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Mindrust · 2022-06-30T22:44:56+00:00

I see it as the dating version of protein powder.

Do you need it to build muscle? No.

Is it a useful supplement for building muscle? Yes

OLD is just an additional source for meeting women. It doesn't require as much effort/thought as cold approach -- you can be taking a shit and texting your matches.

Just don't take it too seriously and you'll be happier.

Pop_Zestyclose · 2022-06-30T23:03:04+00:00

It's going to be hard to succeed when it seems like you've already accepted failure.

Just talk to them like normal people. Try to avoid putting them on the defensive by poking fun at them and don't be self deprecating.

Hang in there.

anon018274031 · 2022-06-30T23:26:12+00:00

I’m a woman (23). Deleted dating apps. Found them useless.

bloontsmooker · 2022-07-01T14:04:08+00:00

Women don’t take dating apps seriously. When I used to have them it was me swiping for a bit, then coming back to tons of messages. It was overwhelming and near impossible for me to read all of the messages and reply in a decent way. It was never intended to be rude and it wasn’t because I didn’t see potential in the guy - there just aren’t enough hours in the day.

neverbeenbetter4me · 2022-06-30T20:35:25+00:00

There are some adjustments that you can make in your texting game or message game on Tinder and Bumble that will help you. The reason that they're ghosting is because you're not gaining their interest and number two they've got three times the attention then we do as men. So don't take it personally, it's not about they might think that you're not attractive it's not that. 99% of those guys on Tinder and Bumble have no idea how to communicate or get in touch with a woman's emotions and stay out of logic. Lastly, stay off the over compliments and sexual innuendo. You set up the Seduction on a dating app, the actual seduction is face-to-face

So on the dating app you want to get to a Meetup as soon as humanly possible, I've done it in 1 opening text and we are Sitting next to each other that very evening, and in my bed a few hours after that. This is a rare thing of course, yet it's completely possible

Women 9 times out if 10 have a pet. A dog or cat or both and they love that pet, probably a little too much lol I capitalize this abs has been the highest success rate of aby opener I've ever used. It's literally been 98% successful. If you are using Tinder and Bumble you will have to buy Super Likes because your sending a like with the opener. Facebook Dating is were this has the highest success rate because you can send a Like with the pic for free. So a pic of her pet, any picture where the pet is in that picture send this:

"Ok, this guy right here seems to have a little bit of an attitude, I'm not looking for no trouble when we meet up now"

I get the match and a response because I tapped into her emotions and made her feel how much she loves her dog.. she just can't resist. Always be closing when she responds. No hi how are you shit, ever. The Statement is always geared towards getting off the app, don't worry about her phone number, get her face to face. Get the meetup in the next few days. If she gives you the "I don't have time till 2 weeks from now" then move on. She's not serious about meeting you

The text game needs to be simplified, woman do not respond in the logical, you will bore her to death with that and she will slot you into the ordinary guy, dime a dozen. Just be funny, quirky, light hearted abs life is not that serious. Less you talk talk about to get to the meet up the better.

Evening meetup if all possible. Pub, Tavern or restaurant for a drink. It's casual, it's safe they will agree to it, tell her where your going..do not ask her, other than the good timeframe that she will be free to meetup. It's light hearted a little adventurous so make it feel as such

Once you have her face to face that's when you go into operation seduction. Make sure that you have your goal in mind comes to her. You should have this down within 10 to 15 minutes in on the meet.

I want to sex with her, that's my goal
She's girlfriend material and a 2nd date is my goal
I don't want anything to do with this person and getting the hell out of here is my goal

You need to have that within the first 10 or 15 minutes

helpme512 · 2022-06-30T20:13:57+00:00

well, i (18f) met my current boyfriend on tinder. i know a lot of ppl struggle with dating and dating apps, but i’d suggest u hang in there if u want to find someone! ☺️ it’s not impossible, just make sure it doesn’t bring u down too much - or the ur whole mood or even day depends on how well your matching goes

PTSDrazor · 2022-07-01T03:10:34+00:00

You should always be sourcing for more girls. Women from during apps are for easy sex, not actual relationships

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-06-30T21:53:31+00:00

I love the apps, get most of my lays from them

Edit: no idea why people are down voting lmao just sharing my experience

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-30T23:57:44+00:00

I’m doing very well on tinder but nowhere else. Haven’t tried bumble or hinge yet though

Tsjaad_Donderlul · 2022-07-01T11:13:43+00:00

Dating apps require a fuckton of patience, and people will always be more inclined to tell you 1 success stories rather than 100 ones of failure

grindforthegold · 2022-07-01T13:11:10+00:00

i got a date the other day but then again i’ve really optimize my profile a lot and before i wasn’t getting many matches so just keep working on your job, hobbies etc the higher value the are and the more casually oh can convey them in your profile the more matches you’ll get generally speaking (i am decently good looking though so keep that in mind)

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-07-01T16:42:29+00:00

Personally I matched with guys who had the best bios and a sweet smile. The hot dudes where either dead silent, not able to hold a conversation or just rude. When personality shine through in profile it will be noticed. And don't use pictures of you with your mates. It will just come across as lazy instead of trying to put good pictures of yourself and if you have a hot friend on the group photo on as much as one picture then you have lost before the conversation has even started. Matched with my boyfriend on tinder. We matched because we share similar interests and of course because we found each other attractive. I still love him almost 6 years later.

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