Do yall go out to just cold approach or does it just happen?

OpinionThink481 · 2026-06-28T00:35:40+00:00

Just a reminder that you don’t actually need people in general to do this for you to do it. If you go out just to practice thats perfectly fine simply because you say so. Period. Your actions don’t require social consensus or social approval to be valid on their own simply because you have the ultimate authority or do whatever you want to do.

So if your question is “is it normal to do it” the answer it’s irrelevant whether it’s normal. You do things because you want to even if they are not normal. It’s not your duty to do what’s normal. Being normal is optional.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-06-28T03:57:14+00:00

I can only speak for myself, I just focused on becoming more social in general. Making comments to strangers, striking up random conversations, once it becomes an ingrained habit, you will naturally strike up conversations with women you find attractive as well.

tensukexD · 2026-06-28T01:10:24+00:00

Both.

I used to go out just to talk to women.

Also "just happened" as I was doing my daily life.

I was too shy so I just practiced every single moment I could.

silver54 · 2026-06-28T06:13:34+00:00

gotta go out and practice deliberately

RedditFan3510 · 2026-06-28T10:07:58+00:00

Huh? You have to go fucking outside.

I ALWAYS go out with intention of meeting woman. That's the only way it works fam.

Sendittor · 2026-06-28T15:10:59+00:00

Get out there now. Go. Do not wait for an answer. Move your ass. It will "just happen" when you are not sitting on the internet asking for permission.

Once you have an idea of what it is like, every moment is a chance to interact. You don't just go out and "do game"; you "are game" because you "have game". It's you, you develop game and if something "just happens" you can apply game fundamentals to not fuck it up.

First: clean, groom, co-ordinate, posture, move your ass, GO

MoodyButGroovy · 2026-06-28T18:54:37+00:00

Yes I do that. I used to drive 2 hours away to a nearby city specifically to cold approach. You can look up 'Sarging'. As I got more accustomed to doing it I came back to clubs and bars closer to when I live.

TBearYCF · 2026-06-28T00:36:27+00:00

Sometimes I get bored and go out just to see who to cold approach just for the fun of it. Other times it’s in the course of other normal activity.

papacreepmane · 2026-06-28T02:53:59+00:00

Either or depending on situation. When I was younger sometimes Id have a day where I would just go and practice to get over the fear/better at talking. Now that I dont have the fear anymore, it happens more naturally.

Life-Ad-8908 · 2026-06-28T04:14:00+00:00

I go out just to socialize, say hi to strangers, make new friends, so asking out women won’t be as daunting.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-06-28T04:44:57+00:00

Once I had spent a chunk of time doing cold approach, stuff started happening naturally. But cold approach changes you as a person.

ControlGood8979 · 2026-06-28T07:21:41+00:00

Go about your life and look for opportunities to inject yourself into women conversations. Ask female staff in shops questions and while doing so be bit charming. Just cultivate likeability.

YourFavorite2Tool · 2026-06-30T22:24:10+00:00

There isn't any..

YourFavorite2Tool · 2026-06-30T22:39:05+00:00

I am Busy

YourFavorite2Tool · 2026-06-28T00:39:18+00:00

I wouldn't know I am a loner..

Comfortable-Tart-420 · 2026-06-28T01:12:47+00:00

im gonna try setting aside like an hour a day to walk around with the sole objective of day gaming and picking up women. its too hard for me to approach women "naturally"

Title	Do yall go out to just cold approach or does it just happen?
Author	lloydarias
Upvotes	8
Comments	35
Date	June 28, 2026 12:22 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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