Do you insist when a woman clearly wants you to?

incognito3107 · 2022-05-26T10:16:14+00:00

Girls sometimes make up some interaction scenario that will potentially excite them.

KingKwaji · 2022-05-26T17:00:17+00:00

Dude. Consistently having sex with women like this is how you catch a false charge. If she’s willing to play games like this who’s to say what’ll happen if you guys fuck and she has buyer’s remorse?

Repeat after me: Women who are clear with their words are hot.

Sleight_Hotne · 2022-05-26T16:25:36+00:00

No I don't insist, if they play hard to get hope they like it when I go after someone else

revente · 2022-05-26T10:46:34+00:00

No. Don't became her dancing monkey.

If she leaves, go talk to someone else. Preferably to a girl hotter than her.

r1bb1tTheFrog · 2022-05-26T16:32:19+00:00

Yeah this happens with my girl at the start of sex and it’s annoying. We start getting frisky. I put on the condom. When I turn back to her she is rolled away and “asleep.” I touch her a bit. No response.

I turn away and ignore her for a minute. She turns towards me and asks “what’s wrong?” I give her some BS reason “oh nothing I’m just …”

Next thing you know, she is vigorously jumping my bones.

I think she wants the illusion of conflict.

TaskCurrent · 2022-05-26T07:31:49+00:00

Playing hard to get, that's all.

Incognito_Daddy · 2022-05-26T07:55:23+00:00

When it’s something sexual, I’m not doing it unless it’s BLATANT that’s what she wants.

That’s super risky. Say I misread the situation, now I’m a huge creep and that word spreads. Girls that are purposely indirect are annoying

OneKaleidoscope2787 · 2022-05-26T08:10:54+00:00

Always watch her actions, words are there to try and figure out.

PuroPincheGains · 2022-05-26T17:24:39+00:00

That's just attention seeking behavior, and you're correct, you're liable to catch a charge if you make it a habit of being too persistent. As far as sex goes, you kino escalate slowly and gradually. When/if she says no or just isn't down to be physical, take two steps back in the process and try again a little later. That could be the next date, could be a little later in the night. Any second attempts on the same night should be the last attempt for the night. Just a rule of thumb that's tried and true. As for the party behavior, don't insist anyone stay. Are these the same girls you're sleeping with? I'm willing to bet no. If they have to go back to their friends then let them go, go have fun talking to other people, and either reengage her later in the night or hit her up later. Don't be her source of entertainment. She likes having boys wrapped around her finger. It doesn't mean she likes you, it means she thinks she's hot shit and that you're desperate.

pantheruler · 2022-05-26T20:54:36+00:00

Fuck that shit

kinhk · 2022-05-26T21:03:14+00:00

Don’t play stupid games. This is NOT the 80s/90s anymore.

Bennifred · 2022-05-26T23:30:14+00:00

Have some self respect and don't chase childish women who play games. You might get laid a couple times but ultimately what does that give you? Find yourself someone who respects you enough to be fully enthusiastic with how much they are interested in you. (Also you are liable to catch a SA charge otherwise)

Rynnofigs · 2022-05-27T00:14:34+00:00

I have no say here cause no female has ever approached me

Vegas_Rick_1987 · 2022-05-26T16:35:29+00:00

I think it’s natural for women to want to be submissive (this does not go for all women) the weaker sex so they want to have their male counterpart to be the dominant one and give them direction so they feel the male is in charge, this may also stem from what they grew up in that type of environment where the father figure “ruled” the household so essentially she is looking for that in a mate because that was her example growing up.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-26T10:29:46+00:00

Otherwise called flirting for you autists.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-05-27T01:26:32+00:00

In groups they flex to their friends over shooting down guys. Could have been that but who knows.

What exactly mean insist? You can't control other people dude.

surfershane25 · 2022-05-27T03:49:50+00:00

I’m sure she loved all that validation she got from being asked to stay over and over.

Masterjack232 · 2022-05-27T04:51:30+00:00

There's always one side, while guys do there awkward "flirting" women also awkward flirt, its always funny to think about, and in the heat of the moment that's that last thing in either of their minds.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-26T15:57:29+00:00

Just play along and do whatever you have to. Remember, the pussy makes it all worthwhile and if it wasn’t for that most men would never tolerate women and their b.s.

Title	Do you insist when a woman clearly wants you to?
Author	FrostyPanda119
Upvotes	190
Comments	51
Date	May 26, 2022 7:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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