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InfieldTV · 2013-09-11T02:03:14+00:00

However, the let’s just be friends speech should just be a warning sign that you are acting like a faggot, and you need to correct your behavior.

-----This line is money.

Dweebl · 2013-09-11T14:40:22+00:00

Does nobody else think this guy is a total asshole?

InfieldTV · 2013-09-11T03:56:05+00:00

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chelbski-willis · 2013-09-11T17:32:53+00:00

I assume that OP bossed this girl around with a hint of humor, the sound of a smile? Charming insistance? The way I read that, I would have told him to fuck directly off. Nobody puts baby in a corner.

EDIT: That being said, I think this is good advice. You can only be friendzoned if you agree to that arrangement. Well done, OP.

ChicsKill · 2013-09-11T18:15:39+00:00

This is so true. It's all attitude. I had a girl I met a while back where I acted too much like a fag. I was not assertive enough, when we went out she talked about her troubles with her on and off BF..anyway you can imagine that I didnt get anywhere and was in the friend zone.

I took a break from her and readjusted..came back weeks later and was my normal self. I had nothing to lose at this point. I'd see her out and be physical, make fun of her a little and she loved it. Still, I didnt get sucked into any feelings, I just went on my business.

Now she has been out with me more and more..asks me to do stuff, holds my hand, tells her GFs I want to fuck her, and sneaks kisses when her GFs are not looking.

It hit home to read this, because she texted me today, said she was going to have a talk with her BF and then after she wanted to go out with me and get drunk.

The best part is that I really don't have high hopes or that weak feeling that you get when you start being soft. I am just going with it - whatever happens is cool.

So yes, you can get out of the zone, but it's not even about that to me. It's about being assertive with girls and not being soft. Some girls may never see you as a guy they want to screw, but others will change their minds because your needy behavior is gone and your animal instincts are back.

Really good point about just wanting to talk to the girl instead of have sex. That nailed it right there. I think this is where many guys blow it.

InfieldTV · 2013-09-11T19:34:34+00:00

To all those that were offended by my use of gayboys and faggot: I find it amusing that you were offended by those terms which were not even used in a deragatory context towards actual homosexuals, but have no bones to pick about my general talking down to women and controlling them. Makes you look like hypocrites.

My advice is that you just take the article for what it is and quit trying to imply I'm a homophobe.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2013-09-11T19:54:43+00:00

I'd say this works in maybe 1% of "friend zone" occurences.

If she says you're just a friend, not much you say will convince her otherwise.

ianthegreat · 2013-09-11T21:05:51+00:00

Is it weird that I noticed that the last picture on that page is of the Detroit Lions quarter back Matthew Stafford?

livinglogic · 2013-09-11T12:56:55+00:00

There's no friend zone...there's "you're not an attractive guy to her" soon.

If you're attractive enough your female friends will want to bang you

livinglogic · 2013-09-11T15:01:34+00:00

Homophobic.

zomgitsduke · 2013-09-11T11:57:13+00:00

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Date	September 11, 2013 1:31 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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