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[–]Few-General5990 392 points393 points394 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She’s just a woman who wants a good time. That’s the whole story. Age isn’t significant.
[–]r1bb1tTheFrog 37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Correct. No need to talk about your situation or her situation or what either of you are looking for. Just go and vibe and see where the night takes you
[–]JCeee666 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is when he’s jail bait! Which he is….
[–]Y615[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!
[–]desire-us 156 points157 points158 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Lol, literally the way you handle ANY date. Take that night to learn about her and what y’all have in common. You might have more things in common with a younger woman but I’m sure you can find something you both enjoy.
Don’t get too into your head about her being a milf.
[–]Popular_Ad3953 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Yes my personnal issue is that we don't end up having a lot in common, which is also a turn off for me.
But she said she really likes my culture etc, so it's gonna be a good topic for sure.
Also i tend to get very playful with girls my age in order to flirt, but iam afraid it's gonna be off-vibe with someone older, who's an actual adult.
will try my best tho
[–]geralddeedee 45 points46 points47 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Bro the first date, isn't about you. Learn the game . Flirt with her, don't bring up the kid unless you have too. Don't bring up your age unless you have too. I'm not saying hid it or omit it. Just saying that if your plan is to head back to her place on the first night ( surprisingly ballsy of you) don't bring up shit that would be contrasting or not favorable. Truthfully you may not even talk about, as in she won't ask because if she does then it gives you the ability to ask hers.
[+]Popular_Ad3953 -46 points-45 points-44 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You think she wont ask for my age because she's ashamed of her on age or something ? Btw i will 100% lie if she asks me. Just dont know if i should Say 22,or 23.. I mentionned going to her place because she mentionned (informed me) of a thrift store and said it was near her place (probably just a coincidence?) But anyway i'll be more than happy if i just kiss her at the end of the date.
[–]probablysomeonecool 50 points51 points52 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Dude, don't lie about your age. Own that shit, and be honest.
[+]Popular_Ad3953 -36 points-35 points-34 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Nah you dont get it, i literally cant say it for legal reasons
[–]probablysomeonecool 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You are younger than 18? Or you mean because y'all are gonna be drinking?
[+]Popular_Ad3953 -36 points-35 points-34 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes, and i've had to lie multiple times about it since i started approaching. And yes people believe me. I went on a "date" with a 28yo girl and she was shocked when i told her i was 21. (She wasnt the same as the girl iam talking about rn)
[–]WillfulMurder 34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh is this like some kinda reverse statutory rape
[–]I_Like_Milf 21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah like that's not ok ever
[+]V-Future -6 points-5 points-4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't look for common interests with women, that makes you a dork. Most women are boring as fuck so they don't even have hobbies or interesting topics to talk about. It is what it is. But all women and I mean ALL of them have emotions.
Don't look for intelectual stuff to talk about, don't try to sound smart. Just let her talk about herself and ask for things like "Which was your childhood favorite ice cream?" "What's the thing you love most about your job?" "What's the most exciting part of your day?" So by this way you will not annoy women interviewing them like "do you have sisters?" "Do you live with roomies?" "Where do you work?".
That's very personal, avoid personal questions. She's trying to have fun, not to be interviewed like in a job application. And remember, don't tall about yourself like if you were trying to sell something. Keep mystery and give vague answers. And please, treat people like if we all had the same age, that's the most charismatic trait ever.
[–]alpdora22 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You are correct and it really works as I tested this and witnessed great results. I mean you can talk about yourself as long as it is here and there, not too much. Lately this became my natural behavior and I love it. So I don’t understand why you’re getting downvotes lol
[–]V-Future 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Truth will liberate you, but first will annoy you. I bet these people who downvoted my comment didn't read all the content, only the part where I say "most women are boring creatures, they don't even have a hobby" and guess what, truth hurts. Thank you for understanding my message!
[–]alpdora22 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re welcome man. And definitely, truth is not the easiest to hear :)
[–]plugdoc 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i agree. don’t let it get to your head with the milf thing
[–]CardiologistBig8721 116 points117 points118 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Actual cougar here - for the love of god ignore half of the advice on this thread. Don’t say anything in the realm of “for your age.” That includes “you look good for your age” “after having a kid” “compared to other older women” or any variation of it. Don’t remind her of her age. Be honest about yours. Be playful. She wants to feel younger. They key is to know how and when to turn the playfulness on and off. Flirt hard. Make her feel desired and heard. You’ll find things to talk about… if she sent those long ass texts, chances are she’s a chatty one (in the best way). Just have fun and don’t get too into your own head.
[–]joculator 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, avoid age as a discussion topic. It shouldn't mean anything to you as far you're concerned. You can probably cut to the chase early on this one.
[–]Mila2015 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m a little worried after reading an above comment and reply from the OP that he is under 18, and I couldn’t tell if it was that he was saying that he was not of drinking age or not of age. If he’s of age and just not 21 yet, then yes, listen to this advice! It’s good! If he is under 18, please let her know before anything physical happens so that she is aware what she’s getting in to. That is something serious to consider, and i know age is just a number, but people don’t want to dive head first in to something like that.
