're ignorant. And that's worse than just being naive.

Try the condom and see how she acts. Or fuck her face and ass bareback. If she's just dying to have you raw dog her pussy, be wary.

Grantevans1987 · 2018-12-14T14:13:04+00:00

Personally I wrap it every time now. When done I take it straight too the sink and wash it out. Paranoid? Me? Yep!

FwoGiZ · 2018-12-14T14:34:03+00:00

HUGE RED FLAG........ why does she NOT wanna use a condom? It pretty change absolutely nothing for women plus isn't she virgin too? is she attracted to you or not? She'd be banging you condoms or not if she truly was... maybe she's after your money indeed.

My honest opinion; get a vasectomy. They're reversible but you could also freeze your sperm...

I know a guy who lived in paranoia his entire life until it happened... he got sperm jacked and now she's pushing to get DNA test for a 2yo kid he's never seen. Now he is snipped and can fuck around with near to no repercussions, like women basically lol.

Don't fuck up your life at 18yo over some piece of ass man........ she's huge red flag. Unless I SEE her take depo provera or IUD, I'd be worried of that chick intentions.

What's her life ambitions? Any hobby? Career? Or is she clearly aiming to be a stay at home mom?

Coo_Larrow · 2018-12-14T14:46:00+00:00

Is she a virgin? I doubt it if she's making requests like that.

Internet-Troll · 2018-12-14T14:55:14+00:00

Bro, she probably got creampied by someone and but she is looking for someone to quickly "claim" the baby.

No glove no love, wrap it before you stab it. Or wrinkle the sheet and hit the street, shoot the jizz and need for speed

Ansec · 2018-12-14T15:30:21+00:00

Always wrap your willy. ALWAYS!!

AnyDoughnut · 2018-12-14T16:09:23+00:00

From virgin to baby daddy after 2 minutes of pleasure.

Of course wrap it up. Considering she wants you to raw dog it, you either should avoid her altogether or wrap it up AND pull out also.

someonesopinion6969 · 2018-12-14T16:11:02+00:00

Don't be a moron, you'll be thinking your first time will always be the best time due to warm tight cunt, tis best get used to fucking with a condom if you want your safety.

plus be careful, this is your first time and bitches could take advantage of your clueless mind and make you shoot seed into her cunt therefore hello newborn child

civilizedfrog · 2018-12-14T20:11:56+00:00

Happy Father's Day in advance, CTButters

Brushyourteethm8 · 2018-12-14T22:32:01+00:00

Would you wire in an oven without switching off the mains?

wereworm5 · 2018-12-14T06:47:23+00:00

Learn how to wear a condom Like seriously!! Go slow ! Dispose of the condom properly!

DntPnicIGotThis · 2018-12-14T10:57:42+00:00

Just cuz it's your first time doesn't mean it's hers. You never know, she may already be prego and trying to pass you off as the father.

Strap up and keep lifting.

Giga_Caligula · 2018-12-14T05:04:35+00:00

if a girl doesnt want you to wrap your shit up it means she sees you as high value. be that in a beta provider sense or in a good looking sense.

use your judgement what you wanna do and the things that can happen

Title	About to lose virginity, wrap up?
Author	CTButters
Upvotes	43
Comments	73
Date	December 14, 2018 4:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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