Help me understand better about Beta Bait

Whisper · 2019-08-20T19:45:18+00:00

Chicks who are considering fucking you will want to meet you to see if they end up wanting sex to happen.

Chicks who already want to fuck you will go further, and bend heaven and earth to make that meeting happen.

If they don't want to meet you, then they don't want sex. They want something they can get online... which is usually attention or validation.

WIA20XX · 2019-08-20T16:40:42+00:00

You weren't on her radar until she saw your earning potential.

Now she is trying to get you to chase.

If you do give chase, she'll think, "I've got him, finally my payday!".

So she'll try to extract your time and resources on the promise that you might get some. Works on lots of guys, standard girl game

Trying to bag this chick is a project. If running "salt" daddy game, it's a walk in the park. But otherwise I'd skip.

MarylandLion · 2019-08-20T16:49:26+00:00

Forget this weekend. Ask her out to a specific time and place in a few days. Completely ignore her otherwise, don’t open her snap chats and don’t text her. The only way she will get your attention is in person and on a date. You need to make that clear with these kinds of chicks.

Although sometimes it is good to give them a little attention and validation while they are being wishy-washy before you completely cut contact and pull away. Then they enter your frame when they miss your attention

TFWnoLTR · 2019-08-20T19:05:54+00:00

I had a similar thing happen. I never once acknowledged her image or what she was doing in her snaps in any complimentary way. I rarely ever responded at all but one time she sent a snap of her playing with herself under her pants then panned up towards her face and I noticed she had a sleeveless shirt on so I replied "nice tough guy shirt".

Anyways, I eventually had time for a date with her and we met up. She bragged about all her beta orbiters to me, basically admitting that the fact that I never complimented her or even reacted to her sexy snaps is what drew her to me, while also admitting she mostly gets off in attention from orbiters rather than a real man giving that dick.

The date ended with me walking out when the check came because she was trying to bait me into beta behavior by telling me how much money she has by showing how expensive her purse is and even whipping out a huge wad of cash like a retard, then ten minutes later demanding I pay for the drinks because I'm the man. I deleted her snap a few days later when she sent me another sexy video out of the blue. I should mention that its not like the date wasn't going well otherwise. We had made out a couple times and she had played with my junk under the table, all her making the moves mind you, so she was very much attracted and chasing me.

Here's the moral of the story for you: shes not sending those snaps to you alone. Shes sending them to all her orbiters and trying to make you into one. If you do manage to get her on a date I bet my left nut she will have you jump through some sort of beta hoop before you close with her and then she will almost definitely be a starfish in bed or just a one time customer because now you're trained to jump through hoops for her and that's boring.

You should just delete her and spend time on other women instead. It's not worth it, and it sounds like you're already in her frame. The only way to get girls like her is to pick her up the first time you meet her and fuck her behind the dumpster outside the bar/club. She could get her pussy ate 5 times a day if she wanted, but she only happens upon a true Chad who drags her into the bathroom to fuck 5 minutes after grabbing her and making out on the dance floor once or twice a year.

Oh, and one last thing. Her noticing the fancy place you were at and suddenly showing interest is her thinking you're good for a quality free meal or three, not actually her showing any interest in you.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-08-20T17:06:19+00:00

Any form of bait to bring out beta behavior out of yoh

SilenceOnTheWire · 2019-08-20T19:06:48+00:00

But here I am today and she sends me a snap of a banana in her mouth and Im totally blown away how I should navigate this situation.

Tell her she looks dumb.

MagnumBurrito · 2019-08-20T20:22:50+00:00

Ignore her until you’re doing some fun. Then text her “headed to the the bar/beach/pool.. You should come”

And if she ignores and doesn’t offer up an alternative. Soft next her.

Lateralanouncer · 2019-08-20T20:34:29+00:00

She sounds like an attention whore and likely sending the same picks to several men for attention. I still wouldn’t wast a lead and give it a couple of shots before dropping it. I would Send her a pick Sunday of you doing something fun (send to other leads at the same time) And say something along the lines of you should have come out. Or I didn’t think you where adventurous enough for this.

[deleted] · 2019-08-20T16:56:43+00:00

block

pointster_VSK · 2019-08-20T16:11:15+00:00

There are articles written on it. Use the search function.

As for your situation.

You should have never given her your snap. You have entered her frame.

You shouldn’t open the ones she sends you. As soon as you open them, you validate her and remain in her frame.

When you asked her out and she said “she can try to be” you failed to lead and setup the logistics. Sounds like she is on the border line but your game is way too weak to handle her shit testing you. So you’ll end up just being an orbiter.

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-08-20T19:39:30+00:00

Did you ask or tell her to come out? I'd wait a little bit and go about living life. In a few days tell her to meet you at...

XXXMersenne · 2019-08-20T20:51:47+00:00

Just Push definitively for the fuck.

When you're meeting many women on the regular you don't post questions like this cus you don't hesitate cus you don't give a fuck whether it works cus you're meeting so many chicks that you have ample 'data sets' for experimentation and so are quick to deal with one [and still do the best you can] in order to then move onto the next.

Process more data for more accurate evaluations for more consistent results.

In other words: Meet Try to fuck more chicks

[deleted] · 2019-08-21T01:08:56+00:00

Ffs, move on. And delete her from Snapchat, Instagram and your phone. Stop wasting time with attention whores like this girl.

that_italia_guy · 2019-08-21T04:07:12+00:00

Just wants attention, u ignored her so and she didn't like that. She knows she gets attention if she does sexual things, only wants validation

wkndatbernardus · 2019-08-21T00:42:04+00:00

"But here I am today and she sends me a snap of a banana in her mouth."

Please tell me she's black.

Hedser91 · 2019-08-20T22:25:46+00:00

Maybe you should be very direct and tell her what she is doing and that you dont like to play games, you want to date? Yes, go date, no delete all her shit.

20mcgug · 2019-08-21T01:54:51+00:00

Sounds like you already know the answer deep down. Next.

cornbread07 · 2019-08-21T02:24:26+00:00

Shes an attention whore....next her

ThinSpiritual · 2019-08-21T03:17:11+00:00

Lol... she prolly sent that banana plus maybe cucumber eating snaps to 20 other people.

amphix339 · 2019-08-21T03:22:38+00:00

Hahahahahahahahaha that ending bro I'm crying

Yavuzest · 2019-08-21T16:34:32+00:00

and asking her again if shes free this weekend

nah fam have a place and a time in your mind and say that you are going there. thats it

usually males do the planning because females are lazy about that

also its kinda dominant because you are taking lead of the event

Herdsengineers · 2019-08-21T17:10:26+00:00

Just tell her where you're going to be and when and she should come out to distinguish herself from your other instagram/snapchat gallery of girls.

Title	Help me understand better about Beta Bait
Author	sootlord
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Date	August 20, 2019 4:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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Just Push definitively for the fuck.

Process more data for more accurate evaluations for more consistent results.

In other words: Meet Try to fuck more chicks