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motivated_user21 · 2022-01-04T00:58:44+00:00

It’s completely normal, and actually better than normal because most people aren’t even trying.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-04T06:20:54+00:00

As a newly single guy you probably give off some neediness. When women sense that you want something from them, a specific outcome, whether that's their number, them liking you or going to bed with you, to them it signals neediness which is a turn off.

Try to focus on finding out if the girl is interesting instead of focusing on making her interested.

PartyRelation4151 · 2022-01-04T01:57:36+00:00

They smell desperation, just keep your head up and eventually you'll be good. Check what you say to them and maybe change it up a little

Mriconicdev · 2022-01-04T09:53:04+00:00

Shooters shoot and even when they miss they keep shooting. Guys that get a ton of woman get rejected a ton too. All apart of the game my man.

surfershane25 · 2022-01-04T01:08:16+00:00

If you're cold approaching, getting rejected a lot is very normal. That's the main reason that many guys (including myself) are terrified to do it.

No-Pay9075 · 2022-01-04T08:43:47+00:00

it's just a numbers game. Unless you are extremely good looking, most girls are gonna reject some stranger hitting on her, even if he's 'learnt game'. It's all good. Keep going

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-04T09:22:13+00:00

It’s normal to get rejected a shit ton.

Grappleheart · 2022-01-04T11:22:43+00:00

Also parties are the most competitive place for landing girls. Your competition is standing right beside you there. Often the best place to talk and meet girls are areas where most men aren't on the prowl. The library, clubs, gym classes sporting and festivals etc. I have gotten more phone numbers in Barnes and Noble than at parties.

2022-01-04T11:44:25+00:00

Cold approaching will always lead to more rejections than the opposite

o0valerierose0o · 2022-01-04T21:30:19+00:00

Dating nowadays is treacherous. Honestly most ppl in their 30s just become adapted to being alone and focused on themselves.. it’s very difficult to go back after that point. Life with less drama is way more appealing. An who really wants someone who is seeing multiple ppl!

brother_p · 2022-01-04T00:58:06+00:00

Check your wardrobe, hairstyle, body language and tone of voice. You may be putting off the wrong vibe.

Mundane-Currency5088 · 2022-01-04T13:22:58+00:00

This is going to sound like a dumb question but..Are you treating women like people that are interesting? Are they interesting? I'm not really attracted to men that don't like me specifically and are happy to have sex just on my looks alone. I'm evaluating them and I'm obvious about it. Like an "I'm deciding how much I'm going to like you" vibe. I don't get rejected very often because I'm mainly just flirting and having fun and if they interest me too then I'm probably going to have sex.

IamRocksteady · 2022-01-04T12:01:35+00:00

You should give more details. At which part of the interaction are you getting rejected? When you open they shut you down? Do they reject you when you ask for their contact info, or at which phase? You should be more specific.

greatscotty1234 · 2022-01-04T15:37:49+00:00

illyxxx · 2022-01-04T18:05:27+00:00

in your approach the first thing you want to do is introduce yourself. then you could proceed to asking them about them. blessings!

surfershane25 · 2022-01-04T19:15:14+00:00

Maybe try to actually bring up an observation or compliment, build a little rapport before just asking their name, give them a reason to actually want to know you/your name.

jbsclusive · 2022-01-04T20:07:24+00:00

yea bro it happens to everyone trust me . Even the guys who think they are the hottest dudes in the world get rejected . It’s all about your character at the end of the day

maplemario · 2022-01-04T20:16:42+00:00

You could probably do it better.

2022-01-04T21:44:33+00:00

It is normal to get rejected. You should do a vibe check. Are you too aggressive? Women pick up on your energy. Do you have unresolved issues, with your ex, you need to address, internally? You’re mojo is down. It happens to everyone.

kbecel · 2022-01-05T00:31:11+00:00

Stop being so nice. You're flexing. It is normal if you are doing a lot of pick up. If you're doing constant pick up you'll be constantly rejected. If you do it moderately you'll get moderately rejected.

Just learn from rejections and move on. Rejection is painful but take it neutrally and evaluate yourself

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