During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.

kingcal · 2013-04-23T13:52:27+00:00

It's like when you say, "I'm not good with names." and you remember her name - she loves that. Be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I don't think you know what that idiom means.

JelleFm · 2013-04-23T10:40:44+00:00

I just recently started applying the stuff that I read on the internet and on this reddit, but I found that this link is very helpful for your texting game.

In short, I try to suggest a date, which then goes into asking her number to settle it. I try to only use texting for setting up the first and potentially second date.

In case you didn't suggest a date before having the number, your style would probably work best ;)

nobody2000 · 2013-04-23T14:54:42+00:00

I think there's a lot of power in taking a woman out of her comfort zone - the easiest date-to-F-close situations for me are when I find out the girl I'm with is kind of a homebody. Going out for sushi followed by a show downtown is usually a good way to portray yourself as a leader, as interesting, and as long as you can keep up the sexual vibe through kino and talking, you shouldn't have a problem.

Now that was just an example of the power of removing someone from their comfort zone...

Here's the beauty in texting. Over the last 10-12 years, texting has sucked EVERYONE into a new comfort zone. So...that means a simple phone call - something EVERYONE relied on in the 90s and prior - is now "stepping out of your comfort zone." It's so funny it's sad.

If you insist on speaking on the phone with a girl you #-closed with, you'll make a great deal of headway.

TheIslander829 · 2013-04-23T13:47:59+00:00

you're going to get a girl's number

Why? Getting her number only delays what I want, which is the sex. Getting her phone number is a measure of last resort after I know sex isn't gonna happen that day and couldn't get a k-close either.

who wants to know every detail of your life

You're still not supposed to be answering her questions. Every boring question has a better response than the actual answer she asking for.

"Let's grab coffee/lunch and we can actually talk in person :)"

Bad. Coffee/lunch/dinner is counterproductive.

If what you want is the girl putting as many dates, lunches, dinners, and coffee hangouts between you and the sex you want, then yeah, you can start off with lunch and coffee. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's also the quickest way to end up in the friendzone.

If, however, you do want to have sex at some point, you're better off inviting her to come to a bar for a few drinks. I'm not saying lunch or coffe won't ever work, I'm just saying your odds are dramatically better if you go for drinks from the get-go.

Game's main objective is to bridge the gap of separation between you and the girl, and lunch/coffee isn't gonna bridge that gap at all... you're sitting apart from each other in a setting where you're not really gonna be able to kino escalate as easily as you would in a bar or night club.

Congratulations, you're going out on a date.

If yow want to be having sex, going on "dates" isn't the way to go, my man.

Never, ever wait for sex. It's sex first, then relationship, not the other way around.

http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

Edit: WTF is wrong with this fucking sub, man? I'm the guy with the results most people here are looking for, come back here to post some wisdom on how to actually go about doing things, l link to Rollo Tomassi, and get downvoted for it... jesus fucking christ...

jungle-boy · 2013-04-23T17:12:57+00:00

In one situation, amplifying worked. In the others, girls stopped responding to me and then proceeded to jump in a relationship with another guy. They later on told me it was because I wanted too much sex.

After doing this a lot, it seems that food dates or non sexual interaction will keep her longer the best. I only say that because I always get sex but never a relationship. You don't seem to agree? Would love it if you started writing posts

spacepack · 2013-04-23T17:26:34+00:00

I'm not super big on texting either, but I think it's important to build some sort of comfort-level before going straight to asking for the date (unless a level of comfort was previously established).

I'm not saying that you should have an all-day text marathon, but at least throw some texts back and forth then go for the date. A lot girls may not like how direct you're being.

big_bav · 2013-04-23T21:54:18+00:00

I'm not sure, if you've got strong text game you can turn a potential flaker into a strong first date.

If you get the impression she's v interested, then yes, I totally agree. Be direct. But someone you met in a bar is more likely to take more tentative steps before seeing you again.

Definitely a good call on the "I'm not much of a texter" line though. Top work.

tirptirptirp · 2013-04-23T08:40:29+00:00

women are weird.. damn

kilik2049 · 2013-04-23T10:05:11+00:00

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FrankyFortress · 2013-04-23T14:47:54+00:00

The hashtag killed it for me. Good advice though.

During a #Close, a quick way to get a date.

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