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MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-09-02T02:06:18+00:00

Are you putting yourself out there? Women aren’t going to just walk up to you cause you look desperate. All the other guys you are talking about actually socialize and interact with women on a daily basis. Unless you are doing that, nothing is going to happen.

Shua101 · 2022-09-02T11:16:24+00:00

I love the hit the gym comments… that’s the pretty boy advice. I’m in the 1-4/10 category, score dimes. Dressing nice helps, hitting the gym will help in time, but you need to be the funnest most interesting guy in the room. Make them laugh and feel good. Project confidence by looking happy and comfortable in you own skin. Smelling nice, fresh breath also really important but being good with who you are and not “wreaking” of desperation and pity are more important. If you project someone that is fun to be around they will come to you. Cold approaching helps but be funny and keep it light. I used to open with my name is blah blah and I’m the Token ugly guy, they laugh ice is broken and proceed with regular banter. But if you don’t seem like your fun and interesting as well as put together then you don’t stand a chance in the sea of pretty boys. Also if your at a bar don’t get polluted keep your Witt’s about you.

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-09-02T18:00:50+00:00

Here are your options when it comes to women:

Looks Money Status Game Alpha

If you’re good looking it definitely helps, all you have to convey is a positive and masculine personality and you’re good to go. Don’t be mistaken you can fuck it up if you’re good looking.

Be wary with money as it attracts the wrong type of woman, you will get attention but use with caution.

Status is great as you’re pre selected, women operate on a hive mind basis, the more you got the more you get.

Game is about putting the work in, if you’re a hard working person learning game shouldn’t be too difficult, this is attraction in a psychological level, convincing the opposite sex that you are of higher value and they can’t afford to let you go.

Alpha, being a badass and being known for it definitely attracts women, especially younger women, slap on some muscle get some tats, be down for a scrap and you’ll be drowning in chicks.

All the best buddy.

redditman7777 · 2022-09-02T03:47:57+00:00

Coz you are 1-4/10 in looks. If you are below average there is no hope.

Get really really fit in the gym. Dress extremely well. Smell very very good and you will have success at some level that will satisfy you.

rjones416 · 2022-09-02T04:21:43+00:00

maybe they check you out but you dont see it. i remember in high school and college i thought there were was just 1 or 2 girls that liked me but then i found out almost all the girls in my class had a thing for me.

TheUnsecure · 2022-09-02T03:10:51+00:00

If you're around average looking, girls aren't going to be checking you out. They don't really see you as appealing unless you have something else to offer.

So you'd have to approach them yourself if you want a chance with any of them and simply hope they won't reject you.

Bandit_Beamish · 2022-09-02T02:37:39+00:00

Simple. Work on your fashion and fitness.

below298 · 2022-09-02T14:41:48+00:00

Welcome to the Jungle of Dating in 2022..

Men no longer like days of old have need to fight and hunt all day in the wilderness to survive just until the next day..

Now we use dating apps, go to gyms and fake smile in the hopes that a woman / female looks our general direction and allows us to intimate the sacred mating ritual of our ancestors. 😄

V-Future · 2022-09-02T14:17:41+00:00

Go to see a shrink. That person will tell you a lot about yourself. Things you don't know about yourself. So you can work on the flaws you have and finally stop repelling women. Nobody will like you if you don't like yourself first.

It is important to see a shrink because that person doesn't know who you are so he/she won't have a concept about you yet but they can read you as a book. If you do this with a friend or a family member, it can be deceiving.

And get some money bro, women don't like broke boys. It is what it is.

jaypb182 · 2022-09-02T14:10:51+00:00

What do you want us to say that hasn't already been said a million times?

If you're not 6'2+ and have male model good looks and are shredded women won't want anything to do with you.

Caveat: yeah, we can improve our "game" and looksmax and get rich, but unless you have the above qualities women will never open you or give you "signals".

zapadz · 2022-09-02T02:18:54+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UnhWiq3E7eI&t=22m00s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ovS27WQU5-g

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

epimpstyle · 2022-09-02T17:27:47+00:00

Usually, if a girl starts to talk to you, you will consider that girl to be an "easy girl"... so it is clear that YOU must initiate a conversation because you are the man.

Its_Double_six · 2022-09-02T18:14:59+00:00

Maybe they start the conversations themselves buddy

AngeloMacon · 2022-09-02T21:14:07+00:00

Well, with that level of detail, you're sure to get great sdvice.

inline6throwaway · 2022-09-02T23:49:29+00:00

You know what man sometimes I've wondered this about myself. I consider myself medium height, I've got a good frame and it comes out more when I work out. Idk if women generally consider me to be handsome, average, or ugly. Because when I'm out and about it seems like I'm invisible. Especially to the women at my gym. I am balding so I shave my head and can pull off the bald look. I am not white. I still struggle with wondering if I'm ugly or average because I haven't bedded an 8, 9, or 10. I engender being younger in school being unable to talk to my crushes. Maybe I would have had a chance if I had simply spoke to them.

I've had a few times I can think of where women initiate conversation with me. Female strangers. One time I was at this, I'll call it a restaurant for my buddy's birthday. I was in good spirits, having a great time, waiting in line to get another drink. And a decently attractive women initiate convo with me. I've had this happen in bars, I've gotten complements from older women. I get looks. Just rarely or seemingly never from younger attractive women. Idk.

All of these instances, I was in a good mood, having a good time, just doing me and being happy about it. Not thinking about who I'm attractive to, not dwelling on which woman I wanted to get with. And those were the times when I had female strangers initiate contact with me, or show me clear signs that they wanted me to talk to them. When I'm in my head constantly dwelling on "how can I talk to this particular woman who caught my eye, or is anyone checking me out?? Or why don't women talk to me??" Uh uh. It's not happening. This is desperation. Your question is a sign that you're still dealing with desperation. I told you a few of my stories in hopes that it will help. I think that if you try what I told you, in time you may like the results.

Prestigious-Pirate63 · 2022-09-03T00:15:01+00:00

Dude, go talk to some chicks, be a little bit more forward and playful with them

sayogtmg · 2022-09-03T08:42:25+00:00

Girls I want, don't want me or are in serious relatioships and girls whom I am not interested are very much interested. Life is hard

yiggaman · 2022-09-03T10:01:11+00:00

You just don't want any women that's why you can't get any

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