How often do you guys have sex?

SocialReject101 · 2022-04-17T19:56:08+00:00

I am a virgin. But props to you for your bragpost

kscotty84 · 2022-04-17T20:00:32+00:00

I was averaging a way higher number before the pandemic. Mow I am on the lower half of the 0-3 stat. My confidence is gone I gained 2olbs.

Mr-Kabuki · 2022-04-17T22:00:44+00:00

A lot of guys are having none. Honestly man, can you tell how you can just have sex whenever you want? How do you find women? Did you study PUA and do thousands of approaches?

introsetsam · 2022-04-18T00:50:24+00:00

r/ihavesex

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-18T22:36:28+00:00

It's kind of "when it rains it pours" as a single man. I have two girls on rotation that I see once or twice a month each. Then I usually pick up a 3rd locally but I'm busy most of the week so maybe I average one night a week that I fuck the girl 2-3 times that night?

(Damn, that really sounds pathetic lmao)

It's really hard to have a sex schedule when you don't have a steady female.

AlbertoPer11 · 2022-04-17T21:08:09+00:00

Never I'm 35 it's over for me

Spinuchi · 2022-04-17T21:57:54+00:00

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Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-17T20:34:49+00:00

“How often do most guys have sex”? As often as the woman were involved with allows. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If you’re in a LTR or worse a marriage you’ll find yourself having less sex over time and eventually no sex at all.

Bansheebot420 · 2022-04-17T21:45:59+00:00

I’ve had a two girlfriends and three hookups so not to bad

JadePhoenixMage · 2022-04-17T20:18:22+00:00

I’ve had very different numbers in different parts of my life. From age 20-27 I was in a relationship. We had sex 3 to 4 times a day, every day, for 7 years. She never said no to me once and at least 40% of the time she instigated. From age 27-33 I was basically a man-whore. I probably averaged sex twice a day, because there were days where I didn’t hook up, but there were also days where I had sex with 5 women. Eventually I stopped looking for new partners and just enjoyed my “harem”. That put my daily average back up to 4 times a day. From age 33-36 I had much less sex. I moved across Canada, and lost all my contacts. It took my awhile to find fuck friends because Alberta is such a sausage fest and women aren’t as friendly as east coast women. I probably only averaged sex twice a month for this period. From age 36-38 I was in a relationship and we fucked basically every day. I wanted sex more than that but my partner’s sex drive wasn’t nearly as high as mine. (I like sex 4 times a day. That’s my magic number). I broke up with her at age 38 because the sex wasn’t good enough (she wasn’t kinky or anything). From age 38 to 40, I basically didn’t have sex because of the pandemic, and because I don’t know anyone in the city I live in. I have to say, not having sex for 2 years after having basically an unlimited supply of sex for much of my adult life has really fucked with my head. I felt undesirable. I felt like a loser. I couldn’t figure out why my life suddenly sucked so much. I’m still dealing with this loss of confidence and seeing a therapist about it. Starting this year I’ve been having some luck. I met a casual friend and we hookup once a week. That usually involves having sex 3 or 4 times, although a couple nights we stayed up all night and fucked like 8 times. She has since told me that she thinks I’m a sex addict and she can’t keep up with me. So we’re still hooking up but we only have sex 3 times each hookup. After that, even if I’m still horny, I leave her alone, as we discussed. I’ve met 2 other friends recently and we also hookup once a week, which involves having sex about 3 times. So I guess my average now is about 9 times a week, or approximately once a day. I’m trying to find more friends so I can have sex 3-4 times a day, like I want to, but it’s so difficult for men. My main partner makes me jealous because she has about a dozen men (or more) constantly messaging her for sex. I wish that was my life. Being a woman must be amazing.

Feeling-Ebb2910 · 2022-04-17T21:27:01+00:00

How do you make them feel comfortable?

willgo-waggins · 2022-04-17T22:13:10+00:00

So three different women since the beginning of this year and two were multiples. I had been holding off my normal prowl when single for a couple of months now because I had thought my FWB wanted to be exclusive and move to a regular relationship. Just found out that she is now wanting to back off from that and sex for now so I’m thinking that I will start hunting again, hit up some of my old standbys or find a regular fuck Buddy.

yennybear888 · 2022-04-17T23:05:17+00:00

Back when I was single in NYC around 3 times a week. Now with a gf about once every two weeks

MissionAd399 · 2022-04-18T05:34:53+00:00

Going off by what you say you’re interesting so I guess you got a good vibe and your place is a warehouse art studio. Sounds like some cool atmosphere, I ain’t surprised you get laid often when you go on dates. You gotta remember a lot of dudes are just weird and socially awkward so they ruin it for themselves when really it could be as simple as being yourself, and standing firm, then the seduction comes naturally, instead of trying to conform to what they think would impress her

Title	How often do you guys have sex?
Author	Spinuchi
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Date	April 17, 2022 7:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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