Anyone have difficulty getting up again after they've been horny and then time has passed?

Casanova-Quinn · 2022-03-24T17:51:50+00:00

Ever heard the phrase "killed the mood"? That's what happened to you. It's perfectly normal.

Sad-Field3174 · 2022-03-24T17:02:35+00:00

Can’t get hard eat her out homie be a man

Chrisanova_NY · 2022-03-24T20:08:59+00:00

There's a few types of dicks, that deviate from the hardness norm:

Distracted dick
Depression dick
Drunk dick --- aka "whiskey dick"
Don't-put-your-dick-in-that dick

There's a few others, but yeah... this happens.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-24T16:23:21+00:00

100% normal dude

vandaalen · 2022-03-24T18:11:58+00:00

Happens to me sometimes, expecially the first two or three times with a new woman.

Just try to get yourself into the mood again. Start kissing and become very passionate, moan whatever. This should usually also turn her on. Start playing with her pussy, tell her to wank you or suck you, or whatever turns you on, you get it.

broth_snob · 2022-03-24T16:32:43+00:00

Dude. Had the same thing happened to me last night. 1st time with this girl too. Felt like an ass but she was sweet about it.

BadHairDayToday · 2022-03-24T17:11:01+00:00

Yeah dude, it sucks. I actually ask the girl to do certain tasks like closing the curtains so I don't lose "it" with walking around. If do lose it, it won't come back with the same strength.

I had a girl that would actually be quite disappointed every time that happened. Like if it was 100% hard she would come quite easily if she was on her belly, but with only say 80% this wasn't the case. So she would focused quite a bit on making sure that wouldnt happened 😅

Snakehead004 · 2022-03-24T20:29:49+00:00

As a over 35 male I'm realizing I'm VERY lucky and unique to get turned on, cum, stay hard and be able to go again or wait and almost always be ready to go. I do LOVE sex and women.. Maybe too much lol

2022-03-24T19:58:54+00:00

Suck her titties and you should be hard within 30 seconds.

VDKay · 2022-03-24T18:39:04+00:00

Completely normal phenomenon.

Do something else instead, put some relaxing music, watch a movie, etc. Try again later, or call it a night. Don't stress over one time you wasn't feeling it.

ld20r · 2022-03-24T20:31:21+00:00

I’m going to give it to you straight from someone who was recently there.

Shower together. There’s little pressure or expectation to perform and you can massage/ feel each other up while your body is getting warm.

A warmer body also means more blood going to the penis and more blood flowing means more erections.

It can be incredibly erotic. I was rock hard during and afterwards.

Don’t underestimate Showers.

It’s not always about porno. Physical stimulation and Foreplay are important. You can’t move a car without getting the engine and gas warmed up first.

rock1207 · 2022-03-24T17:49:38+00:00

This is completely normal. Going to a sex party Sat night where there will be about 8 or 10 women. I will usually not cum with the first two women just for that reason (typically have sex with three at these things) . By the time wife and I get home though I am usually ready to go and she expects it.

coldbrew18 · 2022-03-24T19:38:53+00:00

I’m good for about two restarts, after that I’m done trying.

Alex_O7 · 2022-03-24T22:35:42+00:00

It may happen when you kill the mood really hard... if your pause of 20-30 min included you doing some stuff or being mentally oriented to something else, then you have to start again from the scratch even if you are willing to go again. Take things slow in that case, make out, eat our your girl and get back in the mood.

The-Bull89 · 2022-03-24T17:53:16+00:00

It's normal bro.

One of my exes loved to tease me, I'd get really hard and then she wouldn't let me fuck her, she really liked the foreplay. After getting hard then soft then hard again several times by the time.she was ready for the sex my dick didn't want to play ball. At the time I thought it was me, but I soon realized when your hard you can't wait too long to penetrate

Canadianfromtexas · 2022-03-24T19:47:12+00:00

Call one of your homies and tap them in WWE style

2022-03-24T18:39:45+00:00

quit watching so much porn

Pikappucinno · 2022-03-24T20:24:05+00:00

This should be on r/sex

Title	Anyone have difficulty getting up again after they've been horny and then time has passed?
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Comments	39
Date	March 24, 2022 4:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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