I advise you guys to read the book women by charles bukowski, and copy the persona of the main character which name is hank chinasky, He just treat women with chill mentality and never judge or call them on their shit or bitching, he just chills and say whatever, he don't get jealous he's just trying to get fun, and he never over invest in a woman, itried his method and my numbers are so good even though i live in a little town plus of all the religious restrictions and repressions.