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[–]celestial-kitty2 43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you get cocky when you think you have options. Maybe there’s a pattern of your own behavior that you’re missing is my point
[–]great_account 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're not reaching out, they know you getting it somewhere.
[–]EloteSalvaje 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Y E S
[–]caIImebigpoppa 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah bro it’s fucked up but it’s gotta be facts
I work around lots of women and flirt with them daily, as soon as one get serious they all asking me out on dates? Shits surreal bro makes little sense
[–]webmentorman 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women want men wanted by other women.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s kinda like nothing attracts a crowd like a crowd.
[–]OnceTuna 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's the hive mind.
[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Yepp girls like attention and validation maybe more than everything else. So obviously you can convey or tell directly that you hang out with other girls its always better for attraction if you seem that type of guy who can get girls and ideally your main main focus is not on girls ofc they have to get some sort of attention but the main focus should be always on yourself and the girls are just a part of it. in other ways, girls are chasing validation if they don't get it and attention if they don't get it. There's nothing wrong with that, it's pretty beneficial for you if they're chasing your validation but not your attention just a sidenote on how to. They usually chase validation if you start to wonder do you like them so if you like disqualify, willing to be offensive, tease the girl who shows that it's not guaranteed that they can have you so if you simply apply that things might happen to your favor. People always want what they cant have
[–]celestial-kitty2 -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Everyone chases validation. You’re doing it in that paragraph
[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Not really everyone but most people I agree the difference is if she likes you she wanna earn your approval, she gonna earn that she good enough for you if she doesn't she don't give af about you bc she doesn't feel like she needs to prove you anything
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Google it. Everyone seeks validation. From the day we’re born. However Men arguably more so because your peers drive so much more of what you do. Your job defines your wife/life etc. My shit isn’t connected like that. I could be unemployed and still get a fire husband, I could be overweight and a fat dude would still want me etc.
[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I know it's an evolutionary and a pretty fucked up thing we are all born with but you can control or rewrite it consciously I can disagree that most men do. They're pretty much defined by their job, and status more than women but if you see the personality aspect from it more men are disagreeable than women so you can be only disagreeable if you don't care about what others think of you
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look up the Milgard experiment. You’re under/misinformed my man
[–]celestial-kitty2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Also why is it fucked up if that’s why you aren’t eating garbage rn?
[–]Zealousideal6669 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I mean fucked up if you care about what others think of you and you tryna prove to others that you're worthy enough or even better tryna impress people that you don't even really like. That's pretty fucked up and still ruins most people's lives and their potential but it is what it is
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s fucked up if you’re pessimistic. Otherwise it’s a sword. Swings both ways
[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's gonna be always an objectively fucked up for me but it turned to my advantage so many times so I don't complain about that
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
When you were learning everything, like as a child, your need for validation allowed you to learn your native language, the culture, societal/institutional norms and so much more. It’s what keeps you out of prison probably and what would help you survive it if you went.
[–]Zealousideal6669 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's true but it only takes you that far, you can function like every other human being but if you wanna go further, find a passion, and happiness, and express yourself and your thoughts it's still the # 1 reason that's gonna hold you back till you can only worry about who's not gonna like it
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not really. How do you move up on the social ladder? How do you know if your jokes are funny? How do you know if anyone you know wants to share space with you? Validation. I doubt you talk to women because we actually like food, empathy, respect and experiences with you so much more than “validation”. Fb likes on pics tell us we’re pretty, our inboxes and men at the gas station as well. what are you actually giving her with “your validation” that she doesn’t make in her head? If she doesn’t respect you, then your validation is creepy /cringe.
[–]ContWord2346 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
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[–]lostintheoverworld 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Literally the exact opposite happens with me. I have like a reverse social proof effect. Whenever I’ve gotten laid recently or am even with a girl, I get menacing glares or hate-filled stares from women. It’s insane. I mean, who cares at that point because like I’ve said I’ve just gotten laid/am with a girl but I notice that these random girls become robots who just look at me with hate hate hate. As for text, very rarely do women reach out to me ever.
