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Purpers · 2022-08-12T16:54:37+00:00

Be fun enjoy the music, and most of all don’t be afraid to fucking DANCE. Chicks love dudes that are confident in dancing, don’t even have to be good. Just get comfortable moving your body and when u lock eyes with someone invite them to dance or spin them around and give out high fives. Enjoy yourself

waterearthfireair619 · 2022-08-12T14:56:40+00:00

Bring some extra party favors and drink water

RinkyInky · 2022-08-12T15:09:13+00:00

Focus on having fun, be the “everyone is my friend” guy but with a basic level of respect, it’s hard to beat the fun but respectful guy that looks great. Everyone should feel safe and relaxed around you, guys and girls alike. The fun and spontaneous part will take care of the attraction aspect with women if you got your looks and style down already.

Joshru · 2022-08-12T15:04:33+00:00

Dance and vibe, have a lot of fun dancing. If a girl starts hitting you with her hair or smiling / touching you, that’s the sign to begin to move in.

sk07ch · 2022-08-12T14:59:10+00:00

Enjoy dancing, don't talk the whole time. Just vibe and get into the groove.

Colonel_McKernel · 2022-08-12T17:17:30+00:00

Approach it from this perspective: be the guy girls want to join in with. If you’re lurking around looking for women, you’re not going to look like someone that’s fun to join or follow.

Be a leader, be valuable to those you’re with (many ways to do that), and occasionally give others a brief chance to join you.

burncushlikewood · 2022-08-12T19:45:22+00:00

Don't take your shirt off, I am the king at gaming girls at festivals. Trick is to stand around and attract females toward you, the way you do this is to have a good time and not stare, dance enjoy yourself, women will be drawn to you, then you just talk and then you escalate by touching, easy peasy

Baby_willie · 2022-08-12T14:54:54+00:00

Keep your swimming trunks on

grindforthegold · 2022-08-12T17:01:10+00:00

Cocaine

n0wmhat · 2022-08-12T17:02:52+00:00

an outdoor pool is not a real rave lol

TransportationOk5588 · 2022-08-12T18:23:28+00:00

is it splash house in palm springs?

tehallmighty · 2022-08-12T20:05:24+00:00

Have fun first and foremost. You’re there for the music, not just the girls. And honestly as long as you put out a good vibe, girls will notice it.

So last weekend i was at moonrise music festival. I went for this girl that i really like that has shown a bunch of ioi’s to me. Literally i was just chilling and vibing out in this chilbo schwaggins (inflatable couch that doesn’t need a pump. Highly recommend. $20 on amazon) with her and another friend of hers. This other girl comes up to me, starts just vibing and stuff. And then starts cuddling with me, and all of this is happening right next to the girl i like also. The girl i like is jealous now and can’t get enough of me because of it lol. I did literally nothing and thats what happened. Just go enjoy yourself and don’t have any expectations for how it will go.

Edit:: just to add onto that, i ended up running into the girl that cuddled with me the next day, she had no top and no pasties and i had an open hawaiian shirt and we did a chest bump together, tittie on tittie lol. Super cool vibe from her. I love it.

popbinder12 · 2022-08-12T17:05:16+00:00

A grip of mushrooms

strppngynglad · 2022-08-12T22:10:26+00:00

pecks

UniversallyObjective · 2022-08-12T17:16:38+00:00

Where's it located?

ImAGhostOooooooo · 2022-08-12T20:04:04+00:00

What does being fit have to do with having fun at a rave?

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-12T19:18:49+00:00

I'm not one you should ask for advice, but if I could stop you from going I would tell you not to go.

I don't like rave culture and what it leads people into. Mainly the drugs and the counterfeit. It's marketed that way, hook, line, and sinker. Think how different your life might be if you never went to a rave.

Alternative_Eye_2799 · 2022-08-12T20:41:54+00:00

What made me feel like I fit in while being by myself at social places (parties raves etc) was socializing with men and becoming there friend so I won’t feel alone and awkward and left out then at that point you already have ur little group

Unless you won’t feel self conscious being alone at social events

ah_jer · 2022-08-12T21:06:29+00:00

Don’t put your head in the water unless you want pinkeye.

HomeschoolProm · 2022-08-12T23:35:13+00:00

Hey Op I have a question, how often do you drink? If at all? I don’t alcohol to fuck my gains but I also don’t want to be that guy not able to have fun? Wat do?

CometAzur42069 · 2022-08-12T23:53:53+00:00

Dont waste time with girls who dont want to fuck, if you’re good looking that could be an issue.

EvadingTaxes · 2022-08-13T00:01:56+00:00

At raves I’d recommend to enjoy yourself (If you do drugs, I highly recommend Ecstasy or Speed) and if nobody is approaching you (which is unlikely if you’re having fun - people on uppers always want to be social at raves ime) then just try to do a kind of „cold“ approach on someone that maybe shows interest in you

Otherwise just find some people that you kinda vibe with so you can build a group, that will get social stuff going even faster

Once someone is interested, dancing and escalation is key

Yesu777 · 2022-08-13T00:32:52+00:00

Be a good vibe, make eye contact, ask her to dance and have a great time

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