Getting laid

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hansieboy10 · 2025-01-11T00:49:20+00:00

Foreplay brother. Warm her up, kiss her everywhere, slowly leading to more erotic places, tease her, look up how to lick pussy well. Try to make her cum with buildup and pussylicking, after that you’ll start fucking her or make her suck your cock and than fuck her.

Enjoy my man

Zestyclose_Slice_492 · 2025-01-11T00:28:03+00:00

Condoms 100%

Netherus · 2025-01-11T00:54:19+00:00

Communicate, say you like this or even just grunt a bit. Girls love knowing their man is having pleasure.

Focus on her pleasure first, lots of foreplay, kissing, sensual words whispered into her ears: "You look so hot right now.."

Andrew_stack23 · 2025-01-11T02:36:30+00:00

Condoms
Foreplay
lube(there's never enough lube)

Show that your enjoying it(i.e moaning grunting and so on)

women love men who are vocal in bed

AimlesslWander · 2025-01-11T04:36:51+00:00

Ask what she wants to try, have fun, love her and be sure to make sure sex isn't the only thing you two do, take her on dates, watch tv together, clean or cook together.

But most of all never let her think you are only using her

Don_Jefe · 2025-01-11T01:03:16+00:00

Here’s a good tip, go on google or even watch corn, and get a good understanding where everything on/in a vagina is located. No one ever tells you how hard it is to find the hole your first time, especially if it’s dark lol

Hopeful-Gate5286 · 2025-01-11T00:56:56+00:00

Try make her nut

Sword_and_Shot · 2025-01-11T11:46:43+00:00

If she's virgin aswell buy lube. Water based lube to match with condoms (oil based lube destroys condoms)

I also got broxei If she's virgin aswell buy lube. Water based lube to match with condoms (oil based lube destroys condoms)

I also got erection problems in my first time cuz of anxiety so having a tadalafil at hand is a great idea 🤝

Far-Refuse-4056 · 2025-01-11T05:04:39+00:00

Consent and aftercare

Riparony · 2025-01-11T02:38:42+00:00

On about her post similar a guy said read she comes first by Ian kerner

You can watch xxx videos just be very very careful with what you try. Listen to what your girl is responding to and make a judgement call if she like it or not.

Have fun and wear a condom 🫡

mhatter81 · 2025-01-11T01:52:02+00:00

Start seduction early, before you even see her. Send her a "thinking about you" message first thing. Let her know how excited you are to see her. Get her imagination going so when she sees you, she's already aching for you.

LogicalChart3205 · 2025-01-11T08:55:11+00:00

There was this video on pornhub about how to eat pussy. It's a nice tutorial. There's also a book for this called she comes first

Here's some advice that people here don't tell to newbies because it's considered as pre existing knowledge.

Do some cardio. Make it your lifestyle, sex is alot like excercising and maintaining it. When i was skinny i got so tired while pounding her. Sure foreplay and oral aint a issue, but when it comes to pound town. You need raw strength.

Lift weights. Figure out her estimated weight. See if you can even lift it. I thought i could just lift her legs once but turned out 55kgs is alot. So i put weights in my gym bag, made it around 60kgs, lifted it for as long as i could. Just to get an idea of dealing with that kinda weight.

Other than that yes, clitoris simulation and foreplay. Use your fingers, your tongue, your dick, your teeth. Whatever you can. Keep mixing stuff and positions.

Idk about yours but my girl gets shaking with neck kisses, thigh kisses, and lightly brushing my hand against her back and her neck.

Another lil hack. Use a last longer spray or condoms that help you last longer.

Maintain hygeine down below. Shave it down. Keep it clean and wash it so it doesn't smell like rotten fish. There's intimate washes specially for that area. Use them all.

If you get more comfortable with her you include oilplay and give her massages as well.

Keep weeknd playing slowly in background..

Enjoy

HyperionGreySolomon · 2025-01-11T02:42:12+00:00

Yeah dude, spend at least 45 minutes working her up. If you're good in bed she'll likely come back for more.

Amy_James_27 · 2025-01-11T02:48:34+00:00

start the foreplay before you get into the bedroom. you have the potential to create extreme sexual tension - be flirtatious, touchy/feely, express your desire. take care of her emotions during this time - let her know how precious she is, how grateful you for the relationship.

Dandys3107 · 2025-01-11T09:04:06+00:00

Take care about her pleasure. Women need significant foreplay and mental comfort to cum. Warm up her whole body, whisper some dirty words, experiment with different sex techniques to find peaks of pleasure in her. Observe reactions or ask her.

PeterLamb87 · 2025-01-11T09:18:58+00:00

"And also how should i make sure she is loved and not used during sex (ykwim)" Do you like her and love her? this is how yo do it, women have very high EQ, they notice.

Just go and have a good time, if you put to much thought into it you will get nervous, your dick will get flabby and then its good night irene.

IzzidJ · 2025-01-11T12:08:49+00:00

Lubricate! Don’t assume it’ll slide in without it, let alone be pleasurable. Worst case it will enhance tremendously.

chocolex23 · 2025-01-11T18:45:36+00:00

Well I've read so many comments and advice online that i feel like i won't mess up my first time (whenever it's gonna be).

sidgat · 2025-01-11T20:14:08+00:00

use her...she wants to be used

Title	Getting laid
Author	LotusHermit
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Date	January 11, 2025 12:27 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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