Last week I was doing a cross country drive and wanted to stop at a lot places, you know.. do stuff, see the world, hit on women, etc... This ment meeting a lot of new faces, making some friends, and just enjoying my trip.

In Phoenix, I had a female friend (that if we're talking numbers, easily a HB9.5) that moved out there not to long ago with her boyfriend, also a good friend of mine. Last Saturday we went out to celebrate one of her friend's birthday. We drive over to the birthday girl's house to get the night started. Lets just say that hot girls like to make friends with other hot girls.

We arrive and it's a chill little two bedroom place with about 8 peeps. Birthday girl is married to husband dude. He's a really cool dude, we strike up a great conversation we all went to the same university. I find out from him that the ladies are either all married or have been in relationships forever. I say to myself, cool deal, just gonna have fun hanging with them tonight. I'm not the type of guy that dances in the breaking-up-relationships octagon. (Though I loved this Audi commercial.)

We then hit up the bars and more lovely ladies join us, some are single. I do my thing. Meanwhile, my my the laides are getting hit on hard. That's to be expected, but rather than dive into specifics about each time and guy was put down very politely and moved on, there were two guys that well... didn't.

I'm chatting with one of the girl's husband just stort of standing behind the group of girls who were all buying each other drinks for the birthday gal and the next guy comes up. Oh god does the poor guy do it all wrong.

The first guy comes up and starts Kino immediately with the B-day girl, to which she brushes his hand off right away. Then a second guy (dressed exactly the same as the first) comes in and pretty much does the same thing to another one of the girls.

These two guys were starting immediately with Kino, being very cocky, laughing loud, and came off as threatening. They were trying to physically move the girls one spot of the bar to the within the first few seconds of them all meeting. I couldn't hear what they were saying, but they were trying wedge their way into the group. One guy put his arm around another girl, and she was trying to remove his hand from around her waste. I see this then me and the husband are about to step in but then my long time HB9.5 friend comes in a just destroys both of the guys.

She shoves both of them back. "You need to fucking leave, leave my girl friends alone, GO!" The one guy still tries to run game on her, "I'm not fucking around..." rather than backing off, the guy pushed and attempted to put his arm around her waist. Again. Well..

There goes the drink.

At this point, they finally got the idea. They left socially shunned for the night. A good 20 people saw my friend play the drink tossing game. Oh my, that was funny. I hope they learned something.

Afterward, I asked what had happend. One girl said "He was grabbing me, and just all up in my space. He was being an asshole and a jerk. I don't give a fuck in you look good, he was a fucking asshole." too which I replied "Yeah, he got your drink too." That lighten the mood. She went to get another drink.

As she was, I chatted with the girls briefly about what those two guys said...

"He was just rude, I didn't know him, why the fuck would he put his hand around me like that?" And another: "He said I have money... I don't fucking care if you have money"

TL:DR

So gentleman. Know how to acquire the knowledge of who's dating who, or who's married to who. Take a look at those left hands for that ring. Ask "How do you guys know each other?" or a variant of this question.

Introduce yourself to the guys of the group, they can help if you're cool, or at least tell you who's single or married.

This: Kino Escalation Ladder

When a girl shoves you back and tells you to leave, take a step back and ease off, or get a drink to the face.