Need feedback on looks

Rx_Red · 2019-09-20T14:23:04+00:00

You don't look bad, I'd say you're better than average. If you hadn't posted how you felt about yourself, and I just saw your pictures randomly, I would have never assumed you felt that way about yourself.

Improve your status and demeanor, lift, improve your frame and outlook, because how you perceive your ideal and current looks is surely undercutting the qualities I just mentioned, that you should aim to improve instead

Edit: I do think you look more masculine with a beard, but so do a lot of men. Facial hair is a secondary sex characteristic specific to men and therefore many women find it attractive, and is similar to why men find breasts attractive

Edit 2: no on the ear surgery, I have never thought ears completely lined up with someone's head looks better than leaning outward. That's just me, but don't do it

ur8moms · 2019-09-20T14:37:02+00:00

Hard Next the ear surgery. You look good in second picture. I feel you’d rock the breaking bad look

acp_rdit · 2019-09-20T14:32:37+00:00

Smile bro, life ain't that bad

no need to look hard all the time

only_red · 2019-09-20T15:16:24+00:00

you're defo not unattractive.

Leonardowski · 2019-09-20T14:26:37+00:00

Don't do plastic surgery , it just means this is you'r insecurity. You have to be complete with you'r flaws , embrace them cus there's no perfect human. I personally got a big ass nose and I'm very proud of it .

Just lift and get big and you will look really intimidating , and keep the beard .

drama_viking · 2019-09-20T15:38:32+00:00

People treat you differently because you act differently when you think you hid your flaws.

Analyze your behavior when you wear the beanie and compare it with the times when you don't. You'll see that there are differences. Because people will treat you based on how you let them treat you.

Keep the beard, lose the beanie if it's not cold, shave your head if you are balding. Probably your only problem is that you're not lifting enough and you can't see that because you're too busy finding flaws that don't even exist.

Believe in yourself, plastic surgery is for women because they seek validation and attention. You don't want to act like them!

thebadguy89 · 2019-09-20T14:52:32+00:00

beard looks good

don't get the ear surgery too much risk

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-09-20T15:51:40+00:00

Keep the beard. Ears are fine, beanie stuff is in your head. I’d work on putting on muscle, with that + beard you’ll be fine. Very angular face which is a good thing

MattyAnon · 2019-09-20T16:36:25+00:00

Beard looks good, quit worrying about the rest of it, you're fine.

CainPrice · 2019-09-20T14:46:16+00:00

You look fine. Go fuck a dozen slightly chunky 6/10 girls until you feel better about yourself. You should have a pretty easy time scoring with that target demographic. If not, the problem is your game, not your look.

Once you're having an easy time picking up 6's and you quit wallowing in insecurity, scared to death that you're unfuckable, move on to the occasional 7-8, but with the swagger of a guy who knows the game and fucks when he wants to fuck.

Fuktiga_mejmejs · 2019-09-20T15:04:17+00:00

U kinda look like homeless Adam Sandler with the beanie on xd

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-09-20T15:25:23+00:00

Shave your head, keep the beard, don’t get surgery. Your face won’t hold you back from being an 8 or 9/10 in overall smv

W4T3V3R · 2019-09-20T17:09:33+00:00

Dude.. you look great.

Don't get the surgery, pic #2 should be your go to style.

Maybe people treat you differently when you wear a beanie is coz you act more confident. Maybe, I don't know, but I would guess that would be the case

Blesss · 2019-09-20T21:06:02+00:00

pic 3 looks weird af, fuck that surgery. pic 2 looks fine to me

Bone_Coat · 2019-09-20T15:27:21+00:00

you look like Babo from "cartel de Santa" search him on google, he's a badass badboy type, i'd say you look good

Folbold · 2019-09-20T15:54:13+00:00

Not ugly bro. Btw you could also trim your beard by pro, this could be a game changer as well

Purplerain12412 · 2019-09-20T16:17:09+00:00

Keep beard and get jacked, you will look very masculine which is attractive. Bald and muscular is a 'look', bald and skinny is like 'something has gone wrong here', unfortunately that's how it is.

ghb2019 · 2019-09-20T16:39:11+00:00

If baldness is getting to you and your considering ear surgery then maybe consider a hair transplant instead for any surgery

abstractbarista · 2019-09-20T16:48:17+00:00

Hey man you look good! Embrace the baldness. It's good you can grow a beard. I wouldn't do surgery, instead work on your self image and confidence.

