Hi. I'm Anonymous PUA.

I'm not the best in the game, but usually the only guy that consistently goes out in my city and inner circle. I'm not a an mPUA by any means. I don't have instructor-level game, but I consistently eclipse other players when I'm out, in any situation.

I want to share some principles of my own to fill in the conceptual gaps of knowledge you'll quickly discover once you are in field. These are all practical, field tested concepts and techniques which have accelerated my success to an advanced level, so enjoy.

It's not about what you say, or how you say it, but who you say it to which matters the most.

This is a principle which relates as much to sales and marketing as it does to seduction. In sales, the fastest way of making a sale is through being absolutely clear on what your offer is and putting it in front of the right market. One way of thinking about it is that no matter how good of a salesperson you are, it would be impossible to sell furniture to a homeless person, a golf set to a tennis player, or women's clothing to a man. Putting it simply, some products and customers are simply not a realistic fit for each other.

So how the fuck does this relate to picking up girls?

Well, in pick up you will get one of four possible reactions to your game.

A fast yes - she likes you right away and is receptive to escalation. A slow yes - same as above but can occur over multiple day2s, day3s etc A fast no - aka a blow out A slow no - the worst kind. attention whores, girls with boyfriends, emotionally unavailable but needy girls, girls which are on the fence about you which could go either way

Accept that with your level of looks, game, level of momentum, her mood, hormonal cycle, horniness.. you cannot ultimately control how she is going to react to you, the same way a salesperson cannot sell to every person. Some people have chemistry and others don't. You don't have to make every girl like you, in fact this is the opposite to what I advocate as a veteran player.

I want you to think that every girl you meet is holding an envelope with one of the aforementioned conclusions written down. Is she going to fuck you tonight, in a few weeks, or never?

On the approach it will be a nebulous combination of all of them at once, but she will be leaning predominantly towards one. Your job is to find which.

The way in which you discover if she is down or not is by being very polarizing. This means, when you walk up you look at her in the eyes and deliver a sincere, direct opener. Building on this polarity, your tonality, eye contact, sub communications, conversation topics should ooze sexuality. This means avoid at all costs emotionally neutral topics such as talking about the situation you are in, the weather, what she did that day etc. This does absolutely nothing seems incongruent to the aggressive, sexual guy you project when you open directly. Talk about her, make observations, use push pulls, cold reads, typical game stuff. This should be your foundation. Not 100% 'What do you do?' Stranger talk, because otherwise she will relate to you as a stranger to a stranger, not woman to a man she's going to fuck. You control the emotional context of the conversation as a man. You decide if she's going to view you as a friend, lover or dirty bathroom pull - but only if you take ownership of the frame and don't just stay politely inside hers. You must challenge her, you need to to either attack her frame or become an authority in order for her to feel you are a sexual threat.

My over-arching frame to summarize everything above is to play to win, instead of playing not to lose.

Are you there to entertain her for a few hours and then going home alone? And what is something she's not doing while she's being entertained by your little polite chat? Sucking your dick. Remember. You are there to fuck the girl, not be her gay emotional tampon or another guy that falls at her feet. She likes sex as much as you, and there's no reason you need to wait to be the most self-actualized guy in the world. She's not going to wait for the perfect guy to come along either, she's going to suck and fuck someone. And she'll be giving the same excuses of why she can't go home with you as she does the guy she DOES go home with if it's not you, that she's tired, busy, her friends are there blah blah. The only difference between the guy that gets laid and the one that doesn't is that the other closes HARD on the girls who give them signs they want to fuck, while the vast majority give up far, far, far too easily. Girls are just trying to fit in, she doesn't want to seem uncool to you, so she's doing what she thinks YOU want her to do - by not acting like a slut. It's not because you aren't cool, attractive or high value enough. She is just socially conditioned.. and in a weird sense she is resisting because you she likes you. If she didn't want to fuck she wouldn't have spent the past three hours talking to you and being sexual. But she needs you to take 100% responsibility, and literally 100%. Which is why most of my pulls look like; 'No, No, No, I'm not going home with you, We're not sleeping together, I don't know.' And when we actually do they say.. 'Thank god! I got laid!' Im pretty sure this is universal.. Pulling a supermodel or a celebrity you would think you would need to push a little hard for the close, the every day cute girls you and I are dating are the same.

You can either be the guy she has an amazing time with in bed, or it going to be someone who probably has worse intentions than you do. Some douchebag or asshole from the club. Now you can either shut the fuck up and become entitled and pull her in spite of her excuses or deal with the reality that she IS going to be sucking on dick that's not yours after you drop her home for that night. I'm offering you the choice between looking at how girls really behave compared to the 'nice girl' complex you project onto every chick you meet.

So in summary..

Invest in the girls who are down to meet you and get fucked, not girls on the fence or time wasters, girls with boyfriends.. attention whores.

Take each set as far as you can and keep escalating. Until you hear the firm 'No.' Everything else is bullshit

Your game can even be shit and just by doing the two you will have a sexual abundance far beyond what you could imagine.

Have fun,