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[–][deleted] 65 points66 points67 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
How to get laid in 2 hours: Go to club at 10pm make sure you look good. Go find a chick who will come home with you. Lower your standards but don’t show you are. Make sure you don’t aim too low as women can sense when you are going lower just to get laid. Aim for someone who is 1-2 points below you. So if your a 6/10 aim for a 5/10. Anyway, you will pickup quickly what level you can obtain based on respnces.
DO NOT go up to random girls and talk to them. Big clubbing mistake is acting like you care. Go dance with your friends (btw you need a minimum of atleast 2 other mates for this to work), act like you don’t care about women and are there to have fun with your friends. Women will give you little glares, if she smiles back at you, theres a 80% chance she likes you. If she quickly looks away it’s 50%. When she looks, don’t hesitate at all, extend your arm out and offer to dance with her non verbally. Now assuming you have some level of night club game from here you might want to dance for a bit, than ask her to buy her some drinks and try to get her away from her friends, if you can’t get one of your mates to talk to the girl and convice her the that the girl your taking home will be ok. Anyway, once you’ve been with her for a while and it starts to get boring, make some bull shit excuse to leave or just straight up say let’s get outta here. Go home, be respectful and make sure she feels safe in your house, id even go as far as telling her your address and adding her on some type of social media so she has a verified way of knowing who she slept with tommrow. From here just go watch tv in the bed and make it happen. In the morning, you can try to get her to make you breakfast, I typically do lmao. DO NOT ask to see her again. Last night you should have gotten her socials / number, if you haven’t than she will typically ask you, but ask if she doesn’t. Make sure she gets home safe and send her a text saying “last night was fun aye” or something like that so you can get a verified way of knowing that she didn’t get raped. ITS CRUCIAL you get some sort of text that proves that she consented or atleast doesn’t regret the night. I do this with all of my one nighters so they can’t claim in 10 years time that I raped them. Also to add: of there too drunk don’t do it with them, not worth it, unless your also really drunk. I’d try and be slightly more drunk than her so she doesn’t feel weird. Don’t ask for consent at every moment but let her know that at any time she wants to stop she can say so and you will. It’s better than asking permission every time.
Clubs are risky but for average guys they are the quickest way to get laid. You can be having a shit day and by the end of the night be sleeping with a much more attractive girl than you thought you would.
However it’s risky since the night has to go as planned. One thing in the pull can’t fail or else the whole thing goes under. You need some degree of night club game and there’s the whole drunk rape thing but just make sure your getting proof and making sure she is consenting.
Also, it helps if you are either: tall, handsome or muscly. Night club is about looks so present your self to look good.
Tinder is faster but tinder only works if your chad / are super facially attractive.
Hope that helps 🤓
[–]willgo-waggins 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Great post and very accurate in everything.
The only thing I would add is that if you have them be going out with WOMEN friends. I have found that nothing attracts women like perceived competition. I have literally had women come up to me, walk right into a deep kiss and later say “is your wife there ok with this?” After the fact.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
YES, I have found this too, women love competing and my friends who are girls actually wing man me, it’s awsome.
If you have no girl friends, than you probably have a girl who friend zoned you, TAKE ADVANTAGE of the friend zone… use it to get you laid.
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely always.
I mean the facts are that those women are using you for companionship, safety and security and their own look. Why in the world shouldn’t you expect the same in return? That should be a symbiotic relationship.
I have a number of women friends where we clearly state the plans when heading out for the night. We aren’t hooking up. Even my best friend and I who love each other and have slept together numerous times are not planning that when we head out. We sleep together platonically far more often and if one of us hooks up we save it for another time because we have each others back and make sure that WE get home safe. Besides that makes sure we are not just drunk and horny and stupid so we protect each other from mistakes.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah nice that’s awesome, totally agree
[–]offinthewoods10 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy night clubs
[–]CocoBabeNYC 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Go at 2am an hour before the club closes and only the super horny chicks who were hoping to get laid are left.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s true, but only works in big cities and there typically not the highest of quality but OP didn’t say he cares about quality 😎
[–]d0ornokey 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Instagram game dawg. Build a big presence
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Explain
[–]creative_i_am_not 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Didn't expect such a good answer on here. Well done dude
Thanks man, I don’t know why I wrote it but I did haha
[–]organbakery 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy fucks...
