Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-06T12:52:45+00:00

Maintain gender roles.

Be masculine, daring, shameless, confident, sexually expressive, escalate things fast, take risks…

Don’t act timid, insecure, unsure, defensive, apologetic, shameful, and don’t play it safe.

Ok-Physics5106 · 2022-07-06T12:40:36+00:00

Not trying to sterotype at all and don't do anything completely incongruent with you.

Every women is different but hear are some things I noticed ALOT of latinas especially Columbian or Mexican from what I notice.

Dancing- especially salsa or bachatta.
Reggeaton- Bad Bunny, maluma, daddy yankee.
Look at how the artists above dress, but overall gq,, clean and fashionable. Think gosling from crazy stupid love. Some girls like the more urban look see bad bunny but toned down. However dress how you like. Brands seems to matter a lot.
Learn as much spanish as possible.
Family is HUGE.
Use a condom.
Can be passionate/Jealous/ flaky especially in Colombia.
Keep a masculine frame at all times, lead. Maintain gender roles.
Go to bars where latinas are check meetups.
Many like to party drink just have a great time bring the fun

Elbynerual · 2022-07-06T13:02:28+00:00

Take salsa or bachata lessons. Hang out where they hang out.

iclap2fap · 2022-07-06T16:42:59+00:00

Go for the Colombian and Venezuelans they like white skinned boys with money,

cinnamonroll-xo · 2022-07-06T17:18:10+00:00

As a black woman I’d say to most importantly be yourself but also understand the stereotypes attached to poc women. It’s very hard for most of us to be understood and be accepted for who we are and not who society thinks we are.

buckphifty150150 · 2022-07-06T12:27:20+00:00

Go to where they are.. and hang out around there

ZachMoore88 · 2022-07-06T21:46:14+00:00

At least a third of the women I've approached were black and I only managed to close with one of them. For background, I'm half black myself but don't really come across that way in appearance or personality. Wish I could contribute more here but I'm still trying to crack the code myself.

HydeTheBeaxtWithin · 2022-07-07T00:23:31+00:00

Carry habaneros with you

champagnemami650 · 2022-07-07T02:34:45+00:00

Latina here. Dress well. Don’t act “cool”. Buy us a drink. Make us laugh, and let us listen to Bad Bunny. I’ve had a Latino boyfriends and have always hated how controlling and “macho” they are. My boyfriend now is white and the main thing I love about him is that he loves that I am of Mexican descent and tries so much to immerse himself in my culture! Just be nice and confident! Good luck!

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-06T12:29:00+00:00

They are gonna eat you alive.

RightTrack44 · 2022-07-06T16:22:01+00:00

This might be an unpopular answer but don’t change anything about your approach. If you start using words that maybe aren’t in your normal vocab or do things that aren’t genuine in order to impress them, women can smell that from a mile away.

Approach them exactly the same as you would when creating attraction with a white woman.

Psychological-Ad8952 · 2022-07-06T14:22:19+00:00

Op im a black man & ik where to find them at .. not to be a smart ass but if you really want to land a sexy woman of color go to gang infested neighborhoods then stop by a club or even a liquor store .. ive never fucked a white girl in my life but god knows ive been with a lot of sexy black women of all shades ..

dm me if u wanna chat!

IcyAssGoldChains · 2022-07-06T12:31:44+00:00

Learning their culture and showing a appreciation for it. Would be a good place to start

H8eater · 2022-07-06T16:09:10+00:00

Been to jail, though that's all girls

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-07-06T18:31:06+00:00

I would reccomend not classifying a culture as a seperate type of human being, I have met 'hispanic' people who love death metal and others who are classical music fans, so there isn't one formula fits all

i suggest watching some videos like these ones to up your own game

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction

Elbynerual · 2022-07-06T12:59:47+00:00

Go up to a latina and say to her: "Dame tu cosita";

Honestly dude if they disqualify you because of your ethnicity its their issue. Cut your losses and move on

MathematicianDry6652 · 2022-07-07T05:58:34+00:00

People are different it’s not about race…stop

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-07-06T16:44:57+00:00

Honestly, just commenting on a picture with online dating with “Linda!” or “Linda hermosa” got responses

CowgirlBebop575 · 2022-07-06T17:04:16+00:00

They may just assume that you aren't interested. Most people date within their own race so ot may take someone longer to realize interracial attractions.

Just do what you normally do and DO NOT try to do relate to them, it is likely to come off as cringe and pandering.

Commercial_Habit_923 · 2022-07-06T22:20:31+00:00

What do women want? Idk man

Hopeful_Leader8940 · 2022-07-06T23:33:33+00:00

Go to some dancehall clubs there will be plenty of black girls twerking go dance with them get the number then boom

Title	Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?
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Date	July 6, 2022 12:22 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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