Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?

liftingnstuff · 2025-05-27T16:19:56+00:00

Conveying that you have a high value life full of interesting things will increase attraction yes.

great_account · 2025-05-27T17:03:43+00:00

It does increase your attraction to a certain type of girl. If you have great seats to a game(which is known to be expensive) or you post a great view from a difficult to get into rooftop bar, some girls will slide in your DMs hoping you'll invite them.

Here's the crux, these girls don't actually like you. They like the stuff and the status. You might even get some pussy out of this, but I would imagine that you'll find this ultimately meaningless. Now, I think meaningless experiences have their own value in shaping your perception of yourself, so if that's what you're chasing, go for it, but don't expect that void in your soul to go away.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-05-27T17:11:43+00:00

It’s a double edge sword. On one hand yes it’s obvious it will increase it. But on the other hand, she’s most likely expecting higher standards from you.

Here’s an example of what really happened to my friend:

he posted all the events that he went to, hoping his crush will pay attention to them. Which is true. Both of them went out for a couple of dates; but long story short she thought that he’s up there financial and social wise. It’s not like she’s a gold digger, tho. She makes 6 figures, too so she thought he’s around her level. But most of the events he went to were just because he’s got friends/connections inside or because his boss took him there.

reezyreddits · 2025-05-28T02:45:19+00:00

It did 10 years ago. Now I'm in my 30s, not so much.

But in my 20s, a girl invited her own self back to my apartment with plausible deniability, based on the kitten I had been posting on my insta. Hey, whatever works. 😂

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-27T17:10:07+00:00

Many true high value people will actually do the opposite and may not allude to their wealth to deter golddiggers. Believe it or not, plenty of guys out there want a genuine connection with someone. Money/status helps a great deal to expand the dating pool. But you also want someone whose priority isn't just a lavish lifestyle.

That's more with online dating, though. High status people generally would not need to find dates online.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-05-27T18:41:08+00:00

Yes it definitely does. It also builds trust and comfort, especially the more you show your face and even speak into the camera. If you do it well enough, you can even convince girls to come straight to your place for dates as opposed to having to take them somewhere first.

PeterLamb87 · 2025-05-28T07:16:46+00:00

If you are using your IG as a dating app, or using a dating app, you are going to need some sort of social proof pictures. If you dont use it as a dating app and want to increase attraction of someone you already met, I would limit the posting tbh.

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-05-28T08:12:59+00:00

My socials are fairly dead but that's because there's not too much going on in my day to day. I would imagine it could only help, as long as it's not meaningless content like memes etc

deltsnarmsforbiaches · 2025-05-28T21:08:13+00:00

of course , without a single doubt in the grand scheme of things if you just look at it from a results perspective as a game of numbers , because it does depend on wich women will be attracted by it , no surprise its the slutty/narcissitic ones but hey its a decent strategy to get laid if thats your goal

Title	Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?
Author	d_thstroke
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Date	May 27, 2025 4:07 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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