[–]Swissmiss214 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont be in such a rush, that creates needy behaviour and girls can sense that. Work on your sociability and maximizing your appearance and body language and your confidence around women
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go for a woman who is below average, give her attention. You are welcome.
[–]TH3BUDDHA 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Talk to a lot of women, test for interest, and escalate. Go in with the mentality of trying to get to rejection as quickly as possible. If she isn't interested, getting to the "no" as quickly as possible saves a lot of time. Don't take "no's" too personally. Don't be a bitch and wonder "is she interested? Should I make a move?" Just make a move and then you'll get your answer. If you're talking to a girl, tell her she should give you her number. If you're on a date, make physical contact and escalate.
[–]_Rainy_Nights 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like the mentality you've suggested; of trying to get rejected as quickly as possible.
My follow up question to this is, does that mean I still spend a lot of effort on each and every woman or should I be "speed dating" by being more forwards?
[–]TH3BUDDHA 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why would you invest a lot of time in somebody that barely knows you exist? Start talking to a girl. If she is short and doesn't engage, smile and move on. If she's interested and engaging, keep talking and escalate until you get her number. Don't try to become her friend and play some long game. You'll just get friendzoned. Like I said, get to the point quickly.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fastest way? Bars.
Daygame Alternative: Drive to the nearest large public college campus and spam cold approach day in day out and you’ll inevitably find multiple people down to meet up for a date, and from there if you have enough dates one will eventually fuck you.
The most long run efficient, though it may take 3-6 months to show any results, is self improvement.
[–]great_account 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Chill. Most girls wanna fuck a guy who seems like he doesn't need it.
[–]_Rainy_Nights 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Which I've always disliked. Don't want to manipulate / trick anyone. Just wanna be honest with my intentions.
[–]great_account 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or you could really not need it. I get laid on most first dates because my general attitude is "I'm sure someone will take this dick"
[–]willgo-waggins 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What is manipulative or tricky about acting nonchalant so you don’t come off as a walking hard on?
That’s just being decent and human and not acting like a tool.
[–]novasolid64 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Drunk slutty girls
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but as was described above you better have a way to verify consent or get ready for jail time.
[–]thorwawy88888 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Easy bro I get laid every time I go out normally the girls are between a 5 to a 7 First make sure you look good and have something that stand out you don’t wanna look like everyone els wear all black wear a Hawaii shirt or whatever it doesn’t really matter Just make sure you don’t look like you are trying to hard
So when at the club bring at least 2 mates Now remember what girls see in movies and shit They want a wild night dancing drinking all that so you don’t wanna sit a the table with your mates you gonna be the center of the party go wild and they will come too you cause they will see that you are partying the way they want to party and for that all of em wants to be by your side Step 3 now you have about 3-5 girls dancing with you and your mates make sure to look fast and find the one you want then dance with her tuch her hair take her hands bring em up to the ceiling jump around and so on
Now you do that to another girl as well Cause they will start to think “why is he dancing with her now? Did he not want me?” Bang they will up there game to get with you
Always remember it’s not life or death if a girl did not work out move on fast the clubs closes in some hours don’t keep trying just find a new one
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
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go fuck fat girls and older women in their 50's.
Ew
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good points.
Ultimately you go out and find by experience what works best for you. There is no simple, catch all and everybody answer.
[–]QuantumShit00 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Festivals, and night clubs (after 2am).
If you know what to do you can get laid in an hour
[–]Total_Obligation_371 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just asking this question shows you do not have the long term, improvement oriented mindset required to hook up with girls on a consistent basis. Pick something (online, Nightgame, Daygame) and get good at it.