[–]FalconVita 56 points57 points58 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Learn Linux
[–]B0o0 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
???
[–]Comfortable_Tension2 29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you wouldn't understand women love linux
[–]LifesNoNintendo 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
best comment chain in this thread
[–]hthmoney 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂😂
[–]zeuswatch 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
never let them know your next move
[–]dbie 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Treat her just like any other girl unless she makes it clear she doesn't want that. I suggest you forget about the age difference.
[–]ChristianJ105 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanna know how it goes haha, keep us updates OP
[–]FarComplaint2974 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most 30 year old milfs I dated as a 20 year old wanted one thing. Close mouth, open pants, Bring condoms and ride the rainbow! Enjoy grasshopper
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[–]Lit-Up 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mama Khaos has entered the chat, lock up your sons
[–]Internal-Bag2568 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Word
Get into *hers
[–]stepbystep1 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear a condom, I bet that son wasn't planned. Your age difference isn't really relevant.
[–]Railionn 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
After seeing ops responses. .. nothing
[–]RecognitionMajestic 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear a condom, have fun
Imma happy and jealous for OP at the same time lol
[–]stormcucumber 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bang her milk bags and feed her celery
[–]Time_4Change 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's probably into you BECAUSE of your age, I wouldn't go through a whole big thing to lie about it. If you're under 20, it's going to be clear to her you're a decent bit younger.
If both of y'all find each other attractive, just roll with it and have fun. Age is just a number.
I just love beautiful women, period, so age doesn't matter so much to me if there is attraction. The last two women I have talked to were both 20+ years younger than me. But they were both specifically attracted to me. The first one, there wasn't much of a mental connection, she just seemed to want to be with me. The girl I'm seeing now is 20 years younger, but we honestly have decent conversations and have fun together when we go out.
You might think along the same lines, how would a guy in his 40s go out with a girl in her 20s. But we honestly go out and drink, chat, cut up, and have a good time together, just like I would with a woman in my age bracket.
[–]Popular_Ad3953 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay so she confirmed she's up to hang out tomorow (wednesday)
she seems so into it it's crazy how older girls are more communicative.
Also she said something like "you'll help me translate some of my favorite french songs"
I guess the only way to do so is to get back to her place???
Iam actually considering going to buy condoms right now
[–]AbbreviationsOdd1895 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be yourself, throw lots of compliments, jokes, and questions…Google some questions to ask if you can’t think of any to get some ideas…pay for the date.
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stay away from single moms…
[–]assposter14 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find out who her son/sons are, fuck her then flex on them 👍🏻
[–]Marcoscondit -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A old is still a women there’s really no difference
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ymmv but milfs are generally good to go
She is trying to get laid. Don’t draw out the pre “date”. Just get to business
[–]plugdoc -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you got pics of her. dont need the snap or anything
Take her to get a prostate exam.
[–]CanUnusual8729 -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s in her late twenties so I would consider her a milf as far as approach being any different. Women with kids do tend to be more straight forward and relationship oriented, so if that’s what you’re into it can be a breath of fresh air
[–]Lit-Up -5 points-4 points-3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
she loves my name, my culture etc.
lol! Tell me that you're a POC without telling me you're a POC!
Rich white mum wants some young black dick?
How do you manage it? Be polite and mature, read the signs. Say less, listen more. It's not what you say, but more what you don't say.
[–]Popular_Ad3953 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, iam French and mediterranean looking. She said she has a crush on the country, probably lived there on a past life etc. But idk if iam just gonna be the french friend who reminds her of the country, or if she's actually into me. She showed interest in me tho so i guess i just have to play it right and be chill/flirty. She might end up flaking after all idk
[–]Lit-Up -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
all a possibility. get a backup today in case it doesn't work out and always be ready to walk away.
[+]P7o7s7t7a7l -8 points-7 points-6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Meet for dinner...grab wine, rent movie, and go to my place.
Ideally in the same night and in the same neighborhood.
Son stays home.
She should bring her sex bag with her. If she doesn't bring her sex bag then just have dinner and think that she wasn't really intending to.
[–]Pbake 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
JFC…woman should bring her sex bag with her on a first date. This is why nobody on this sub ever gets laid.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her change of clothes and all her toys. She'll never miss a beat.
[+]Dangerous_Item_6879 -12 points-11 points-10 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude. Milfs want to get laid. Flirt. Comment on how great her body looks even after a kid.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
They also are looking for a baby daddy. Ive dated many mom's. They are easy to get along with because they don't have time to waste , and go through certain formalities. But they also have an internal desire to find someone to parent their child. They already started a family and so anyone they date they consider for a relationship or just a fun hookup (they're still human and have needs)
They don't play games and will either be upfront, I'm looking for something serious, or will have a good time with you hoping it turns into more.
[–]Cantsleepperson -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. And they’re usually crazy.
[–]matteblackmatte 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep us updated!!!
[–]starfire_xed 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm under the opinion, the first thing one does is to fuck
[–]sessoms09 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Recreational use only now go out there and have some fun god dammit 🤣🤣🤣
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