Threatened breakup w ltr

vandaalen · 2018-03-16T15:54:26+00:00

Once either partner pulled the nuclear option, there is no way back. This relationship is over.

cl3537 · 2018-03-16T16:59:00+00:00

This thread is so sick are you for real? Are the responses here for real?

You acted like a 12 year old and lost your temper over nothing and it all could have been avoided. You are not ready for a relationship and I have no idea how a women would stay with you for 4 months.

Oneitis? (you are living with her and fucking her daily, you should mean monogamous.)

Frame? (If you mean your selfish immature chauvinistic in-congruent behaviour than yes, losing your temper and being a bitch boy by coming back definitely didn't look good)

How old are you?

How about first work on the communication skills, and then work on not being a selfish ass. Then work on that short temper of yours.

She has already accepted you and is probably in love with you, so maybe you should treat her better and stop with your very poorly applied TRP principals as they don't apply here and I doubt you even understand them very well.

CommanderCumlord · 2018-03-16T16:12:21+00:00

No. You are not ready for this at all. You never had frame, you moved an FWB in with you bro. You basically gave her everything except a ring just for knowing you for a quarter of a year.

The level of drama is through the roof, your emotional control may as well be totally non-existent. I’d say pack her shit, say it’s not working, and don’t fall for the fucking crying. You are in way over your head right now dawg.

EDIT: Don’t call her a fucking ltr, you haven’t even known her long-term. Yeah she’s definitely your girlfriend, but that’s just a big fucking mistake you made so don’t hold any pride in creating a nightmare in your life.

Incaahhh · 2018-03-16T16:45:18+00:00

I poured the rest of the milk at which point she demands I save her some. I didn’t reply as I don’t fuck with demands. Then she began to repeatedly ask if I saved her some. I’m still ignoring her

Really bad move

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-03-16T17:12:49+00:00

Breaking up with her is the best thing that could happen, there were some utterly retarded moves here

I allowed my ltr of 4 months to move in

you LTR'd a bitch at 4 months, and then you skip a step entirely. Are you lonely, desperate, a combination of the two? No self respecting man lets a woman deliver the death knell 4 months in.

Kemoraa · 2018-03-16T18:58:40+00:00

Why didn’t you save her milk? Because you didn’t want to listen to her demand? There’s a difference between holding frame/composure compared to just straight acting like a dick. Of course you both got into a fight.

For four months of dating this shouldn’t be a make or break type of deal. A lot of maturing needs to be had.

adamantiumvibranium · 2018-03-16T15:28:15+00:00

You say pack your bags she cries and you start the process over again. Are you a sucker for punishment?

If you let her manipulate you now it's only a matter of time before she's the one walking out on you.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-03-16T18:16:30+00:00

Kick her out and start over with other girls.

Don't let them move in. If you think about letting one move in, punch yourself in the dick 5 times. When they say, "Ooh, but we'll save money!" she means her, not you. No man ever saved money by letting a woman move in with him. Also, she can, as you have discovered, simply withdraw the benefits to you (cooking, in this case, but also sex and light housework.)

traktor28 · 2018-03-16T17:50:50+00:00

Got milk?

IncognitoMaster91 · 2018-03-16T16:19:07+00:00

Oneitis much? I mean it's 4 months. Are you planning on marrying her already? If No then Wtf are you doing? Do you know what you want?

walawalawa · 2018-03-16T17:39:19+00:00

I dumped a girl, then caved in and changed my mind....bad move.

She stuck around 2 weeks, then dumped me once she'd re-established frame.

chasebandz01 · 2018-03-16T18:23:50+00:00

yea you can establish frame and salvage the relationship but dude you're fighting over fucking milk...

i was in your exact situation. two meals a day and fucked like rabbits. but we'd get into screaming matches because she thought i was trying to fuck this girl that girl etc. its much more peaceful to not live with a girl whatsoever and to be single EVEN if you're not getting as much puss.

datkhushiboi · 2018-03-16T19:34:14+00:00

You are a fucking dumbass. Never cohabitate with a woman, especially if you aren't married.

dylanrockz2002 · 2018-03-16T18:44:10+00:00

mate i couldn't even get thru this you LITERALLY made her cry over spilt milk...hahaha i had to take a break mid way whilst reading this to bone your mum, that's how hard it was for me haha

why didn't you just save her some milk bloody hell

[deleted] · 2018-03-16T16:09:40+00:00

It's barely even started if it's 4 months. Keep in mind this is all over milk lmao. You could have just told her to go to the store and get more like you sound like a whiny bitch here.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-03-16T19:26:02+00:00

IDGAF attitude and being a petulant asshole are different things. IDGAF and treating her like shit are different things. Sure, there are hot trailer trash naturally alpha dudes that treat women like shit and always have another stripper waiting.

That's not what TRP and being a rational male is about.

It's about self development.

You got in a squabble over fucking milk, kid.

Milk.

Should have just said, "Sure babe, I'll save you some. Pick up a jug today if you don't mind."

And demanding she cook you breakfast? It doesn't work like that. She should WANT to cook you breakfast. My girl cooks for me all the time. Brings me a hot cup of coffee every morning. I've NEVER once asked it demand she do those things. But if I'm up before her, I'll cook HER a breakfast and make some coffee.

This is why you need to spin multiple plates. You don't just take the first thing that comes along. You see what type of woman she is. AWALT but all women are also different.

Jesus Fucking Christ dude. Grow up.

iAMTinman_Dealwithit · 2018-03-16T16:59:36+00:00

Call the cops or friend without her knowing, so they can supervise her leaving. I fear if you really did put your foot down, she's the type who would make up something to fuck you over. She is toxic and you have to drop her.

Title	Threatened breakup w ltr
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Comments	38
Date	March 16, 2018 3:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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