How to get over being friendzoned? [recovered]

jwaters0122 · 2022-06-07T13:40:29+00:00

tell her you're always going to want to be more than friends, so friendship is not gona work.

Then go date someone else

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-06-07T13:58:44+00:00

Once a girl I pursue tells me she only sees me as a friend cut off contact and move on to someone else

Candid_Tumbleweed134 · 2022-06-07T16:03:15+00:00

Find another girl to friendzone you again? Lol also don’t let nobody on here manipulate you into being a woman’s friend because she rejected you but still wants you to chase her and validate her, you don’t owe nobody shit. You owe her zero obligations.

HornyTownCitizen · 2022-06-07T14:36:39+00:00

I'd say something like:"I understand, not really looking for a friendship, but it was nice meeting you" and move on. If she hits you up later you can make your choice. Frankly, I wouldn't go for it, but it's your choice

Snakehead004 · 2022-06-07T13:57:16+00:00

where it could’ve went wrong?

Seems like she didn't enjoy the sex. Did she orgasm?

WZRD_305 · 2022-06-07T14:05:17+00:00

Sounds like a super clingy girl. As soon as u cant chill she gets a “friendship” vibe. Good riddance

Everlast23 · 2022-06-07T14:22:10+00:00

I don't understand how she got the friendship vibe when your penis was in her vagina.

I don't do that with my friends and coworkers.

MindlessAd63 · 2022-06-07T18:01:12+00:00

Sucks it didn’t go as you would have hoped. Just tell her you’re cool with that but don’t initiate contact with her anymore. If she wants to be friends she can do the initiating. There’s always a small chance she will come around again but situations like this are usually just a girl’s attempt at giving a kind rejection. I would forget about her and start looking for somebody new. The best way to get over rejection is to get interested in somebody new.

anglelofdeaths · 2022-06-08T00:27:51+00:00

Have the abundance mindset talk to other girls keep a roster going because i garuntee she’s already talking to other guys hommie, girls flake all the time and they always have options, gotta get used to it, fight fire with fire An keep some girls in ya back pocket. 👌🏿

8Captcrunch8 · 2022-06-08T01:45:03+00:00

Move on. Im not trying to phrase this aggressively. But your feelings do not entitle you to someone elses. Im really sorry. But basically....she didnt like you emotionally. She liked you lustfully. Once she got that ....well....it is what it is. Just tell uer you get it and then be cool about it and keep movin on with your life. Do NOT respond or give reaction to any flirty or anything hinting from her following this moment.

Respect your self enough to know that you will meet someone else and that your not gonna be someones toy for when they want their validation or ego praised or filled.

I have been that toy. The short term pleasure is no where near the level of pain that always follows it.

Basically man. The best advice i always give anyone who gets zoned. Is "take it with a smile. Keep your dignity. And hold them to it. And make a decision whether you can let your feelings go. Or to walk away entirely"

Lighthero34 · 2022-06-07T16:25:19+00:00

Maybe your sex was bad maybe it wasn't, who knows.

You got laid, aren't going to again any time soon with her.

Move on and tell her "I don't have sex with just friends" or something along those lines and get a new girl.

Honest_Inevitable632 · 2022-06-08T01:35:59+00:00

She didn’t feel that you were a great fit. Move on to the next

Personal_Way6717 · 2022-06-08T17:13:42+00:00

Men aren't supposed to feel too many emotions. If she's making you feel, it's not gonna be a healthy relationship down the road with her.

How to get over being friendzoned? Get over it. Grow a pair and accept that you are a man and this girl is one of many girls you'll interact and probably have sex with.

If you want to get out of the friend zone, every next second is a second chance in a golden platter. You'll just have to understand that you are A MAN and know what a man does and train yourself accordingly.

She'll start crawling towards you when you train yourself using this book.

All the best.

AlphaMale

iamethgod · 2022-06-07T17:36:20+00:00

Maybe she means she wants to be fwb

sixxohhwitaratchet · 2022-06-08T01:28:37+00:00

never get friend zoned in the first place

Accomplished-Camp339 · 2022-06-08T04:24:13+00:00

You already had sex and now she wants to be friend?? She was looking for something which you did not had and hence she wants to move on to next one. So should you. Don’t get me wrong- not everyone has everything and she is free to have her own checklists and you both were not compatible according to her. Just keep her as an acquaintance and don’t reach out to her. You might become a fuck buddy, if you play it right by saying- let’s hangout only if we are going to have sex, else we can stay connected on need basis.

Always remember, stay in your frame and you decide the terms of relationship with any girl by dictating it upfront and not simping and waiting for the girl to come back

Ok_Yogurtcloset_669 · 2022-06-08T06:04:25+00:00

Go outside so many fish in the sea..

BigTBoneDog · 2022-06-08T17:30:41+00:00

Was the sex that bad........

Just kidding, maybe just be happy with what you got and move on. Not everyone will fall in love with everyone. Some girls do this after sleeping with a guy, seen exactly this happen before, but usually they will ghost you. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong, she likley just realized that she is not intreseted in you. You got further than most!

Title	How to get over being friendzoned? [recovered]
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Upvotes	11
Comments	97
Date	June 7, 2022 12:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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