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[–]Hank_salamanca 52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Social media made so many people mentally ill. To many guys today think that they should be 6 foot 3, with male model face and millionaire in order to get women. Great guys open tinder and see how little attention they get online and then think that it’s reflect real life. This topic don’t get even near 1% of the attention that it should get.
[+]CaptainSaveBPD -10 points-9 points-8 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
it's true though
good looking guys live in a completely different world,
women literlaly come over to have sex with good looking guys
whereas the average guy needs to go on 5 dates
[–]TexasBoyz-713 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Found another one!
[–]futuremo 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, I'm a pretty average looking guy and I've had women come over to fuck for the first time hanging out
[–]CaptainSaveBPD -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
clearly you are not average. silly.
[+]camxelite99 -11 points-10 points-9 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Lack of Tinder attention doesn’t reflect real life?
[–]Hank_salamanca 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yep, tinder attention reflects how good is your profile and that’s it. I know someone that had a lot of success with women and relationships, he has 0 matches on tinder. You know what he did? He deleted tinder and just approached girls like he did before, he didn’t tried to pay for premium or getting “professional photos” or a nose job.
[–]rivetcitymayor 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approached in which settings ?
[–]Hank_salamanca 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Street, bars, social events etc. anywhere where you can show your charisma and social skills/intelligence. That’s what attracts women in the end of the day. Don’t get me wrong but looks can be HUGE advantage and if you have decent facial features and body you’re going to have it much easier. Anyway the point is, you get what you look for, if you’re not extremely good looking or looking for something serious stay off dating apps. the amount of average or below looking guys that think that they can meet someone there is pathetic. go somewhere that you can show your advantages, and if you have nothing to rely on…well that’s another problem
[–]Mc_Dickles 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I honestly just ignore them. They don’t want help, because I know they’ve read all the information on this sub and they know all they have to do is apply it; actually go and do it. But they won’t. So fuck it. Some people will always be left behind.
[–]Baby_willie 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Dude it’s a reddit sub, there’s people from all walks of life. My tip to you is don’t be so bothered by others, you won’t win.
[–]tractorinballs 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
It’s just that this sub has been overrun by incels, and if you bring it up the thread gets locked and everyone gets a warning. This is not the same sub it was like 3-4 years ago. It’s gotten really pathetic.
[–]Rastaman143 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not even 3-4 years ago. It was pretty well post pandemic shit even this time last year too. Last year some shit has happened incels have increase exponentially or they are being more vocal about it. Yeah I was trying to help people on this sub but it’s slowly starting to become a tar pit. Plus OP, fuck that dude lots of key board Warriors on here I can’t fathom them.
[+]Iloveindianajones -11 points-10 points-9 points 3 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by incels? I hate that term. Do you just use it to describe everyone who disagrees with you?
Edit why the downvotes? I want to know. That seems like a silly term.
[–]Jaykee808 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Look up the definiton of incel. People who are involuntarily celibate.
[–]Iloveindianajones 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
How are you being upvoted? This makes no sense.
Am I an, "incel" by the virtue of being a 20-year-old virgin?
[–]Jaykee808 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If it's in involuntary then yeah you're an incel. That's literally the definition of the word. If you want sex but unable to get it, you are an incel, simple as that.
[–]tractorinballs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s not really accurate. Being an incel comes with the toxic idea that you are somehow owed sex regardless of how disgusting you are or bad your personality is.
Incels named themselves. The term is toxic in and of itself. It’s the idea that they are owed sex without effort and that if you are able to get sex you’re some kind of “normie” and that makes you “bad” or whatever. And it’s like no dude, put down the yugioh cards and get with the program.
I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 19. I wasn’t an incel though, and once I had, the flood gates were opened and I’ve not had a dry spell. I didn’t sit around playing video games complaining about how shitty women are and poor me. That’s what makes someone an incel.
[–]Jaykee808 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the extreme cases. It's just like homeless people. People who jump from couch to couch are also homeless, it's not just people on the streets or in shantytowns.
