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[–]Sea_Particular_9086 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Never bring it up to a girl you just met; about not texting/message you back. You sound desperate and needy. The girl will pull back, you do not need to do anything else unless she answers
And why her IG and not phone number, wtf. You a fan of hers...
[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I asked her number but she didn't remembered it (she may be a dummy), so she gave me her instagram.
[–]reddit_boxing 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
all the red flags you're missing. Move on
[–]Wonderful-Rock741 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Couldn’t remember? Cmon dude
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She just isn’t into you lol
[–]Intelli_gent_0601 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro - she has about as much interest in you as me wanting to run a 10km time trial in the Sahara desert with a 2 litre drink of pure oil at the finish line!
Women will always say this as they don’t want a confrontation or to hurt your feelings in person.
Only respond to her if she responds to you first from now on
[–]nevertextgoodnight 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Leave her alone dude she's obviously not interested and you have a lot of work to do
The last thing a girl wants is a guy confronting her why she's avoiding his texts. That is stalker behavior
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure that she is not feeling weird with me. She usually waits for me after classes so I can convoy her to her house. The problem is not that she leaves me on seen or anything. She just doesn't seem to read my texts.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
getting left on delivered is the same as getting left on read
[–]reddit_boxing 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In other words she's using you but that's a different story
[–]5_7pickup 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s not interested. Move on.
[–]KriticalKarl 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My advice would be to walk away. She’s showing signs of low interest and nothing you say will raise it at this point, the only solution is to take action by walking away.
For future reference you should ask for a women’s number instead of social media. Asking for social media seems like a passive way of not being confident enough to get her number. Asking for social media instead of number is like asking to be her fan so to speak. I’m personally an advocate for only investing time into a women with initial high interest, you will save so much time and energy when you pursue a women that makes it easy for you.
Also , NEVER ask a women why she hasn’t responded to you, it comes off as needy. Send a message and wait for her to respond, don’t put any energy into women who put you on the back burner, you’re worth more than that.
[–]MaximumEntire 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As a female, I give a certain social account to men i don't know well enough to trust with info they can track me with.
[–]KriticalKarl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I completely understand, but the fact of the matter is that if you were highly interested in these guys you’d be more open to sharing your number. You can easily block a number, it’s not like you’re giving them your address. I also understand not every situation is cut dry and everyone has their own preferences.
[–]tommybruh 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro that’s beta af. You are desperate and she knows that. What’s the point of pushing her if you already can see how she has the phone in her hand and you in the queue?
Dont waste your time there. I know, is hard to do, we all suffer that, but remember, the most high value action that you can have with her is showing you don’t need her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just wanted to let her know that, hey I sent you some texts will you check them. Logically she gives me her social so we can have communication but she doesn't care much I guess.
[–]reddit_boxing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's on Instagram everyday she's awake best believe that
[–]appmanga 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Since you're looking her right in the face, do you think it might at least be an idea to ask her while, you know, standing in front of you?
If not for this girl, maybe the next one?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s not responding because she’s not interested. It’s very disturbing to read posts like this. I’m not sure why you’re missing the big picture but you clearly are. If she wanted to talk to you, she would reply back. She would ask for your phone number, she would text you and you would hear from her. Nothing stops a woman that is interested in a guy that she knows is interested in her. Unfortunately, you’re attracted to somebody that isn’t attracted to you. This happens all the time and there’s no need to feel bad about it. Join the club!
[–]uptousflamey -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Give her time.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I know her for about 9 months now. It is just so annoying when someone promises to do a thing and then she doesn't care about it. I would prefer to say me a no rather having me wait.
[–]uptousflamey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So pressure and rushing her will not be good. You need to chill.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Chill but for how long...
[–]uptousflamey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Until she answers you.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Finger crossed then.
[–]HowToStud 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Guys if she doesn’t respond SHES NOT INTERESTED. Move on. Stop trying to decipher a message that’s not there. Instead of dreading that one girl get another one! If you can’t get another one then work on yourself
Actually the message is there, she's not interested. OP doesn't know how to decipher that
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She saw the texts but chose not to open them because she doesn’t wanna deal with it.
She’s not interested is what it all comes down to.
[–]NineteenAD9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Y'all gotta stop making posts like this. If she isn't responding to your messages, she's not interested. You can't force someone to like you.
[–]GlitteringPause8 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is not interested if she isn't replying.
[–]MrWolffman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Drop her. I made the same mistake, wasted 4 months on a girl for nothing. Check my last post.
[–]Admirable-Mark-834 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She doesn't want you
Sadly
[–]FlatDistance5 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s flat out not interested, move on.
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