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pitterpatter812 · 2021-08-04T17:14:34+00:00

Why wouldn’t you start dating now?

bean_addict · 2021-08-04T19:46:31+00:00

Get rid of the mentality that if only you had X, you could finally do Y. It's a delusion that keeps us from doing what we want in life.

2021-08-04T17:30:51+00:00

Many potential partners can be very accepting of your current life if you're making a genuine effort to better yourself/career/ everything.

Almost no one in their 20s has everything perfect and making excuses that you have to wait will happen forever.

Allowing yourself to make excuses will keep you in the same life that you lead right now. Make changes starting today and create the life you want. No one else is going to do it for you.

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-08-04T20:21:29+00:00

Have you read Harry brownes how i found freedom in an unfree world? May help.

Also helpful for you will be any of the works of Albert Ellis or david Burns plus the books no more mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty.

Don’t let you own mind keep you in chains

dudeab1des · 2021-08-04T17:27:05+00:00

Fuck society "norms." As long as you're not breaking the law, do what makes you happy.

I'm 58 and hooked up with a 20yo coworker

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-04T19:17:07+00:00

the age of consent is 16 here and we don't have any age gap laws at all.

It's bilogically normal to be sexually attracted to girls who have hit puberty no matter how old you are. We're hardwired to do so. Besides, 28 really is still pretty young

For reference i've hooked up with girls who are 18 (and even slightly younger) fairly recently, and i'm a fair bit older than you.

Are some girls gonna be creeped out? Probably. Not to worry. Are some girls just not gonna be interested? Of course. But that is the same if you are hitting on 30 year olds and not 18 year olds. Some girls are even gonna be INTO the fact you're older. All you can do is keep shooting your shot. If people think it's 'creepy' that's on them. Half the men judging you are just worried about looking creepy themselves (so they pretend it's dusgusting and that they could never be sexually attracted to that 18 year old with big boobs and tiny waist and pretty face lol).

In terms of having your life in order - it depends on what your goal is. That stuff might be important if yuo're trying to get a steady girlfriend (good job, your own place etc), but if you just wanna be banging young girls/have one night stands etc, then none of that stuff matters one iota. I've got countless examples of friends who are in a lot of a worse life situation than you (older, no job, live with parents etc) who get laid just fine

MinMaxJunkie · 2021-08-04T17:16:03+00:00

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thelambofdeth · 2021-08-04T18:05:31+00:00

Ayyy same age and I feel very similar. I always feel like I'm creepy and far older than what I am. That women my age or a bit younger are just off the table.

Mr_lightning22 · 2021-08-04T19:39:22+00:00

You are at max 8 years older and these women are fully developed and can give consent/ are legal

Bruh don't worry about it

Also you are not old so how are you a creepy old man?

CrabBucketSecurity · 2021-08-04T20:42:15+00:00

r/agegap

throwwwawayyy187 · 2021-08-05T04:11:59+00:00

Who cares it’s basic biology for a man to be attracted to women younger than what age you’re

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