[–]TuckerTheCuckFucker 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People on this sub complaining about women and how game doesn’t work and saying dumb shit like “game doesn’t work for you unless you’re good looking”
That’s what we mean
We’re siickkk of it
There’s other places to complain about dating.
This is not the sub for that
[–]Iloveindianajones -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because it's true? It's impossible to find a partner unless good looking.
[–]TuckerTheCuckFucker 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s the definition of an incel bro
No one’s disagreeing that the cares are stacked against you as a man when it comes to dating.
But this is not the sub to complain in
This sub is for men who are empowered to step up and take control of their dating situation, not for boys who want an echo chamber about how bad they have it
[–]Alive_Shoulder3573 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Seems like a lot of the groups are getting taken over by people who want to twist what the meanings of words are to match what they are instead of joining the subs to be a part of their already defined area
[–]tractorinballs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve had 3 strokes trying to read this.
Edit: I get it now
[–]letsgetrandy 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This sub is no different from the larger Reddit as a whole -- years ago it was really useful, but now everyone has become homogenized and it's all an echo chamber where people just want to whine about depression and anxiety, tell each other that they're wrong, hurl sarcasm and insults at strangers, and do absolutely nothing to address what's wrong within themselves.
But there's one thing I have to point out following your post -- with \most of which I agree -- and that is the fact that you taking the time to autistically obsess over it and then taking the time to whine about it in a diatribe starts to make you no better than the people you are judging, and takes the wind out of the sails of your observation/opinion.
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[–]letsgetrandy 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And now you're doubling down on justifying yourself -- to Reddit! Not only has justifying oneself never made them somehow look better, but also, of all the opinions to care about, the least sexy is Reddit.
[–]throwawaytinderhey 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are speaking like a Redditor. Look at the punctuation! Look at mine! We're in an echo chamber! We're all doomed!
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[–]MonkeyD-Daniel -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jojo refference
[–]Rastaman143 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love how people are attacking you, everybody is offended in this day and age. I get where you’re coming from, this sub used to be the shit where men can come and get advice. It’s like seeing a beautiful field of roses slowly dying. It makes me mad too but we have to adapt. Just move on really. Insecure chumps the lot of them
[–]SolidPuzzleheaded984 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why do you care so much? Focus on your own shit
[–]deznue -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly
[–]aviator122 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah same most people on here on complete incels
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that guys a fucking loser and a theory junkie if that’s who I’m thinking of who’s an awful PUA and doesn’t know shit about the U.K. scene approaching girls. Just ignore and move on.
[–]zertsetzung -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
"Took a break from this place for a while and having come back I remember why I left."
If you arent enjoying this forum, then by all means fuck off.
Seriously dude. Trashing the locals here, however annoying they may objectively be, is quite low.
And honestly it just looks as if you are doing it to gain social points. Which is pretty sad considering we are on reddit.
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xxeury/ive_got_this_feeling_most_of_the_people_here_dont/ircqq0b/?context=3
[–]TimGreen_1888 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why do you care so much? This is just a subreddit about what is effectively psychology, and in large about self-improvement.
I’m sorry someone is forcing you to read the content here
[–]simplyaguyonline -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. Not gonna read all this.
I wouldn't worry about the other people on this sub. I brush off the bad attitudes, cause it's not worth the worry. It's the internet, too many people on here not living out in the real world.
I enjoy the good takes from the good people who genuinely want to get better and leave it at that.
[–]RedArcheos 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP I've never see them in my feed. Keep in mind there is a recommendation algorithm on Reddit too.
Best way is to ignore this kind of post and comment. Algorithm are made to increase your session time, if you are less likely to react to this kind of post/comment the algorithm is less prompt to push it to you. Polarization is one of the best way to keep people invested.
It can be a good exercise to learn to detach yourself and not react to absurd and meaningless behaviour of people
[–]Alive_Shoulder3573 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What exactly do you mean? What stuff went down here that bothered you? Being new here. What should I look out for?
[–]tractorinballs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Incels everywhere lurking to offer their shit takes any opportunity they can. Misogyny.
[–]extrovertLibra 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You made my day, and your right
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