[–]hegel1337_s 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wtf are you even talking about?
[–]lostintheoverworld 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Slight exaggeration on my part. But I’m saying being with a girl or having just been with a girl seems to lower how attractive I am.
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Like I get hit on 77352516 times more on my period. I thought y’all could smell the pheromones or there’s something hormonal going on. it’s really just that I stop paying attention to men all together, and tap into my feminine heavy until it passes like a ritual and y’all want what you can’t have
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Your tits get bigger right before the period too
I always surprises me when men that haven’t met me or laid eyes on me are willing to tell me about my body 😂
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So you’ll be willing to send me pics to disprove science?
“The estrogen that your body makes in the initial period of the menstrual cycle peaks just before the mid-cycle. As a result, the breast duct grows. The progesterone level peaks near the 21st day of a 28-day cycle. This results in the growth of the milk glands of the breast.”
https://www.medicinenet.com/why_do_your_breasts_get_bigger_before_your_period/article.htm
[–]celestial-kitty2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Let me guess, Your mother pegged you and gaslighted you into never mentioning it? There’s help for that, you don’t have to suffer in silence
👀😬
How big is the duct and how measurable is the growth? Also does that vary woman to woman? Im asking for measurements, I’m aware of the answers to them, but I wanna know if you are. I mean, you are sure you’re qualified to speak on this
Pre selection bias
[–]coachmelloweyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No it’s not woman’s intuition.. it’s a subconscious change in your behaviour due to going from scarcity to abundance
[–]celestial-kitty2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He probably just walks around with his chest poked out after or stops replying with actual responses to texts. His shit was exciting before and he’s suddenly dry as shit. Considering I am the same person, one can only conclude that you’re stretching the same lame game across more square footage.
[–]coachmelloweyes 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to work on your articulation
[–]celestial-kitty2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, you need me to articulate it softer. Maybe your comprehension is obstructed by the trigger
[–]ZachMoore88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women LOVE a man with options. As to how they keep finding out you have them.....I can't say
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, they can often sense clearly these subtleties in your behaviour that you have other options and you don't lack attention. Biology.
[–]Unique_Suspect8711 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They can smell it on ya you savage you
[–]Pain_Tough 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They’re certainly all about the attention, they can tell whether you are ‘here now’ with them, other than that they can’t read your mind.
[–]hachapurik 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I observe the same effect. I have a wacky theory that there 4d forest where strange fungi is feeding of our emotions, so they connect us in a strange way.
[–]Popular_Rush 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same shit happens to me lol. Some women who curved me months ago will reply to old ass comments from 3-6 months ago asking if I'm still interested. A girl also directly asked me if I was out friday night and tried to plan something when I was out with another girl, when she herself said she couldn't date me on the same day lol
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s funny because I don’t change my manner or attitude (I’m too damn old for that lol) but I have always experienced this.
Especially when I was married.
I have also found that seasonality had a lot to do with how eager they are and also that brings waves of up and down times.
[–]sinthegambler 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Woman's POV is about the person's behavior more likely.
[–]inline6throwaway 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn. Wish i had this problem. Constantly getting numbers but they don't text back
[–]MattRet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. My ex that I couldn't get over for like 3 years hit me up at the EXACT time I was finally getting out there playing the field. We broke up when I was 18, and it wasn't until I was almost 22 that she unblocked me on everything.. well I'm not the simp she remembers 😂😂
[–]Head_Harbinger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never happened to me before. Even while dating my two exes, I was still invisible to other women. Never understood this phenomenon because I haven’t seen it happen. My perspective. As others have pointed out, apparently it’s a real thing.
It’s more of them not getting your usual attention than intuition. They’re like where’s my attention? Gone lol
[–]Ficklefuker2022 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh baby satan always has perfect timing. 😉 👿
[–]Zealousideal6669 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Female psychology it's like human psychology. It describe how woman works, why they do what they do and so forth based on our evolution and how we evolved
[–]MoistObligation9999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's called pre selection
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