FR- total fucking newb

pooflinga · 2010-08-26T18:50:03+00:00

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MrRisky · 2010-08-26T19:57:56+00:00

Just keep progressing, and you'll be fine. Next time, don't set a deadline. As soon as it isn't awkward, approach. Should be within 3 minutes, tops, 30 seconds is best.

It's not easy, I violated the rule myself just last night. Noticed an HB6 checking me out at my favorite dive bar. She did it a bunch of times, and was only about 2 seats down from me. There was a guy on either side of her, and they were conversing intermittently. I should have just said "Hi" when I caught her checking me out. ALWAYS say hi when a girl checks you out, it's instant flush and attraction.

philosarapter · 2010-08-26T20:14:20+00:00

With a username like that, I'd say you should work on your confidence some more. I'm sure there are better things you could highlight about yourself to give youself the swagger you need.

ArMcK · 2010-08-26T21:05:13+00:00

Keep it up! And get a new username.

sockthepuppetry · 2010-08-26T23:32:07+00:00

Pro-tip: you can get away with a lot of things if you're not speaking your native language. You can be overly poetic and/or overly sexual and it will be chalked up to your inexperience with the language and the culture. Also, if you can learn the common ways people misspeak, you can exploit it, for example, I learned that "excitado", which you'd think would mean "excited" is solely reserved for "sexually excited" in Spanish. Also, venir means "to come" but if you use it in the reflexive (venirse) it means "to come", in the sexual context. I "accidentally" make these mistakes all the time when speaking to Spanish girls.

Sed_noob · 2010-08-26T19:45:29+00:00

I totally know what you just went through. In fact, I'm sure all of us have been through at least one of those experience. This is why the 3 second rule was invented. If you don't open and keep putting it off, then you're going to have a much harder time opening. Also, if the movie 40 Year Old Virgin has taught us anything, it's to not put the pussy on the pedestal. If you do, you're going to act very unnatural. Remember you're the shit and any girls would be lucky to have you talk to them. Just don't go overboard with the idea and start coming off as an American schmuck.

Don't worry too much about it as I am also in the same boat as you. I get AA even talking to strangers I have no interest in. The important thing is that you at least talked to her. Just keep at it and you'll become a natural soon.

CuilRunnings · 2010-08-26T20:21:56+00:00

Downvoted for negative title. FR - Learning experience would have been upvoted. Train yourself to find the positive in every situation and you'll be a lot more pleasant of a person (which will bring girls).

RedErin · 2010-08-26T20:31:35+00:00

Dude, I'm proud of you. You're taking the first steps, eventually you'll be giving advice to young Puas telling them about all your fantastic sexual adventures.

And yes, local chicks always dig foreign dudes. So get to it.

VampireSlayer · 2010-08-27T01:32:07+00:00

Don't even think, just approach. Like another poster said by setting some sort of imaginary deadline you are internally making yourself more nervous. This end up also making the whole thing into a bigger deal then it really is, and makes you give off a vibe that is a big deal. Girls can sense it.

joffy · 2010-08-28T19:22:42+00:00

not only are americans considered cute in a bunch countries, they're considered a ticket out of a shitty situation, this you can use for your benefit

Title	FR- total fucking newb
Author	smallpenis
Upvotes	18
Comments	11
Date	August 26, 2010 6:12 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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