How to talk to older women/milfs, are they into younger guys at all?

mabden · 2022-07-21T18:56:06+00:00

One thing to consider, regardless of age, if you can make them feel like they're younger, you're in.

Older people may look/feel their age, but their mentality is still that of a teenager/20 something.

When I was 19, I was going with an "older" 26yo chick. After a good fuck session, all she could say was, "Where were you when I was 19?" What I didn't say was, "12, building model cars in my bedroom."

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-22T00:48:39+00:00

Jesus when did 26 years olds become milfs?

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-07-21T16:53:41+00:00

I would suggest talking to as many older woman that you find an interest in as possible.

Remember: even warren buffet gets 99 no's before 1 yes, so the more you train, the more gains you get. If you talk to 100 women who are the type you like, I guarantee you at least 1 or 2 will want to get to know you more.

By talking to more people, opening more sets, eventually you will find yourself being whisked away by your dream person ving a crazy wild fantastic adventure and this will allow you to gain more confidence, than open even more sets, talk to even more people and the cycle continues ad infinitum.

Also, I would highly suggest you narrowing your focus on these people. Remember: you do have the possibility of facing challenges, and this comes with the package. So keep yourself focused on yourself, on serving the world, serving these women, being respectful, playful and just enjoying life.

When in doubt, be nice, create sincere fun, just take deep breaths and keep talking, asking good questions that make the person feel good and see where it goes from there.

DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU THINK YOU DESERVE.

Take care of your physical health, your mental health and always be opening more sets.

Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.

Musician-Round · 2022-07-21T17:11:02+00:00

Make them feel young is probably the best advice that I can come up with. Different ones have different mindsets about chasing after young meat but they are all at that age where they are fed up with the bs in their personal lives and are ready to let their guard down for someone who makes them feel good about themselves.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-07-21T19:28:16+00:00

Tinder.

Set the age range higher.

Been hooking up with a 31 yo and 32 yo

I’m 25.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2022-07-21T19:31:08+00:00

Yeah it's actually not as rare as many people think. It just comes down to attraction. If you really look how you say you do, you should have no issues. Just gotta be bold and go for it. I wouldn't mention my age unless it was relevant. It's one thing for her to assume you look a bit young and another for her to be doing math in her head realizing she's 8 years older than you. So I say just stay mysterious and flirt it up like you would with a girl your age

ChiIdishcambino · 2022-07-22T00:16:39+00:00

If you get a fake and go hit some bars older women love it when younger guys talk to them. If they’re having a convo w you there’s a good chance they’re interested

I wouldn’t do dating apps, 18 is super young to older women

burakbenxd · 2022-07-22T05:56:02+00:00

They are. My wing made out with a 40 year old, he's 25. Ended up banging her the day after lol.

ctms11 · 2022-07-22T06:22:27+00:00

This boy is trying to be yung gravy lol

Calamity__Bane · 2022-07-21T22:49:04+00:00

Usually 18 is a bit young for them, but I smashed my first MILF at that age so it’s definitely doable.

Relevant-Spinach294 · 2022-07-22T04:24:00+00:00

“Mommy?”

HomeschoolProm · 2022-07-22T08:16:09+00:00

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OriginalPostrSociety · 2022-07-22T02:31:00+00:00

Dating at all is hard when you are 18 as a guy. Women peak at around 21 as far as sexual attractiveness and men don’t peak until 35. So when you’re 18 almost everyone is out of your league. The only thing you have going for you is that you have a nice body and you’re 6’4. I would say tell the girls you’re 22 and if they want to take you to a bar tell them you lost your ID.

dump_fool · 2022-07-21T17:55:04+00:00

You talk about fucking and wet bed sheets just like you do with any other woman.

You're a tall guy you don't have to talk about meaningless things ... talk about your 7-8 inch dick, and fucking and orgasms and ripping butts, and how beautiful she is ...

Your job is fucking meaningless, just don't feel inadequate....

JosephfromAandA · 2022-07-22T16:21:43+00:00

Any older woman interested in dating you at eighteen is not qualifying you to the same degree they are qualifying older men. They don’t care that you don’t have a job. You are not supposed to be a self-sufficient, mature and responsible man at eighteen. If they were interested in those qualities, they would date men closer to their age or older. What you have, and what many older men don’t have is youthful energy. She dates you because she wants to be around your youthful energy, your spontaneity, your rebelliousness, your willingness to take risks – in the hope that your energy transfers to her. Make her feel young.

In practical terms: start approaching older women. Know that you have something to offer to them that older men can’t. Just as older men can offer them something that you can’t. Play your strengths. Some older woman will be interested, some will not. But do not defend your lack of qualities that no one expects you to have.

Joseph from Abundance & Aphrodisiacs

Title	How to talk to older women/milfs, are they into younger guys at all?
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Date	July 21, 2022 4:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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