Does attractiveness really matter?

BrunoFromBrazil · 2021-06-16T11:59:06+00:00

Looks do help, but in most cases it's a 'bonus'.

Yes, there are some chicks who care A LOT about your looks - but not the majority of them.

In general, any girl a handsome guy can get, he could also get if he wasn't handsome (considering same level of game, status, etc) - if would just be a bit harder.

I have ugly friends who get loads of girls, handsome friends who get loads of girls, ugly friends who never get laid, handsome friends who never get laid.

Don't worry too much about it, look your best and focus on things you can change (status, game, etc).

Murfdigidy · 2021-06-16T12:00:10+00:00

I know this is long and I've written it before but it's worth it to post here....

The #1 aphrodisiac for all women is confidence.... Know it, understand it, live it. You see bad boys project a certain level of confidence which girls find very attractive.... Bad boys have I don't give a fuk what anyone says or thinks, I'm gonna do what I want to do. Girls love this, they find it sexy because someone who doesn't care what people think come off as confident, bold, cool, sexy.

So you need to project this and if you see any good pua they do this in a way that's even sexier than being a badboy. Puas are confident as hell, they're not afraid, and if they are, they never let on, they're bold, different, and never ever ever look for reassurance from a women. That's another key, never look for reassurance you should already be sure of yourself. If you project this you'll look sexier than a bad boy. Girls want nice guys, but they want them to be studs, you can project this. I have many girlfriends but I know I could elevate sexually with most of them because I'm sexy, I flirt, I'm confident, bold. I'm not bragging to you cause I don't know you, I'm saying that to prove a point. You can have lots of girlfriends without ever being friend zoned since you're sexiness doesn't go away.... Here's my example, if you're friends with a gorgeous girl, that's great, her sexiness doesn't go away right? You're still friends with her right? The same can be done with men, men have the same ability to always be sexy to women and women they're only friends with, just like a super hot girl is always sexy.

I'll give you a couple rules to follow from here to be attractive...

Never ever look for assurance from a women, ever. Don't say is this cool, do I look cool, do you think I'm smart, funny, blah blah blah. You should know you're the man, if you ever ask for advice you always shape it in a way where you aren't coming off needy. Example, hey how does this shirt look on me? She says, I like it's nice. You're response, please you know I make this shirt sexy. That's both confident and funny, girls LOVE THIS. do it
Which gets me to my next point ALWAYS banter with her. Bust her chops in EXACTLY the same way you would your guy best friend. Don't be nice guy that's needy, be the nice guy that comes off as a ball buster. Call her out on shit, tell her she's a dork, acting like a nerd, she has no game, she needs to step her game up if she's gonna hang out in public with you. All this is funny (which girls love) and confident as hell (which girls love even more). Do this all the time
Be well groomed, fresh breathe, nice Cologne (not too much), and dress a little better than your friends.
Remember #1 rule.... Project confidence at ALL TIMES and never ever look for reassurance from a women. Confidence is the hardest to achieve because it's all innerself improvement, it takes months years to develop, so work on it everyday and just like working out it will take forever to see results but then you'll look back and all of sudden you'll say wow I'm way more secure with myself than I was a year or two ago

You do this and not only will you attract lots of girls as friends, all those friends will want to bang you.

ObjectSpirited494 · 2021-06-16T11:01:28+00:00

Attraction is not always physical, especially for women. Remember that. The way you articulate yourself, your demeanour, even your accent can attract women.

MalfuTheBrave · 2021-06-16T10:18:58+00:00

Attractiveness is not just looks. So yes, attractiveness really matters.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-06-16T11:48:51+00:00

Very few men are so handsome that they’ll swim in pussy regardless of how they act and very few men are so ugly that they have zero chance to date anyone.

Most men fall into the middle in the sense that your actions will determine if you get your balls licked at the end of the night

ladymicheee · 2021-06-16T11:46:46+00:00

well, attraction (which 95% comes from looks) is a necessity. We dont sleep with a guy we don't think is hot/attractive

but it doesn't mean you have to look like a classic male model. Different girls have different tastes in what hot looks like

SellingOrphans · 2021-06-16T10:49:45+00:00

Attractiveness matters, looks don’t

cyrusol · 2021-06-16T10:55:23+00:00

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cyrusol · 2021-06-16T12:13:34+00:00

Attractiveness is the wrong question.

Someone can be attracted to someone else but not be aroused by them.

You probably want to know what arouses women but you asked for the wrong thing, so you get all these nonsensical politically correct answers.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-06-16T17:08:47+00:00

Of course looks matter..

Everything does.

It's like sales or anything else in the world - everything matters.

princess199711 · 2021-06-17T12:51:47+00:00

Beauty is subjective.

Title	Does attractiveness really matter?
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Date	June 16, 2021 10:10 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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