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WomanWhoBets · 2022-02-01T15:54:44+00:00

You said boring and she responded? She is probably going to leave you dry

shroomiedoo · 2022-02-01T16:41:09+00:00

She wants to talk to you more before meeting up with you.

She probably hasn’t decided if you’re a serial killer or not yet

Alive_Occasion8966 · 2022-02-01T15:27:57+00:00

If I was in your situation, I would say something like “I would be happy to tell you more about me over coffee”. It doesn’t exactly have to be this, just suggest something that is casual and relaxing to both of you, without the pressures of dating. If she declines this too, then you know that she is just not that into you. There is no point in wasting your time.

throwdown312 · 2022-02-01T15:29:23+00:00

I’d say for now just keep it casual and friendly and don’t get to wrapped in having a date with this girl, just respond to her stories and stuff once in awhile, but only things that you actually find interesting cause one you’ll see if you two have a lot in common or not actually, and two (I don’t know your age) but at least in my experience the older women get the easier time they have spotting bullshit and inauthenticity and that’s a major turn off.

And if you guys hit off again shoot your shot again.

Or 2nd option if that’s doing too much for you, chalk it up as a L and move on.

Classic_Common_9163 · 2022-02-01T15:11:32+00:00

Go talk to other girls

Kitchen_Conclusion57 · 2022-02-02T00:20:19+00:00

You called her boring and you think she’ll go out with you? Coming from a girl, I promise you this was just her way of rejecting you nicely. She’s probably not interested.

Vril_SA_PL · 2022-02-01T15:29:08+00:00

Well your going to fail already Simply cuz of your energy your already bringing into it Your Fear of missing out That you need this to work out Maybe it will Maybe it won't You have to be at peace In either scenario

Other than that Find out her interests and complement her in that direction And what she seemed the most to draw her attention Was the push / pull method When you told her she was boring That piqued her interest in you Cuz through you invalidating her She looked to you in a sense as someone she could follow As a leader As someone who know what he is talking about So you have to be the boss Tell her what you want Well you have to work up to that level Well that's the outline The book of pook Stirling Cooper Brian Begin Are way better about game than I am So go listen go professionals! All the best Trzjmaj Się (Polish for Stay Strong / Hold On) As in keep the faith That things will get better

bittr_n_swt · 2022-02-01T15:37:37+00:00

Move on mate

I asked my gf out within 2 days of meeting her at work and she said yea.

If they’re interested in even getting to know you over a date then she’s interested

Alecstocker · 2022-02-01T16:32:27+00:00

Did you really say she's boring? She's prob pissed low key. Seriously.

2022-02-01T19:53:11+00:00

Not interested

2022-02-02T01:55:37+00:00

Get the phone interview. Show her you are not psychopath, but a fun and happy guy who’s curious to get to know her.

You’re doing better than most of these guys think. Jokingly putting girls down can be absolutely advantageous. You just set yourself apart from every other fucking guy who’s just trying to tuck. You took her off her fuckin pedestal and put yourself up on it.

I’m fun, you are boring. That’s exactly the dynamic you want. No worshipping. Impress me bitch, idgaf. not giving a flying fuck about girls is the easiest way to seduce them. Too many fuckin guys do their best to be some Prince Charming Mr smooth shit, nah fuck that. I’m fun, I’m the prize, you chase me and I do whatever the fuck I want and I have fun. That’s what you said with one word.

And she chased you. Smart lesson to learn.

Ask her opinion on different shit. Best candy bar? Best kind of pancake? Worst meal? Worst date ever? Best job ever? Greatest TV series? Best animated series? Video games 👍🏻 or 👎

Best cut of steak Morning sex or night sex? How much tongue when kissing? Deepest depth swam? Longest distance traversed? Coldest tolerable temperature? Perfect temperature? Super hero powers and backstory for her super hero self. Do you play an instrument? What instrument would you choose?

Just keep it going and going. She wants to get to know you, just keep asking questions on her opinions. Be funny with it, see if you guys can make up some kind of narrative together, like with the superhero thing, try and get her to tell you more about what her superhero story would be. Then try to work in yours and make them fall in love or something cute and happy and fun.

Report back with results.

originalgainster · 2022-02-01T15:28:00+00:00

Build comfort but not sure how you can do that on Instagram lol

politits · 2022-02-01T21:54:50+00:00

Pretty simple: just say “cool, happy to get to know you more first” and then ask her questions about her life. Text back and forth with her for a few days and then ask her out again.

James_Bob_007 · 2022-02-02T01:10:51+00:00

Go back to chatting, don't rush things. And then move to flirting over messages.

Imagine as if you need to earn 10 coins to ask her out. You are currently at 5 coins. When you get to 8 coins => move to flirting. When you get to 10 points => ask her out.

If she says no, don't ask her anymore. You tried twice.

EdUNC- · 2022-02-01T17:18:01+00:00

move on. My success rate when a girl says that is 0%

2022-02-01T19:39:16+00:00

If you insist on getting to know her more, call and don’t text often. You piqued her interest because you did not call her “sweet,nice, sexy, lovely” like 98% of her followers. A week of occasional calls plus texts for logistics should be enough. If she still aren’t interested then you should hard next.

Michilangel0 · 2022-02-01T21:26:19+00:00

Yeah...trying to date one of these people is like asking a narcissist to give you a compliment.

She'll probably torture you and use you for clout.

Move on and save your dignity. You've been warned.

LOL

catnipempire · 2022-02-01T18:33:56+00:00

Ummm is this it obvious?

BadLuck115 · 2022-02-01T15:34:37+00:00

Congratulations she's a bona-fide idiot. "Want to go out?" Translates as "would you like to go to a mutually enjoyable event in which we could get to know each other".

That's what dates are for.

No-Department6252 · 2022-02-01T19:26:19+00:00

thats womanise for she doesn't find you that attractive

borderline_autistic1 · 2022-02-01T16:12:53+00:00

Move on to the next one. If she was interested she'd agree to a date and she didn't

xace89 · 2022-02-01T22:23:11+00:00

She ain’t trying to go out with you

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-02-01T15:47:08+00:00

Excuses women make when you are not Chad. I bet she sucked Chad’s cock when he smiled at her.

cronasminate · 2022-02-02T02:12:36+00:00

If this is on social media she’s just trying to keep you as an engaged follower.

KaleWeekly · 2022-02-02T02:29:07+00:00

How did you word your ask out?

bayouboeuf · 2022-02-02T03:51:04+00:00

So she is on Reddit too? She can see all of your posts and comments if I am not mistaken. If she sees this one she might lose interest. Just a thought.

13Xxx21 · 2022-02-02T06:52:47+00:00

No she's obviously a twisted individual

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