Flirting examples that worked for you

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-05-12T12:03:19+00:00

Make good eye contact. Make her laugh,smile, feel at ease. Tease her in a playful manner.

Say things like "No way" "I don't believe you" "Come on" "For real?"

For example if you two are playing a carnival game and she misses the target say "God you suck". It's a playful tease.

When you two are talking be sure to say things like "Oh really?" "tell me more about that."

Get close to her. When there's a break in the conversation and she just stops and stares at you or she looks down at your lips, go for the kiss.

StoneColdJane · 2025-05-12T21:19:08+00:00

Wanna fuck, worked for me always.

becomesharp · 2025-05-13T00:16:19+00:00

Humor comes before flirting, man.

80% of flirting is humor, so if you can't do humor, don't try to force flirting. Focus on getting good at humor and playful teasing first.

Otherwise you're trying to learn calculus before you've learned arithmetic.

I_Luv_Procastinating · 2025-05-12T12:35:21+00:00

Instead of specific screenshot examples, here are the core principles.

Push/Pull or Pull/Push
Pull is a compliment
Push is a light hearted insult

Example: You look so hot in that dress. Too bad you're so short though.

Advanced Example - (Assuming there's already good rapport), you can physically do the full motion and swift left in front of her face (swiping left implies you're rejecting her as if it's a dating app). After that, you can physically pull her closer to you.

Flip the Script
Make it as if she's chasing you instead of you chasing her

Example: "I love how you're trying to charm and seduce me - we'll definitely go on a date now"

You can honestly just use the same examples I just mentioned and then just plug in your own words to make it more natural.

jitendra_nirnejak · 2025-05-15T01:55:38+00:00

Flirt is a just a playful way to show intent. The goal is to create a "we" vibe, shared energy, shared tension, but always tilt the dynamic so she’s qualifying herself or pursuing your approval. Be bold, tease, and don’t be afraid to push boundaries to spark emotion.
Ex.

Her: "I make really good spaghetti and meatballs."

Basic (Weak): "Nice, I love a girl who can cook." (Too safe, no tension.)
Improved (Playful): "Oh, you’re pulling out the chef card already? Gotta warn you, I’m picky—impress me." (Challenges her to qualify.)
Polarizing (Advanced): "Spaghetti, huh? You’re gonna have to do better than that to get me hooked, trouble." (Bold, implies she’s chasing, nicknames add intimacy.)

Her: "I’m really into hiking."

Basic: "Cool, I hike too." (Boring, no frame.)
Improved: "Hiking? Alright, you and me, mountain trail, but you better keep up." (Creates "we" frame, playful challenge.)
Polarizing: "Oh, you’re one of those nature girls? Bet you’d try to outpace me just to show off 😏" (Teases, flips frame to her chasing.)

Her: "I’m really good at dancing."

Basic (Weak): "That’s cool, I like dancing too." (No spark, no frame.)
Improved (Playful): "Oh, you dance? Alright, you and me, dance floor challenge—let’s see if you can keep up." (Creates "we" vibe, light challenge.)
Polarizing (Advanced): "Dancing, huh? Don’t think you can just twirl your way into my heart that easy, superstar." (Teases, implies she’s trying to impress, nickname adds edge.)

Her: "I love a good glass of wine."

Basic (Weak): "Nice, me too, what kind?" (Safe, no tension.)
Improved (Playful): "Wine girl, huh? Guess we’ll have to share a bottle, but only if you pick a good one." (Pulls her into "we," makes her qualify.)
Polarizing (Advanced): "Oh, you’re fancy with the wine talk? Bet you’re just trying to get me tipsy to steal my secrets." (Bold, flips frame to her chasing, playful accusation.)

You also want to avoid, directly communicating intent, i.e., confessing how you feel or what you want to do, you want to leave a bit of mystery, keep it playful and keep her guessing.

towerandhorizon · 2025-05-12T14:50:30+00:00

Can't replicate vibe in text. Vibe is way more powerful than any "lines" of text. Have attractive profile/ad post, and get, at least, on to phone, if not in-person ASAP. Less words, more "interaction". IYKYK. IME, push/pull can backfire immensely, if you aren't calibrated to use it properly and/or your "dance partner" is a bit sensitive and sees it as an attack and not as playful teasing.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-12T13:47:16+00:00

Flirting in chat. Why?

You don't need to flirt in chat. It usually does more harm than good.

Chat to ask women out. Exchange some basic info, then ask them out. No flirting needed when it comes to chat.

fck_this_fck_that · 2025-05-14T11:15:03+00:00

You DON’T need to flirt in chat. Period. I used to do it when I was young, but as I have aged (40M) I don’t find flirting necessary. I just be myself , the girl flirt around. I am not a good looking guy and short - still managing to pull girls in their 20s.

If you want to flirt just keep it light - you cute, pretty, you dress up really well, stuff like that’s my good girl, my babygirl , my babe - use the word my - girls love that shit. Exchange sexual pervy memes and play along the lines of the meme. Example : I am on low calorie diet - licking you in the places you love is what I want to do…

With all this said , only interact with girls who know how to hold a conversation . Not one line answers or replies - these girls are just using you to kill time as they have nothing much going on in their life. Or they have a guy but probably he is busy and using you for entertainment. Any one line answers means she has zero interest in you.

Hope this helps.

Jironasaurus · 2025-05-12T14:55:15+00:00

I actually wrote a blog post on this, with 5 different techniques on how to flirt. Unfortunately, I cannot share the link here.

MidnightCookies76 · 2025-05-13T00:41:44+00:00

Like what kinda chat? You mean on a dating app or Reddit or text or…?

vladiVP · 2025-05-13T22:58:58+00:00

U should just feel it but flirting is about desire or also creating a romance movie

Turbulent_Cry3134 · 2025-05-17T13:54:34+00:00

It's all cope, women decides if she likes man or NOT in fraction of a second, and you can't change that with 'game/frame/whatever',

Acrobatic-Poem-6480 · 2025-05-12T15:27:14+00:00

Just be open and honest. I suggest her a massage session (regular or a special one).

Title	Flirting examples that worked for you
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