She forgot our date : should I reschedule ?

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Therocksays2020 · 2022-09-12T23:05:36+00:00

I would move on total disrespect of your time and only mild remorse.

See if she reaches out. If she does cool. But if she doesn’t don’t waste your time. This forum is full of guys chasing women who aren’t interested in them

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-09-12T23:12:09+00:00

She clearly not interested.

A girl who is truly into a guy would never ever forget she has a date with him. Never.

A girl who truly can’t stop herself from imagining how things would be with a guy, a girl who is so excited she had finally met a guy she truly likes and connects with so well would never in a million years forget she had a date with him.

How many times did you as a man forget you had a date with a girl you actually liked? Never. Women are not different in that regard.

So yeah move on.

meisterkraus · 2022-09-12T23:13:13+00:00

If she reschedules cool if don't bother.

vldtrki · 2022-09-13T00:02:36+00:00

If she reschedules go

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-13T02:23:07+00:00

Clubs are mostly ONS venues. You shouldn't attempt to get numbers in a club. You should be attempting to take them somewhere sex can happen direct from the club. If you do not, sex is unlikely to ever happen and then you end up in this situation.

Plus if she's not really feeling anything for you and then you ask for the number, there's a very good chance that the number will flake - if she gives you her number at all. Then you try to call - and you can end up like you are now.

Let's think logically here. If she met you for the first time, was immediately attracted to you, and then rather than take her home, you get her number instead and leave her and the club or go talk to some other girl... she's going to be really disappointed, and likely pissed off. Now there's an extra level of stuffing about to simply meet up again when she's right there in front of you. She's likely going to think -- screw this guy, I want a guy who wants to screw me RIGHT NOW!!

(Actually I've managed to get women out from under better looking guys who have no game simply because they just aren't paying attention, or fail to strike when the iron is hot)

Anyway for you, honestly there's no point rescheduling. I'll bet my last dollar note she wouldn't show up anyway given how far this has gone.

Ok-Training-7587 · 2022-09-13T00:31:11+00:00

Imagine a woman you were excited about tried to schedule a date w you. Can you imagine forgetting about it like that? You are not important to her. I would move on.

resetpw · 2022-09-13T01:11:37+00:00

Let her make the next move

pusillanimous303 · 2022-09-13T03:34:27+00:00

Entirely plausible that she just forgot. Remember, she followed up with giving you her number. If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t have done that. Try one more time. If she forgets again, move on.

ozzzy83 · 2022-09-13T15:20:19+00:00

Don't bother with that girl. You dodged a bullet.

QuelaansBlade · 2022-09-13T06:31:17+00:00

I might make one more attempt but missing the date is a very bad sign. If she was highly interested in you she would not forget. You were likely a backup date if her main date fell through

Puzzled_Nail_1962 · 2022-09-13T10:28:28+00:00

Would you ever forget a date with a girl you're interested in? There's your answer.

2022-09-13T10:45:11+00:00

No contact bro! She will either forget about you or message you herself

Title	She forgot our date : should I reschedule ?
Author	DinoRubis
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	September 12, 2022 10:49 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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