What's up fellas?!
I wanted to write something for all the guys who are trying to get better with women and are constantly getting flak for it from some of their friends.
This is a point that has been made before, so I'll be quick, but this is worth repeating. Honestly it's worth repeating ever day.
Fuck. The. Haters.
If you decide to start learning seduction, you will get haters. It's as simple as that. There is an association out there for "pick up" or "game" that it's creepy or morally wrong or evil. That there's something intrinsically not right about a guy trying to improve himself and his life and his relationships.
So what do you do?
Simply move on. Ignore the crowd. Some of your closest friends will give you shit for the way you start to dress, the things you start to say, for not wanting to get shitfaced at the bar anymore because you actually want to learn to improve. You CANNOT let them rattle you. Some haters can be won over with conversation, but some haters are always gonna hate. It's ooooookaaaaaay.
The best thing you can do is ignore your haters and go live extraordinarily. Go become the person you want to be, attract better people into your life, and forget about your haters.
DO NOT LET THEM RATTLE YOU. Don't let the haters shake you from chasing your dreams.
The only way to truly avoid criticism is “to say nothing, do nothing, and be nothing.” Anyone who's ever done anything incredible has done it with haters in their face.
In sum, embrace the supportive and keep doing what you want to do. The better you get at this stuff, the more women you get in your life, the more haters will come. And the better your life will get.
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