Most women that have had a half-way decent childhood are not attracted to men who are mean, self-centered, arrogant, obnoxious or indifferent towards others. Instead, it is the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk that account for why women are attracted to them. Fortunately for humanity, these positive and attractive characteristics are not mutually exclusive to being an jerk. One can cultivate these positive attributes separately from the other negative traits.

Self-centeredness can be a characteristic of a man who is fervently pursuing what he deems as his purpose in life.

Arrogance often correlates with a man who has great belief in himself.

An obnoxious person typically believes that what he has to say holds value.

Appearing indifferent can be a trait of a man who has abundance and is secure in his environment.

Thus women are not attracted to jerks per se, but instead to confident men, who are secure with themselves, know and go for what they want and do not let the opinions of others faze them.

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