[–]Carlitos96 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have a great confident personality with a flat stomach.
[–]stanthemilkman88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you fat?
[–]_Rainy_Nights 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No I'm fit
[–]etherealromance 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Fastest way is to to approach. I just moved to a new city last thursday & I’ve gotten laid 3 times Solely from approaching. Plus I have a date tonight
[–]_Rainy_Nights 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approaching seems like a very weird concept to me since those women are most likely just going about their days and don't wanna be bothered.
Could you tell me the places where you approached those 3 lays?
[–]etherealromance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hi @ _rainy_nights
So I flew in Thursday,
I met with a girl from tinder that day around 5pm for Ice-cream (I had this date set up a couple days in advance thanks to the tinder passport feature) I hooked up with her at her house which was nice. But I didn’t want to stay at here house so I actually went out to check out the night life
The second girl 5’11 brunette very pretty; I approached her at a bar around 10:30 pm the same day She was buying a drink with her friend while I was ordering a water. Was able to chat with her at the venue for a couple hours & then leave with her to my place. (We didn’t have sex but we hooked up a bit (very intimate)
On Friday I approached a lot at Whole Foods & I went out to the night life area here; nothing really stuck. (Also I was kinda tired that day) but ya you can’t win every night.
Saturday was epic (I slept all day pretty much). I went out with a guy that I met on Friday night & we went to some cool venues) I set up a date with 2 girls (one of whom I approached at a night club & another one I approached in the street) (The girl I approached at the night club did flake) but it was partially because I didn’t hit her up cuz I was with another girl. Because later that night I pulled one from a small live music bar & I stayed over at her house and ended up hanging with her all day Sunday (yesterday) The one I approached on the street I’m hanging out with tonight 🔥
So basically three girls & fourth tonight potentially
[–]etherealromance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Side note: I do get a lot of success approaching at the local park / lake here. & approaching at farmers markets/ events Pm me if you have any questions
[–]PaulRevere-406 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣
[–]Kratom_Dumper 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Most guys aren't part of hookup culture because women only go for the very top guys.
But fastest if you look attractive is tinder or some other dating apps.
Edit: Lol for being downvoted
[–]thorwawy88888 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wrong bro I have a shit job shit car live in the hood and fuck the same girls rich dudes buy nudes from don’t use excuses like that you can do whatever you want
[–]Kratom_Dumper 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never said a guy like you couldn't be considered a top guy (for short term sex).
Also, I had enough action with the hookup culture to realize that it is not that great being on the top, just fucking a bunch of modern women.
[–]Legal_defender8900 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree you with you, most guys aren't part of the hookup culture nobody even cares whether they want to be or not.
[–]PurpleCookie_Og 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Top guys” nah u can be homeless and get pussy the first night. Y’all are just nerds lmfaooo
[–]Kratom_Dumper 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ah yeah, smoking hot college girls will obviously down to fuck with a homeless dude.
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[–]FightForDemocracyNow 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go on OLD on a friday night. match with a fat chick and ask her to meet up for a drink. Then ask her back to your place.
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Being good at online dating and actual dating once you meet up in person
[–]leelbeach 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trust me mate, I'm 26 next week and I've never had a hook up. It's hard as fuck.
[–]yupyupyuypypn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Paying for a month of all of the major dating apps+ a photographer to take the best possible photos of yourself. Set each location slightly different and try to aim for 100 right swipes (or likes) on each app per day. Set up week day dates with the apps, and then go out to nightclub style bars on both Friday and Saturday. Combine all of that with some type of socializing with a Meetup group/ do bar trivia or social stuff like that.
[–]Pain_Tough 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Joining a ballroom dance society
[–]d0ornokey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think building a large following of some sort. I think you get a lot of reach that way, and women love status
At the highest level, millions of followers gets u 10s easy. Look at ricegum lol. Dude gets 10s even tho he's not all that
[–]jjboy91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being attractive
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