How’s your luck with Tinder?

beastboi27 · 2017-11-19T05:41:33+00:00

I just deleted tinder again...

rockpaperbanana · 2017-11-19T04:29:30+00:00

My tinder is broken, no matches seem to be coming through after I swipe. currently on hold to system support,

kylerosa21 · 2017-11-19T05:42:13+00:00

Update: i now have Tinder Gold for 1 month. Let’s see how it goes

NoBsMan · 2017-11-19T11:43:33+00:00

Tinder is too mainstream now. You should approach in real life. Instead of swiping, improve yourself everyday and this will improve your confidence.

SnapSocialGuru · 2017-11-18T23:46:16+00:00

Here’s my advice to anyone using Tinder and other similar dating apps:

First, do your research.

Nowadays, there many experts (first who comes to mind is Playingfire.com) who specialize in dating apps game.

Research them.

Second, pay the premiums.

If you have to pay $6-$7 (or whatever it is these days) for more exposure, do it.

It’s a small price to pay for exponential results.

The game is rapidly changing nowadays. It’s not just about “attraction” anymore, but also how you leverage social media and dating apps.

Best of luck.

Starboy1492 · 2017-11-19T11:44:57+00:00

I don't like tinder. I've had girls say racist shit to me on there and have been stood up on dates.

plsporo · 2017-11-19T18:03:24+00:00

If you really want success, get good photo's and get tinder plus.

Ryden7 · 2017-11-19T06:40:14+00:00

Is it ever worth sending a second message if they dont respond? Sure u have nothing to lose, but u look desperate?

Also I have trouble transitioning from matches to dates, any advice?

mirj626 · 2017-11-19T13:38:56+00:00

I paid for Tinder Gold - which costs $18 - and I get 2-6 matches a day. Think of it this way: when you go on an actual date, you'll be spending at least $ 20 on drinks. You're basically paying the same amount, for unlimited access to women.

I mean people spend $20 on a large pizza and never eat it, or on booze for just 1 fucking night. Tinder Gold lasts you one month, not one night. So sack up and pay for it.

Plus I don't have to waste time swiping unnecessarily, I just check once a day who's swipped right on me - and swipe back if I like them.

TinderellaWorldwide · 2017-11-19T16:54:19+00:00

Make sure that you have six bulletproof pictures that tell a story about how you're a cool and interesting person and a bio that actually says something about you. That is worth more than what you'll get for paying. here are some good tips for writing a bio. It's all about knowing how to show yourself in the best possible light.

GainzdalfTheWhey · 2017-11-19T03:35:58+00:00

I live in a big city, I usually get 100 a week

blackleaf31 · 2017-11-19T14:47:27+00:00

Non-existent. Been trying for months. Never gotten a meetup out of tinder.

themusicgod · 2017-11-19T14:02:02+00:00

Forget Tinder Gold or Plus - you need Swipely - its basically the ultimate Tinder hack and allows you to like multiple girls (up to 200) at once.

Tinder is a numbers game, for every 100 girls you match you may actually meet up with less than 5 IMO

Ive been using it for 2 years and my results have been so so -ive matched closed to 700 girls, been on around 30 dates, 10 or so lays... conv rates are low.

Swipely definitely helps me save time swiping l/r

boredyeah · 2017-11-19T16:02:12+00:00

I get matches and first messages from women. I also don't even message a lot of women.

BWVids · 2017-11-20T23:08:36+00:00

Bad because I dont have many good pictures of myself and Im too self conscious to take good selfies lol

ubersecurity_no · 2017-11-21T14:14:18+00:00

I get 2-3 matches a day (I don't swipe, just look at the one swiped me)

I match them and see if anybodt start talking.

1/10 start talking.

So I try get the talk over to snap.

So 2-3 matches a day, one over to snap a week(ish)

Not in the mood for dates, so I just keep them warm on snap and watch the well for red flags.

I delete 2-3 on snap a week to to keep off the uninteresting ones.

Will try bar tonight, old school and many years since.

Guy_fawcks · 2017-11-19T10:19:44+00:00

90 matches in 4 days after a shitty breakup.. We'll see about dates soon

Edit: Not machinegun-swiping either..

tbrmd · 2017-11-19T02:35:58+00:00

Here’s what you do bro. Get the best pics you can find, maybe a shirtless pic that SOMEONE else took, some ones w you and friends out in public and one w a girl. If you do lame pics or ones where you’re obviously trying hard then girls will sniff that out like a dog. On the internet dating game you want to be cool chill, act like you have a life and it’s just an app you hop on every once in a while.

When it comes to profile mine is something simple but it tells a lot. “Money is the motive 💰, you only live once, be about it” That tells I’m making cash, and I️ wanna have fun. BAM you’re already interesting and mysterious.

Now matching w females is a game. You have to say the right thing in order to go anywhere with them. For me to weed out and ones that would’ve wasted my time I️ say a simple “hey”. If they don’t respond be happy because you just saved yourself some hope and time. When they reply it’ll probably be something along the lines of “what’s up, hey, how r u doin” just reply w something simple and ask “you wanna hang out and chill sometime?” If they don’t reply be happy because a girl only gonna say yes to someone she would chill with. From there get their Snapchat or # and set up a date. Good luck

Edit: idk why this got downvotes to infinite but this works for me all the time. I️ was just sitting w my friends on tinder explaining this method. Literally within one hour I️ opened tinder and had 5 new messages. It’s Saturday night and they went out of their way to message me. Idk maybe it’s because I’m pretty good looking but do whatever works I’ll keep taking the females 🤷🏽‍♂️.

solive93 · 2017-11-19T09:12:38+00:00

If they don’t respond just say “You suck at responding :P” usually they respond after that.

Swaggy_Mcswagson · 2021-11-30T22:45:32+00:00

Bought tinder gold for a year deleted it after 4 months of nothing. Pretty much sums up my life with women.

Title	How’s your luck with Tinder?
Author	kylerosa21
Upvotes	59
Comments	83
Date	November 18, 2017 11:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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