Any book recommendations regarding attachment and letting go?

voyager14 · 2020-01-02T05:58:17+00:00

Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations basically solves any problem you may have

mickenrorty · 2020-01-02T08:04:42+00:00

Curious what makes her non relationship material in your eyes?

xEngage · 2020-01-02T11:46:42+00:00

she's not yours it's just your turn

Another mindset from someone I forgot who posted about this on TRP:

"It's not your turn. It's her turn."

It's her turn and opportunity to be at your side. Instead of you being lucky, she's the lucky one to be getting your attention and time. It helps with the abundance mentality.

Good that you're rationalizing your behaviour and want to fix it OP

vandaalen · 2020-01-02T10:39:19+00:00

http://archive.is/agtCP

http://archive.is/FaeIe

no_re-entry · 2020-01-02T12:59:57+00:00

How to die by Seneca

If you’re ok with the ultimate loss you’ll be ok with anything imo

DerpJungler · 2020-01-02T08:35:09+00:00

The Rational Male, by Rolo Tomassi.

The man has gone crazy recently, but this book remains a great pillar for internalizing TRP.

Be wary though, the anger phase may hit you after reading it, but it's definitely eye opening.

scorpionkg · 2020-01-02T15:59:29+00:00

You will always want what you don’t have, is a trap that you create to yourself. Just be aware of that and change subject.

red_matrix · 2020-01-02T17:53:09+00:00

A woman should be a complement to your life, not the focus. Since she is causing you this much distress I’d highly suggest letting this girl go. You said it yourself she is not relationship material. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

However - if you want to learn to control your emotions (like jealousy in this case) then look to stoicism (Marcus Aurelius).

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-02T07:26:15+00:00

She’s also getting older and looser pussy with every passing minute and getting lesss attractive.

You on the other hand are becoming MORE attractive as your grow older

Scorsone · 2020-01-02T09:51:42+00:00

What’s the issue at hand?

pnceng · 2020-01-02T10:29:30+00:00

The Language of Letting Go - Melody Beattie

https://www.amazon.com/Language-Letting-Meditations-Codependents-Meditation/dp/0894866370

Edzardd · 2020-01-02T12:41:46+00:00

Meditation. Some eastern practices like zen and buddhism try to deal with the problem of letting go from stuff in general.

idrinkyour_milkshake · 2020-01-02T12:51:23+00:00

The synoptic Gospels

InsidiousCurve · 2020-01-02T14:41:12+00:00

I think that this is the question of the red pill; I think about letting go of my blue pill days and the missed opportunities, but I def still feel a rage.

PhaedrusHunt · 2020-01-02T15:12:04+00:00

Tao te ching Search Google for PDFs

Man's Search for Meaning Viktor Frankl

scorpionkg · 2020-01-02T16:51:15+00:00

You can’t change what you want, but you can change what you do. So do something that isn’t about her. With time you will have someone else to want or something to do. Put your self on the focus, yourself first.

scorpionkg · 2020-01-02T16:53:11+00:00

Go on YouTube watch the channel academy of ideas, it is really good to deal with your mind.

slamdunktiger86 · 2020-01-03T01:11:55+00:00

Siddharta by Herman Hesse

chocolatex · 2020-01-02T17:18:29+00:00

The Daily Stoic - Ryan Holiday

inkoDe · 2020-01-02T11:55:15+00:00

I know TRP has told you something based on your terminology. What i want you to ask yourself is what types of relationship you can handle emotionally. Women do the same thing, it doesn't work for all of us to be "red pill." It sets you up for relationships founded on distance and pain.

Title	Any book recommendations regarding attachment and letting go?
Author	ohyesimthatguy
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Date	January 2, 2020 5:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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