Give me a gameplan.

bean_addict · 2022-01-03T14:15:08+00:00

I like Todd V's OPEN CLOSE model.

Open: get her attention

Premise: establish man to woman dynamics

Evaluation: evaluate her and try to make her qualify. In order for her to qualify, you need to build attraction first.

Narrative: build a story between you and her. What is she going to tell her friends about you?

Close: get her number, instant date or pull

It's a simple, yet quite practical model. Note that the phases can and should overlap with each other.

The model also ensures that you know how to make the interaction move forward

Legitimate-Benefit69 · 2022-01-03T15:51:08+00:00

Cup a fart in your hand and then toss it at them for the push part. At first they'll be disgusted by the smell and move away, but then they'll come back, impressed by your confidence, aim, and diet.

cormacru999 · 2022-01-04T01:52:31+00:00

Be honest, show interest, not in their appearance or how attracted you are, in other things, start with neutral stuff, tv shows that are popular, or movies. I would avoid the entire "seduction" gameplan, most of it is very misleading & really preying on you not teaching you how to meet women. Just be human.

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2022-01-04T07:11:49+00:00

I think Leo from Actualized has a great video on this foundational stuff. Basically strong eye contact and your desire for her (if you're not shitting your pants) should make the conversation emotional by default. Getting close to her. Escalating physically (google Kino escalation ladder).

If you like her, and you're both talking, and you keep staring into her eyes and being close to her, squaring up, having strong voice, it's going to be emotional.

Just keep looking at her face, and if she looks not happy, stop doing whatever you just did, back off and try again later.

When I hook a girl and we're holding eye contact things get emotional automatically. The conversation is just background music playing around the emotional dance.

pranakarama · 2022-01-03T18:33:09+00:00

I'm a complete newbie, i will go out to approach for the first time tomorrow. What are some good basic openers.

Phoenix-King77 · 2022-01-03T16:23:27+00:00

look up defund simping on YouTube and go to his cold approach

socialanimal_us · 2022-01-03T17:25:55+00:00

Checkout www.YouTube.com/socialanimal

excentrik-art · 2022-01-03T13:10:29+00:00

Intrigue

Rapport

Attraction

Escalation

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-03T13:20:23+00:00

Have you tried being normal?

IamRocksteady · 2022-01-03T17:02:40+00:00

You might want to learn about the London Game model. That's what I am using usually. There are plenty of YouTube videos about it.

5_7pickup · 2022-01-03T22:04:28+00:00

I'm doing 30 minute free coaching at this time. You can refer to my field reports to see if I'm someone you want coaching from.

And just a public disclosure, I am not selling anything at this time. I'm just trying to get a feel for the coaching role and see if I like it.

Title	Give me a gameplan.
Author	Matt_Bigmonster
Upvotes	71
Comments	44
Date	January 3, 2022 1:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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