If you're going on a date, make a reservation and chat with the hostess for a minute on the phone.

I did this by accident the first time, but it flows so well. If you're taking a girl out on a date - first of all, make a reservation somewhere. It shows that you are a leader and know exactly what the plan is. None of this, "What do you want to do?" bullshit when you pick her up.

When you call to make a reservation, ask the host or hostess what their favorite meal is. Make small talk, be friendly, say you've never been there. Chances are, they'll be working when you show up.

This is how it usually plays out for me: I show up date in hand, say my name, and the host/hostess lights up because of our conversation earlier.

It shows some social proof to my date, a bit of a DHV even, and the hostess puts you in the best seats available. They always wonder, "How does he do that?"

TL;DR Women love social, outgoing men, be social.