Getting rejected after sex on first date?

Sufficient_Might3173 · 2025-08-16T21:53:03+00:00

They didn’t have a great experience.

grizzly_peak · 2025-08-16T22:28:26+00:00

You text them a couple days later? And to “hang out” again? Not sure on the details but even in a fwb situation, girls don’t want to feel used. A nice text once she gets back from your place and light, flirty texts before going for another meetup help make her feel more than a sex option.

invisibletraveler2 · 2025-08-16T21:38:10+00:00

How do you know you gave them a great experience? Obviously there is something that makes them decide to disengage. You are the common factor. You need to clearly assess all the interactions and figure out what it was. Most likely your performance or interactions after.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-08-16T22:19:52+00:00

The problem is that you assume that these women were planning for the future with you when in reality they just wanted to hookup once and that's it. It's on you if you have expectations about future encounters that were never signed into any contract. "Wanting sex once" doesn't mean "wanting sex multiple times".

BatmansPlotArmor · 2025-08-16T21:43:27+00:00

She fucked on the first date and THINKS that YOU think shes a slut, "im not that type of girl". dont overthink it

Fanzirelli · 2025-08-16T23:08:34+00:00

If it happened once or twice I'd say some girls are weird/play hard to get after sex.

But a few instances means it's you.

Your sex game has some holes most likely. Or you're completely dropping ball post sex, but if sex was good it excuses a lot of things. You not eating pussy?

Also you might be too forward, directly sexual, making it seem like that's all you want

trmbn65 · 2025-08-16T22:58:50+00:00

Had that happen after a seventh date. At least you got it out right away!

Broofturker71 · 2025-08-16T23:14:35+00:00

I had this with a Christian girl. We were a little too crazy for first time, maybe. I spoke to her and she said she loved it too much. She felt she needed to focus on the Lord again. Lol.

No-Buyer-6278 · 2025-08-16T22:28:10+00:00

Bad dick

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-08-16T22:06:05+00:00

Ease off the trigger and spend more time getting to know.

cookie12685 · 2025-08-16T23:24:06+00:00

You should be waiting longer for multiple reasons

A1Horizon · 2025-08-16T23:25:57+00:00

It sounds like you need to learn to have better sex

HumanContract · 2025-08-16T22:32:55+00:00

Your sex wasn't that great

TorontoGuyinToronto · 2025-08-16T23:10:40+00:00

work on ur pp game

prince_of_whales_ · 2025-08-16T21:44:49+00:00

Small d most likely

ExcellentPlace4608 · 2025-08-16T23:20:20+00:00

Wait til date 3 to have sex

Title	Getting rejected after sex on first date?
Author	Magic_Bathtub
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	August 16, 2025 9:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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