Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.

entitledwank · 2025-04-30T13:28:25+00:00

Black Pill - a sad way to think. Get out there and talk to women, you may be surprised

matellai · 2025-04-30T13:17:59+00:00

if you are ugly but have charisma people in general will like you more

Throwawayamanager · 2025-04-30T14:03:17+00:00

How weird. Guess this guy I know who was a student from a dirt poor family didn't actually have all the girls fighting over him and I must have dreamed it up or something. Crazy how these hallucinations work.

Granted, he was above average looking, certainly not ugly. But nobody would confuse him for Brad Pitt's long lost twin. Nobody would describe "perfect physical appearance" as his #1 first impression. He was just very smart and charismatic, had women fighting over him at every turn, and married the college equivalent of the homecoming queen, the "it" girl.

A lot of incels have a lot of motivated reasoning to blame "I just didn't inherit the right genes" and wallow, instead of improving what they can.

Y0hi · 2025-04-30T14:14:45+00:00

Opposite. I have money and good looking but i have no friends or women

Adventurous-Key4357 · 2025-04-30T15:28:42+00:00

Completely untrue.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-04-30T15:38:01+00:00

Incel excuses

therealwoujo · 2025-04-30T18:51:20+00:00

Incel excuses. Next question.

topher_atx · 2025-04-30T19:14:16+00:00

I agree that being funny and having charisma is not enough to overcome being fat when trying to attract women. You have to also meet her standards for physical attractiveness.

And if you want to make a woman your girlfriend or wife, you're going to have to have a stable job/career/profession, or she isn't going to feel safe starting a family with you. You have to be able to provide while she's pregnant or raising your children. However, you don't have to be a multi-millionaire and drive a Bugatti, thats ridiculous.

Don't fall for this Fresh & Fit clickbait. The young women they have on those shows are dumb, probably live with their parents, and don't even know how much money different jobs & professions pay.

that-dreamer · 2025-05-02T04:56:40+00:00

Not legit. Look around, most guys are pretty mid looking. Even fewer guys have enough money for that to make a difference. Yet, the human race hasn't died out and (most) guys do end up hooking up/finding a relationship/whatever their goal is. The power of a good conversation.

Th3FakeFatSunny · 2025-04-30T13:54:06+00:00

I'd be way more likely to go with the funny, charismatic guy over the rich, handsome one; both for hook-ups and for long term.

epimpstyle · 2025-04-30T13:48:15+00:00

Of course, being handsome is an advantage.

But what if nature wasn’t generous to you? Are you just going to stay home and cry about it? Of course not!

Phil Heitlinger is talking with James Tusk about this subject HERE

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-30T13:58:36+00:00

You got it the other way around. See my post "how attraction works" so you get clear before starting. I think people pay way too less attention to understanding the correct female psychology and then they wonder why they keep banging their heads over and over again.

Just get it right the first time no matter how bizzare or unbelieveable it may seem to you and just reap the results faster. That's what the begineer wants eitherway, so why waste your time debating with experienced people when you have no experience yourselves?

J1mmy_white · 2025-04-30T13:56:49+00:00

I would say Money i the most important thing, then charisma and lastly looks

Title	Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.
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