Chadster113 · 2019-09-20T16:51:09+00:00

Do you lift? You have to live with your face. You don’t have to live with your physique

reallytaykeith · 2019-09-20T17:09:58+00:00

You look attractive. Enough so that the right money and game could get you most girls.

DankZelda · 2019-09-20T17:29:17+00:00

You look great man keep up the good work and dont worry abour your ears

FiercestPrince · 2019-09-20T17:39:21+00:00

Lil Dicky vibes

MisterMarbles1988 · 2019-09-20T17:44:39+00:00

I'm giving feedback before reading any of the other comments.

You have a good, solid chin and jaw. I wouldn't grow the beard as thick as you did. The scruff looks good, you look like a tough guy sort of.

Nose is big but you can't do anything about that. I'd give your face about a 6/10 in terms of attractiveness.

RPthrowaway123 · 2019-09-20T17:48:37+00:00

You're not a bad looking dude, don't get surgery or anything. Shave your head, keep the beard, and you're golden imo.

DWS33_ · 2019-09-20T20:46:36+00:00

not a bad looking guy at all bro. thinking too hard

BrodinsOats · 2019-09-20T21:05:21+00:00

You for sure look better with a beard.

Don’t do surgery, your ears look fine.

You need to get jacked. I can tell from your lack of traps that you have plenty of gains to be had.

The1ndex · 2019-09-20T22:13:42+00:00

Learn how to groom your beard. Keep it in mint condition. Your face/ head look fine.

We all have shit we would change if we could. Just accept it and go full send like the rest of the alphas.

DaftOdyssey · 2019-09-20T22:37:07+00:00

Bro you look great with the beard. And the perception of having better interactions with people whenever you're using the beanie is just your insecurities having control of how you perceive life. Trust me, people treat you the same regardless if you're wearing a beanie or not.

Domebeers · 2019-09-20T22:57:53+00:00

Dude you look fine. You look bad ass with the bald and the beard IMO. No homo.

TrenGod37 · 2019-09-20T23:33:46+00:00

Best part is you didn’t mention your nose. Your nose is huge. But it obviously doesn’t bother you.

I wouldn’t even have recognized your ears had you not mentioned it. I have a huge nose too. Probably why I noticed yours and I OWN the piss out of it. Women love guys with big features if they own it. Some people will ask if I’m Italian and I’ll jokingly act offended and say “why because I got a big nose!” And then laugh and say yea I’m Italian.

It’s all in your head. Some people go out and have acne. And will be in their head about it. Makes things weird. I could have the worlds biggest pimple on my already gigantic nose and i would totally forget about it. To the point if they notice it. It’s only briefly. I have more Interesting things to talk about then then staring at my pimple.

IBeMadToo · 2019-09-20T23:53:38+00:00

Your ears are fine bro! You even look fine without beard.

vullnet123 · 2019-09-21T02:15:10+00:00

You look good dude, keep the beard. Balding sucks, but other than that you have no problems. Thing is, you probably feel more confident with the beanie on compared to not having it, so your entire demeanor is different. Just gotta work on yourself man.

onionknightofknee · 2019-09-21T04:10:23+00:00

try growing beard even more, keep head shaved.

IXseed · 2019-09-21T04:17:36+00:00

The reason you think ppl view your flaws as a negative are all in your head. You're good dude. Don't trip

Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder so you may not be EVERY GIRLS cup of tea but you're not like...deformed or anything like that.

willieblackbean · 2019-09-21T05:51:01+00:00

Beard make ugly guys look a few notches better instantly, well congrats, this doesnt really applies to you. From the angle of ur photos I cant be too sure but it seems like you have quite an OK jawline.

Scruffy look suits you best and the beanie is ok too, without a beard. That scruffy looks give out a signal that youre masculine enough to have a beard but youre comfortable in your own skin that you dont need to grow it out.

My two cents right there.

Edit: Train your neck muscles. Watch a video from Jeff Nippard on Youtube regarding his neck training transformation.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-09-21T13:03:34+00:00

Who cares your bald, you have a good head shape. Rock the beard and a hat or beanie if it bothers you that much.

You give too many fucks about others.

SoloQueueXL · 2019-09-20T14:47:54+00:00

Keep your head shaved and make sure the beard is 100% on point. You look fine, you clearly aren’t lifting enough if you care still

anon_nonapplicable · 2019-09-20T14:56:57+00:00

Keep your beard, say you're Johnny Sins

Title	Need feedback on looks
Author	coldhazel
Upvotes	18
Comments	42
Date	September 20, 2019 2:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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