Buddy's girlfriend on Bumble (tinder)

red-pill-questions · 2016-10-10T23:35:44+00:00

She will likely claim someone stole her photos. Tell him anyway.

If he/you smart, you could create a fake account with a hot guys photos and IM her. Get her talking to prove that its her. Eg: get her to decribe where she's from, what she's majoring in, what she likes to do/eat, what kind of work she does.

Simply using photos of a profile is not enough to get cheating women to admit. They will hamster away and pull a "i cant believe you dont trust me!" line to turn it around on him.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-10-10T21:59:40+00:00

Why would you protect this hoe? If he's your friend you'd tell him asap

refusewool · 2016-10-10T21:27:55+00:00

Would you want to know if your girlfriend was on a dating app? I sure as hell would so I could hard next the bitch. Tell your friend directly. Do it over text if you think he will take it badly and might want to be left on his own after finding out.

[deleted] · 2016-10-11T01:27:06+00:00

screenshot evidence

close friend

not sure what to do

Do you actually hate your close friend or are you autistic? Show him the undeniable evidence that you found his girl on a dating site, for fucks sake..

redditatt · 2016-10-10T21:38:10+00:00

Let him know = set him free. Drag him kicking and screaming out of the Matrix if you have to.

FrameWalker · 2016-10-10T23:00:08+00:00

Let him know.

good_guy_submitter · 2016-10-10T23:33:25+00:00

I see two POVs:

I would want to know
Shes on there just for the validation

I would always choose 1, and if it was really 2, then my bro would handle it with his SO and trust that I only had his best interests at heart when I told him. If he turns on you cause of her, I think that speaks more about your friendship than his oneitis

seedang · 2016-10-11T03:21:53+00:00

Had this happen a few times on tinder. I just screenshot, swipe left, and send the pic to the friend with no commentary. They can do what they want with the info after that.

flat6turbo · 2016-10-10T23:56:50+00:00

do it anonymously. he deserves to know. just as long as you're not doing some bitch-made shit like planning on banging her if they break up. do it for the right reasons.

bhouse114 · 2016-10-11T12:22:04+00:00

There is a chance that she just never deleted her account but deleted the app off of her phone. Bumble automatically uses your most recent profile pictures as your pictures on there. At the same time it is more likely she is cheating on him. I think that you should let him know and allow him to make his own decision.

wont_tell_i_refuse_ · 2016-10-11T03:23:18+00:00

Send screenshots to your buddy. Anonymously (there's apps for this) if you want 0% social blowback.

NICOLAWRITES · 2016-10-11T01:00:04+00:00

Tell him. Then get out of the way.

plenkton · 2016-10-11T06:57:14+00:00

Don't tell him- lest you risk your friend turning against you.

He will find out if he wants to- and if he doesn't, he won't. Women are bad at hiding.

0kool74 · 2016-10-11T15:31:05+00:00

if you are that good of a friend to me, I'd EXPECT you to reveal this. Remember........bros before hoes

LukeMooney · 2016-10-11T16:29:27+00:00

personally id just send the screen shots to him, and leave it at that. Those saying to get her talking - means far too much investment from you. Whatever you do shell lie and hell prob hate you initially, whichis whyid just send the screen shots and let him figure it out himself

Decorum1 · 2016-10-13T02:01:20+00:00

Send him the pics saying, "hey these are great recent pics of your gf on bumble, I notice she just uploaded them on facebook too, she is very photogenic".

GarlicSaucePunch · 2016-10-14T20:09:06+00:00

Hey you should know, Bumble doesn't delete old accounts. I think they were accused of using pretty girls pictures to front-load the swipe queue. This could legitimately be nothing.

I kept all of my dating apps active and just updated with "in a relationship" when I was exclusive with someone, that way I avoided all this unnecessary drama.

rpisnotpua · 2016-10-10T21:55:44+00:00

Tell him, yeah. But all it means is that she's bored and looking for orbiters.

proteinandbeer · 2016-10-10T23:30:25+00:00

Ask your buddy, before he breaks up with her, if you can fuck her to prove it was actually her on that account. If he's cool with that.

[deleted] · 2016-10-11T02:40:13+00:00

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Title	Buddy's girlfriend on Bumble (tinder)
Author	PenInACup
Upvotes	19
Comments	44
Date	October 10, 2016 9:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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