Throwaway account, this will probably be a long post. A little background: I'm 22, was home schooled through high school and grew up sheltered with strict parents. I've only had sex 3 times. I'm absolutely awful at reading girls and picking up on their signals.

I've always been introverted and soft spoken, and battled depression and anxiety. I made a tinder recently as sort of an ego booster, not intending to go out with any of my matches.

I'm a pretty good looking guy and I got a ton of likes. I figured, why not talk to some of these girls? I won't be risking face to face rejection. I started normal down to earth conversations with the cute ones, not trying to pick them up, and now I've made plans to meet with 5 matches and hooked up with a hot Asian chick last night. I'm on top of the world right now.

I always thought you had to be a certain way with girls. The way I saw guys interacting with girls just wasn't me, it looked completely cheesy and foreign to me. Since I've been talking to girls on tinder, I've purely been being myself, not trying to pick them up at all.

Last night I met up with the afore mentioned girl. We made plans to smoke weed then walk around downtown. We smoke, and I ask what she sees in the clouds as the sun sets. I put my hand on her shoulder as I point to what I see, then slowly move my hand down her chest. My hand's in her shirt when she stops me and says she thinks the guys on the level of the garage above us can see us.

I ask if she wants to move and she says yes, to give her 5 more minutes. I start to touch her thigh and then ask if she still wants to move and we get into my car and go to a more private spot.

I pull down the top of her dress so that her tits are out and move my hand down her dress, touching her stomach, till I reach her pussy, and I rub what feels like her clit. As I rub it I can literally feel her muscles contracting as she sighs and touches my arm, definitely seems like she's having a good time.

She asks if I want to have sex. And of course I do. I start to unzip my pants, and she flips out. I'm new to this, so I didn't know I saw supposed to let her do it, so I say sorry and put it away. She says something about having manners, and I just say if you don't want to fuck it's ok. I don't know if that was a "shit test" or genuinely a fuck up on my part. Well, she pulls my dick out and starts giving me a handy. I tell her I don't have a condom, so we go to a gas station and I buy a box.

We go back to the parking garage, move to the back seat and I start fingering her. As I rub I feel a sharp ridge that feels like bone. I rub that and she likes... So I keep doing it and I swear I felt her squirt. As I'm rubbing her, she puts the condom on and puts me inside her.

So ensues the most awesome sex. I was fingering her, rubbing her asshole, we were biting each other, making out, she told me to choke her... drenched in sweat the whole time.

I came without realizing it, don't know how that happened. She realized I wasn't hard while I was inside her. She tried to get it up but I was done, so she got out and walked down 2 levels to her car... I don't exactly know what happened, I was too high to know why she was upset.

I know I fucked up several times and made mistakes and embarrassed myself, I know I'll never hear from her again. But I still feel like I succeeded while being my actual true self, and that feels amazing. I already feel more confident in every area of my life. Plus, we had fucking awesome sex, I felt like a pro, when I was just enjoying myself touching her body and doing what felt good. It came naturally, without experience. All because I just let myself do what felt right.

I've unmatched all the girls I thought were boring and I'm only swiping on hot girls now. Even if the ones I've been talking to don't come through, I still feel like I can get laid again, even without tinder. Totally new outlook. I feel like now I can get with that hot girl at work I'm digging on.

TL;DR: succeeded in finally getting laid by just being a nice guy, being myself and just going for it. I feel like I've reached the confidence level I've always belonged at.