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2021-08-23T01:24:28+00:00

If you wanna pick up chicks in the gym, don’t do it in a regular weight lifting gyms. Go to a specialized gym, for example a specific sport gym, people actually socialize there

kylefofyle · 2021-08-22T23:25:01+00:00

I mind my business at the gym. I’m there to work.

member1465 · 2021-08-22T20:18:26+00:00

I just assume they're out of my league since they reason they do to the gym is to be able to fuck top tier looking men which I'm not.

DocSchwarz · 2021-08-22T22:52:05+00:00

I’ve picked up more girls in the gym than I have anywhere else, and they’re always much higher quality than girls you meet when drink for obvious reasons. Cold approach is the most counter productive, for me anyway. Going consistently and making MINIMAL small talk with attractive girls you see there regularly is really easy to do. After that point you leave it to them. I’ve found some girls stick to the hello/goodbye and others make it really obvious by making loads of eye contact, and hovering near you. Once you’ve identified the later, wait for a suitable opportunity to work in between them on a machine, only when you are both training the same muscle group so there’s no chance of backfire. Then conversation will naturally go beyond small talk at which point you can ask them if they’d like to join you getting a post workout feed later on etc.

Present_Value_3855 · 2021-08-23T05:14:35+00:00

For me I have headphones on the entire time and might wave quick at familiar faces, but I also have that resting bitch face that says don't bother me. Look for girls giving you the green light. Stretching by you , following you to water fountain. If you notice more than 3 times or so. Go up and just act like you are being friendly, not trying to get her number. Say something like, "it's so good to be back in the gym with out a mask huh". Then ping pong back and forth. Ask if she workouts here alot , if so what's the least crowded days to come? ( then u will know when she wil be back). Be confident with your posture and body language.

kettlebell_workout · 2021-08-22T19:50:17+00:00

Basically it depends on your social skills.

If you are total beginner and you still want to pick up girls in the gym. Then buy one day pass to the gym which is not the one you are going to. And have fun embarrassing yourself.

If your skillset is good, and you know how to navigate social situations like fish in a water. Then you can pick up girls in your own gym.

bubblegummybear · 2021-08-23T09:38:01+00:00

As a woman who goes to the gym, you're looking for a very specific type of woman if you think she'd want to interrupt her workout to talk to you. Gym for me is off-limits, go out.

615goat · 2021-08-23T01:58:30+00:00

I’ve actually had a lot of girls approach ME in the gym. They compliment my outfit, or the way I smell (I have a gym fragrance), or ask me about the exercise I’m doing. Then they give me their number

rudebwoy100 · 2021-08-22T23:53:28+00:00

If you're heavily into fitness and you also like women who are the same then why not approach the women at your gym that you fancy? As long as you aren't creepy and learn to take no for an answer without making things awkward there's no issue imo.

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-08-22T22:29:25+00:00

Alot of gym girls have an extra attitude because they have a good body and they know it

hse7148 · 2021-08-23T12:42:26+00:00

Ultimately, you shouldn’t go to the gym with the intention being talking to and picking up chicks. You should be going to the gym to improve yourself. However, I’m also not a believer in scheduling time in your day for explicitly talking to women. In other words, I believe you should integrate talking to women into your day to day life, instead of going to the mall, or a club, to talk to chicks. You see a cute girl at the grocery store, talk to her. You see a baddie at the gym, talk to her. Obviously all the rules of socializing still apply here. If she clearly isn’t interested, move on, don’t persist. If she clearly doesn’t have time to talk (more so at the gym), don’t interrupt her mid set to talk lol. But I don’t think it makes sense to assuming that a girl doesn’t want to talk to you. Maybe she doesn’t, in which case you disengage pretty quickly, but you’ll never know if you don’t try. Who knows how many potential relationships and experiences you miss out on just because you assume they don’t want to talk to you.

liquidbonerjuice · 2021-08-23T17:00:44+00:00

"i go there to work" the best chance you have at socializing and getting to know people is where you are the most. work, the gym, your favorite restaurant, the fucking moon. you won't ruin your fav place just bc you ask somebody out or find them attractive. i'm writing this at the gym with a girl that left me on read after shooting my shot right next to me. it's not awkward, shes just like every other girl at the gym. but i guess if you are bothered by rejection at the gym then don't do it. but if you count every place you go to regularly, your options are limited. i've gotten rejected by 3/3 i've talked to at the gym. i'm batting a .000, but i damn well will do it again.

socozyinhere · 2021-08-24T01:14:14+00:00

They lift lighter weights than us dudes but they concentrate on form and technique and ensure they get that right.

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