I want to talk to you about some of the most important lessons I've learnt over the years of approaching thousands of women. These are the lessons I’ve learned from countless rejections, as well as many amazing experiences with beautiful women.

I literally transformed myself from shy and awkward around women, to developing the confidence and skills that allow me to never have to worry about women ever again.

Here's what I learnt.

TIP #1: IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU

Remember that being successful with women starts in your own mind.

You can have the best openers and a great sense of style, but if your mindset is weak, if you don't think highly of yourself, you're always going to struggle.

You need to understand that women are absolutely amazing reading guys. How you perceive yourself will be very apparent in your nonverbal communication, and if what you say doesn't match your nonverbals, you might as well turn around and go home.

They'll pick up on that in an instant, and the moment they do, they'll lose interest in you, so you must have a high opinion of yourself so that your body language works for you and not against you.

TIP #2: Change Your Environment

Do you remember, when you're a small kid, you thought nothing was impossible? If you had an idea, you went for it. If you failed, it didn't matter. You just started over.

After a while, though, your environment started telling you that you can't do this, that or the other thing, and after a while you started to believe them. This then made you form limiting beliefs about yourself and your capabilities as a person.

Your environment shaped you.

The good news is, that this works both ways. If you want to be someone who is confident and great with women, you need to surround yourself with people that will help you become that.

You need who you surround yourself with, your environment, to share your vision.

Over the years as a mentor I discovered that you need help from people that push you in the right direction and help you become who you want to be. That's just one of the things I do with the guys I take under my wing, but it's so crucial.

TIP #3: Massive Action Quickly

This one is going to be completely obvious to some of you, and completely new to others.

The truth is, that you can sit there and think about approaches, openers, strategies and tactics, but if you don't put yourself out there and implement what you learn, it'll be a waste of time.

When I look at the guys that I taught that were extremely successful, I see one thing that they all have in common.

They took massive action on what I told them to do, and they did it quickly.

In order to be successful you have to take massive action, and you have to do it as fast as you possibly can.

Forget all your excuses, take massive action, and you'll see you'll be tremendously successful in no time.

TIP #4: Your Reason Why

Having said all that about taking action, there's one thing I need to mention to you.

You don't want to just work hard. You need to also work smart.

It's not enough to take action. You need the right plan, the right set of strategies and tactics that will get you where you want to be.

Define your reasons why you want to be successful with women, and become laser focused.

Do you want to meet a girl that you want to have a long term relationship with, or are you looking for a hook up?

Do you want someone that will nurture you, or are you more interested in a no-strings-attached relationship?

Whatever your reasons are, you have to clearly define them, because your end goal will determine how you're going to get there.

You're not going to treat someone you're hooking up with for the night the same as someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, right?

Once your goal is defined, you have to figure out how to get there.